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Dinner Date: When to Invite Him Over

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When’s the right time to invite a man over for a dinner date? This man invited himself over after the first date. Too soon?

One of my Facebook group members posted this question about when to invite a man over for a dinner date:

I had what I thought was a very nice first date tonight..lasted 3 hours and we talked easily about all kinds of subjects and laughed quite a bit. He said he’d like to see me again. When I got home he sent a very sweet email about all of the reasons he liked me.

I said I had a nice time too and then he sent me this: “I think you should invite me over for a nice home cooked meal in the not too distant future. Ball’s in your court…”.

Really? After a first date? We had talked about cooking, and he asked if I was a good cook. I said yes, but this seems a bit inappropriate to me after a first date. I responded that I wasn’t ready to invite him over my house yet and I needed to get to know him better and feel more comfortable. Thoughts?

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Sexuality, Disability, and the Power of Love in Midlife

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Sexuality. Disability. What are the challenges of partnering with a disabled partner, and how can you find true love, no matter what?

I had such an inspiring conversation with Dr. Richard Tscherne and his partner, Jaimie Adams. We spoke about sexuality, disability, and the power of finding true love in midlife.

Richard Tscherne is a licensed clinical psychologist and a certified rehabilitation counselor with over 20 years experience in the field of disabilities. Having overcome his own obstacles related to his cerebral palsy, he empowers others with disabilities to adapt a positive mindset. He divides his time between San Diego and New York with his partner Jaimie Adams.

Below, you will find highlights of the radio show,  Sexuality, Disability, and the Power of Love in Midlife. Learn how to be an empowered dater with a full life, no matter what!

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How to Deal With Anger in Relationships

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Reneau Peurifoy, author of Anger: Taming the Beast, discussed how to deal with anger in relationships in this episode of Last First Date Radio.

How do you deal with anger, especially if you’re in a relationship? My radio guest, Reneau Peurifoy, answered that question and more in episode #223, Anger in Relationships: How to Tame the Beast. Reneau holds a master’s degree in counseling and is the author Anger: Taming the Beast, 2nd Ed. His first book, Anxiety, Phobias and Panic, has gone through three revisions and sold over 200,000 copies.

After twenty years in private practice as a marriage and family therapist specializing in anxiety disorders, he retired to teach at a local College in Sacramento, California. After fifteen years of teaching he is now and spending his time writing, speaking, and seeing people with anxiety-related problems as a pastoral counselor and sharing videos on practical life skills on his YouTube channel.

Check out the highlights of our radio interview below.

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The Number One Key to Finding True Love

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Love is attainable to all who seek it. Here’s the #1 key to finding true love. Can you guess what it is?

Judith Costa is an Unconditional Love Coach, Seminar Leader and Speaker, with a Master’s Degree in Psychology and Psychotherapy. She helps people overcome their inner blocks to love in order to find true love. She uses different techniques such as Coaching, the Akashic Records, Past Life Regression, Astrology, and Dream Interpretation. She has been researching about Soul Mates for more than 15 years, and her work involves teachings about what is a real Soul Mate connection, how to improve Self-Love, and how to manifest the kind of relationship all of us want. Judith offer workshops and retreats around the world.

I loved our interview on Last First Date Radio. Judith and I are very much aligned in our mission to help people fall in love with themselves before seeking a partner. Highlights of the show below…

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9/11: Looking Back With Sadness and Forward With Urgency

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Remembering 9/11 as a wake up call. Time is short. Don’t put off what’s most important in life and love.

9/11/2001. You probably remember exactly where you were when the Towers were hit. I worked in my children’s school as an art teacher at the time, and the news came on before the kids arrived. We watched the planes fly into the World Trade Towers. We looked on in disbelief. How could this happen? What did it mean? Who was responsible?

As the story unfolded, we had no idea how to go about our day. Do we close the school and go home? Are we safe? Do we tell the kids? If so, is there a guidance counselor who will know what to say? How does one even begin to comprehend the pain and sadness and grief?

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Are You Marriage Material? Take the Test!

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Are you marriage material? Take Dr. Matthew Anderson’s test BEFORE you commit to marriage.

Dr. Matthew Anderson has been called “a romance miracle worker” and “a revival love artist”. His four decades as an author, inspirational speaker, and relationship coach give him an unusual depth of insight and compassion for what couples really need in order to revive (and resurrect) their passion and deep connection.

Singles rave about his ability to get right to the heart of what they need to do to find Mr. or Miss Right, and couples frequently say that Dr. Matthew saved their marriage and showed them the path to new heights of love and partnership.

I loved our interview on Last First Date Radio, Are You Marriage Material? Take the Test!

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Communication Hacks for Dating and Relationships

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This new app can help with communication and flirting with your online dating match. Check it out…

Ray Christian is the founder and CEO of Textpert, an app for “Drama Solved Anonymously”. You ask questions about dating, you get answers. You’ll also improve your communication skills in texting and emailing dates.

After years in the corporate world, Ray founded Textpert as a platform for young adults to get relationship advice from anonymous friends. He has become an expert in the dating world and social media, and has been featured in the Huffington Post, BuiltInLA, SoCalTech.com and many other outlets.

Ray was a recent guest on Last First Date Radio, discussing how the communication landscape in dating and relationships has changed.

Highlights of the show below…

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