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How to Keep the Spark Alive in a Long-Term Relationship

long-term relationshipExperts in relationship and intimacy dynamics, Drs. Rob + Janelle Alex, Ph.D. are mentoring couples around the globe. As best selling authors, their newest releases are the Mission Date Night Adventure series. They also cohost the Mission Date Night podcast. Passionate about married dating, Secret Animal Powers, and Transcendent LovemakingTM Rob and Janelle are obliterating long-standing relationships myths. Following are loosely transcribed highlights of our radio interview, How to Keep the Spark Alive in a Long-Term Relationship. 

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Don’t File For Divorce Before Reading This!


file for divorceHenry Gornbein is a specialist in all aspects of family law, author of the Spousal Chapter of Michigan Family Law, and host of the award winning cable tv show, Practical Law. He is a frequent blogger, including for the Huffington Post, and a guest on Divorce Source Radio with the Ask Henry Segment. He is a partner in Lippitt O’Keefe Gornbein in Birmingham, Michigan, and the author of “Divorce Demystified, Everything You Need To Know Before You File For Divorce”.  Following are loosely transcribed highlights of my radio interview with Henry.

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4 Volunteering Ideas to Improve Your Love Life

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Between work and maintaining a social life, it can feel as if there’s no time left for personal development. If you aren’t currently pursuing endeavors that add a deeper meaning to your life, it may be affecting your love life. By engaging in these types of projects, you are more likely to exude confidence and appear more attractive to potential partners.

One of the easiest ways to boost your personal fulfillment is to volunteer for a cause you believe in. Here are a few ideas to try in your community, and — who knows — you might even improve your love life and meet your next date while volunteering.

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5 Warning Signs that Your “Nice Guy” Is Actually a Jerk

jerkToday’s guest post is by Sarah Williams, a lifestyle writer specializing in dating advice . Her mission is to help busy men of all ages to find true fulfillment in social life. You can connect with Sarah on her blog.

Women often behave irrationally when it comes to dating and emotions. I’m a prime example of this. I would never admit that I like to date jerks, but somehow I keep ending up with them. Perhaps I subconsciously eliminate the good guys and feel attracted only to the biggest jerks.

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Confidence, Self-Reliance, and Independence Beyond the 12-Step Programs

self-relianceTina Tessina is a licensed psychotherapist in Southern California, with 30 years of experience in counseling individuals and couples. She is known on the Web as Dr. Romance. Tina is also the author of 13 books in 16 languages, including Money, Sex and Kids: Stop Fighting About the Three Things That Can Ruin Your Marriage (Adams Media) ) Dr. Romance’s Guide to Dating In the Digital Age, and The Real 13th Step: Discovering Confidence, Self-Reliance and Independence Beyond the 12-Step Programs. Following are loosely transcribed highlights of our radio show, Discovering Confidence‬, Self-Reliance & ‪‎Independence‬ Beyond the 12 Step Programs.

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My Boyfriend Still Has an Active Online Dating Profile!

"HeMy Boyfriend Still Has an Active Online Dating Profile!Dear Sandy,

I’ve been dating “Harry” for three weeks, and he asked me to be exclusive. But I noticed last night that he’s still on, and I am upset and confused.

I want to bring up that he is still online even though he says he wants to only date me. What does this mean? I want to be able to trust that he means what he says.

How do I talk about the fact that my boyfriend still has an active online dating profile without turning him off?


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How to Stop Attracting Unavailable Men

unavailable menHi Sandy,

Last year I was contacted out of the blue by someone I had a long distance relationship with nearly 20 years ago!

I am naturally cautious, but being single and coming up to 60 (though most people think I’m at least 10 years younger), I thought “why not go for it, what have I got to lose?”

He lives about 3 hours away, so the distance is there but not so far.

The passion was still as great. I’ve stayed with him and he’s stayed at my place, I’ve met all his friends and he talked about us going to Paris, going sailing on his boat, etc.

This was six months ago. Then about a month ago I sensed a slight withdrawal/distancing from him and I tried not to be needy by calling too much. Then he finally phoned me and said that it wasn’t working out for him, our worlds are too different, and he can’t give me what I need/want.

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