What’s Last First Date?

  • Are you a woman over 40, successful in most areas of your life, but wonder why it’s so hard to find lasting love?
  • Are you fed up with the quality of men you’re dating online or offline (or not dating at all)
  • Are you sick of trying to morph into something that doesn’t feel like you in order to ‘hook’ a  good guy


Sandy WeinerYou’ve come to the right place!

Our Mission:

I believe it’s never too late to have the love you deserve. It’s your birthright. When you live your most vibrant and authentic life, you’ll attract your most loving and aligned partner. Be the love to attract the love you want. If you’re bringing negativity and stale ways of relating to men, you’ll get the same results you’ve always been getting. Change your actions and thoughts to magnetize the high value partner you yearn for. I want to help you attract the best relationship of your life!

How dating coaching works:

midlife coupleCoaching is based on accountability and consistency. New habits yield more powerful results; real shifts that you can actually sustain. We’ll work together to identify your past dating and relationship roadblocks. You’ll learn how to shift out of unsuccessful mindsets to develop new habits that will make you quite irresistible. Through this deep inner work, you’ll gain clarity about the most dignified dating and relationship practices. You’ll soon be ready to unveil your best, most attractive self, and attract your best partner for a lasting, loving relationship.

What clients are saying:

Read what one of my most recent clients had to say about our work together. She chose to invest in herself to change some limiting relationship patterns and create the space in her heart and her life for a healthy, meaningful romantic relationship:

“I came to Sandy devastated and heartbroken after a messy divorce and a failed 18-month relationship with someone I thought I would marry. There were tons of red flags I had refused to pay attention to, and I was heartbroken when it ended. Through Sandy’s coaching, I learned that the missing factor in both of those equations was ME.  I had lost myself.

Through Sandy’s advice to “date myself first” I won back the self-love, dignity and self-respect I had abandoned so long ago. I was able to clearly articulate what was important to seek in my mate and not settle for anything less. I also learned to trust my intuition.  

My turning point came when I was able to tell from early on the telltale signs of a dysfunctional relationship. I let that man go with dignity. I saved myself from heartache.  I was never able to do this for myself before being coached by Sandy! 

Shortly after coaching with Sandy, I found the best, most amazing relationship of my life. We’ve been together for two years. Sandy, you changed my life!!”

Debbie D., Stamford, CT

New levels of joy and love!

My clients tell me that I’ve moved them forward in ways they have never experienced before, even after years of therapy — all within just weeks of working with me. They are experiencing shifts that bring them to levels of happiness they never thought possible. My clients have found boyfriends, long-term love, increased peace and fulfillment, more optimism, and a new sense of hope.

What you can expect from me:

I walk my talk. As a woman actively dating after my divorce, I bring first-hand knowledge and wisdom about what it’s like to be over 40, dating in the 21st century. Like you, I am navigating through the sometimes confusing world of online dating. I am always learning new ways to talk to men and get different results. I share my extensive knowledge with my clients.

I am a woman of action. I kick butts, but always from a place of love. I want you to rise up to your highest self. I don’t settle for the same old answers or excuses. I challenge you to push yourself to do things differently and attract the love you want. And, I bring my warmth and sense of humor to my coaching, because if you can’t laugh at life, you’re in big trouble!

Last First Date can help you find success in love through our many coaching programs.

Whether you want a fifteen-minute coaching session to help with a dating issue, the 1-month online dating success program, the 3-month program for a complete love life makeover, or my Inner Circle group coaching, there is something for everyone. You can also sign up for my blog and get free advice on dating.

Schedule a complimentary 15-minute consultation to explore how I can help you go on your last first date.