I have a friend who has a lot of experience with online dating. She said that what she’s learned is that women need to approach men by writing to them first, and not just wait for whoever contacts us. I think you’ve given the same advice, right?
She also told me about an attractive friend of hers who’s my age (49) who didn’t put her photos up online. She would contact men she was interested in and offer to send them photos individually. That way she avoided being bombarded by all the riffraff. What do you think of that approach? Should I post online dating profile photos or just reserve them for the men I like?