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Why Your Assumptions Are Keeping You Single

assumptions You’ve probably heard the old adage, “assumptions make an ass of you and me”. And while you may think you understand how bad it is to make assumptions about people, you’re probably still doing it occasionally on a subconscious level. It’s hard not to. Our primal brains judge others because they want to keep us safe. If we sense danger, we keep our distance. And that can be a very good thing.

But it can also be dismal, especially in dating. Your assumptions might very well be the reason you’re still single.

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Help! My Daughter is Dating a Narcissist

daughter is dating a narcissistHi Sandy,

I need your advice on how to help my 17-year-old daughter stop dating a textbook narcissist. He is controlling, manipulative, and a relentless mental abuser.

She is addicted to his texts, even though he calls her a slut and curses. She stands up to him a bit but always ends up apologizing. She constantly tells him how great he is and that she loves him so much. 

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The Challenge of Speaking Up in Dating

speak your truth in dating

I’m sharing something I read on Facebook. The woman who wrote it is a successful entrepreneur who went on a date that ended terribly. She regrets that she didn’t have the courage to speak up and let this man know that it wasn’t okay to do what he did. It’s a great illustration of the challenge of speaking up in dating, even on the very first date…

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Shocking News: Emojis Improve Your Sex Life

improve your sex lifeIn a recent study by Match.com, it was revealed that singles who used emojis in texting had more sex than those who did not. I’m not kidding. “54% of emoji users had sex in 2014 compared to 31% of singles who did not,” said Dr. Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist at Rutgers University who helped lead the study. Emojis can improve your sex life?

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7 Tips for Effective Co-Parenting After Divorce

coparenting after divorceDivorce can be one of the most stressful events you’ll ever experience. There are practical matters such as dividing property and moving, as well as the emotional issues such as mourning the dream of a happy marriage and wondering if you’ll ever find love again. For your children, however, divorce has its own challenges. Their world seems to be falling apart, and nothing will ever be the same for them. Your marriage may be crumbling, but your children need you and your former spouse to hold their world together. Keep the following in mind as your plan for the next steps in co-parenting your children. 

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4 Tips to Reignite Your Relationship

your relationshipBeing in a relationship can be incredibly rewarding and wonderful. Many people who are single daydream of someday having a partner they can share everything with, from their most mundane thoughts to their life’s goals and dreams. That doesn’t mean that being in a relationship is all peaches and cream though, and it certainly doesn’t mean that it’s always easy. I know this from experience in my own relationships.

In fact, experience has taught me that relationships are hard work, and even when you do your best to maintain them, that spark that you had early on in your relationship can feel like it’s starting to fade from time to time. It can happen even if your relationship isn’t having any problems.

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