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Why You’re Not Finding Love Online (And What You Can Do About It)

Ever wonder why you’re not finding love online? It’s probably because you’re making this huge mistake in your online profile.

Do you hate online dating? Ever wonder why you’re having so much trouble finding love online (or offline)? It’s probably because you’re making the number one mistake most people make in their online dating profile. I came across a personal ad on Craig’s list that illustrates the key mistake that most people are making in their profiles without even realizing it.

The following profile is a bit extreme, and you’ll quickly see why this woman is having so much trouble finding love. By studying her profile mistakes, you may recognize a few ways you’ve been unknowingly sabotaging your love life and discover how to improve your profile and attract in a quality man. Are you making any of these mistakes?

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How to Attract a Man Capable of a Thriving Relationship

What is a thriving relationship? And how can you attract a partner who is capable of the healthy loving relationship you want? Find out here!

My radio guest, Kim Von Berg, is passionate about helping singles and couples have a healthy thriving relationship. She is the founder of Thriving Loving Relationships, and has been in practice since 1997. Kim is a communication specialist, a certified coach approved by the International Coach Federation, an NLP Practitioner and a “Calling in The One” certified coach. She also holds a masters degree in Humanistic Psychology. 

She believes that we have been given the gift of intimate relationships to learn how to love in our deepest capacity so that we can share this love in all areas of our lives. You can find highlights below for episode #252: How to Attract a Mate Capable of a Thriving Relationship.

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5 Ways to Make Dating Easier and More Fun

Dating can be hard, but it doesn’t have to be! I’m sharing 5 creative ways to help you make dating easier and more fun so you can find true love.

According to a Gallup poll, the percentage of adults who report being single and not living with a partner has risen from 52 percent in 2004 to 64 percent in 2014. That may be good news for singles who feel like everyone else in their life has paired up. But an increase in singles does come with its challenges. With a broader dating pool to choose from, it may take longer to find that special someone. Fortunately, there are ways to make dating easier for both parties. Turn dating into a fun and meaningful experience that you actually look forward to with these five tips:

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Using Archetypes to Gain Clarity About Your Ideal Mate

Want clarity about your ideal mate? Identify core values, and use archetypes to heal from past trauma, says Theresa Vargo, relationship health coach. 

My radio guest, Theresa Vargo, spoke about how to gain clarity about your ideal mate. She’s the founder and creator of the Art of Intimacy. She is a relationship health coach, intuitive guide, and spiritual advisor. Her career as a photographer, spending many years behind the camera, photographing weddings and families, led her to the path of intimacy, sexuality, and relationship health.

In the process of healing her own pain, she has left no stone unturned when it comes to emotional health and happiness.

I loved our interview on Last First Date Radio about using archetypes to gain clarity about your ideal mate. Check out highlights of the show below.

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5 Surprising Lessons Learned from Buddhist Nuns about Dating and Relationships

What is love? This infographic has some surprising insights into how Buddhist nuns view dating and relationships—and LOVE!

Dating and relationships can be frustrating, confusing, and amazingly wonderful, especially when you find true love. What is love?

That’s one of the popular questions ever asked. There is no right or wrong answer to this universal question. Everyone has their own definition. Children, teenagers, adults, singles, people in a relationship, and the broken-hearted ones, all have their own perspective on what it really means to love and be loved.

If you’re someone who believes that you never stop learning about love, and you can learn about love from anyone, you’ll enjoy these surprising lessons learned about dating and relationships from Buddhist nuns  in France. Jessica Semaan, Founder of The Passion Co., compiled these lessons for us and shared in this infographic made with Visme.

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How to Stop Dating Emotionally Unavailable Men

Want to learn how to stop dating emotionally unavailable men? My radio guest, Jonathon Aslay, shares great tips on how to date successfully after 40!

Want to learn how to stop dating emotionally unavailable men? My radio guest, Jonathon Aslay, chatted with me about this important topic. He is known as America’s Leading Midlife Dating & Relationship Coach. Jonathon is a defender and protector of women’s hearts around the world. He helps women transform from attracting Mr. Wrong into finding their Mr. Right. 

The author of Why Men Pull Away, Jonathon is like A GUY SPY to the male mind who truly understands the way a single or divorced man thinks and acts. He’s a master at helping women recognize and distinguish the difference between men who are emotionally unavailable from those who are truly ready for love. Highlights below for episode #250:How to Stop Dating Emotionally unavailable men with Jonathon Aslay. And don’t forget to check out Jonathon’s free gift below!

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A Man’s Thoughts on Online Dating After 50

After his wife died, author, Chuck Epstein, discovered that re-entering the dating scene wasn’t easy. Here’s his story of online dating after 50.

My radio guest, Chuck Epstein, was married 33 years when he lost his wife to cancer. Having recently moved to Florida for her treatments, he didn’t have much of a support community, so he attended a grief support group. He was the only man in a group of 15 women. When the leader asked, “Who is ready to date again?” he was the only one to raise his hand!  

He wrote a memoir about his adventures in online dating after 50, You Don’t Think I’m Beautiful. It’s filled with the ups and downs of dating after 50, especially if you live in Florida with many retirees. You’ll laugh at some of his crazy stories, and other dating adventures will tear on your heartstrings.

Check out highlights of our interview on Last First Date Radio below.

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