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Should I Post Online Dating Profile Photos?

online dating profile photosDear Sandy,

I have a friend who has a lot of experience with online dating. She said that what she’s learned is that women need to approach men by writing to them first, and not just wait for whoever contacts us.  I think you’ve given the same advice, right?

She also told me about an attractive friend of hers who’s my age (49) who didn’t put her photos up online. She would contact men she was interested in and offer to send them photos individually. That way she avoided being bombarded by all the riffraff.  What do you think of that approach? Should I post online dating profile photos or just reserve them for the men I like?

Peggy

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Am I too Picky About Men?

too picky about menDear Sandy,

I’ve been lurking on Match.com to see what’s out there, and I have to say, I am thoroughly unimpressed and often kind of put off.  I wonder if I’m too picky about men online. Most men have horrible photos, can’t write anything substantive, are looking for someone to run/bike/do marathons with, want someone 10 years younger, and try to impress with cars/motorcycles, baseball hats and photos of them in sleeveless t-shirts with the guys.  Ugh!

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He Keeps Talking About His Exes!

he keeps talking about his exDear Sandy,

I’ve gone out for over a month with a man who keeps talking about his exes on almost every date. It makes me feel uncomfortable, especially because he doesn’t talk about how he feels about me. Should I wait it out or is it a red flag that he is still thinking about these girlfriends from the past?

“Kay”

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Arielle Ford: How to Manifest The Love of Your Life

Arielle FordArielle Ford has spent the past 25 years living and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is the author of the international bestseller, THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction. Arielle has been called “The Cupid of Consciousness” and “The Fairy Godmother of Love” and yesterday on Last First Date Radio, she shared her secrets to how to manifest the love of your life. Her show, Big Love with Arielle Ford is heard on Contact Talk Radio where she shares the secrets to finding and keeping love and making life a spiritual adventure. She lives in La Jolla, CA with her husband/soulmate, Brian Hilliard and their feline friends. Her websites include www.soulmatesecret.com and www.soulmatekit.com

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Are You Attracted to the Wrong Man?

attracted to the wrong manDear Sandy,

I am single and 52. How can I stop being attracted to the wrong man?  They treat me badly, and I have the courage to let them go at the very beginning of the relationship. I then start missing the good times and forget the reason why I left . I keep mentally and emotionally hooked to them – even for years – and close myself to any other relationship.  I sometimes go back to them for a very short time to receive the same bad treatment. I always try to convince myself that I did something wrong.  I am so used to this pattern that I cannot feel how it would be to be in a relationship without stupid games, lack of respect or an abusive “love”. Why do I do this to myself when I want just the opposite?

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She Wants to Know: Does He Love Me?

does he love meDear Sandy,

I have a question about a man I know. He has flirted with me, stares at me across the room, looks me up and down, stares at my face, lingers around me, asks trivial questions, says my name all the time, gets nervous and blushes around me, big smiles, jokes around. But one day he mentioned his girlfriend. It was forced and not related to the conversation. Since then, he has been intentionally rude to me, ignores me and glares at me – yet continues to stare at me across the room and try and get my attention. What is his deal? Does he love me or hate me? Thank you for your time.

Jasmine

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5 Great First Date Ideas

first date ideasA study done by the French financial services firm AXA found that participants on a first date knew within the first 12 minutes whether they were interested in the other person. Body odor and bad breath were tops in the off-putting category. While good hygiene is critical, a great venue won’t hurt your chances for a second date, either. Here are five unique first date ideas to make a positive first impression.

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