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- Are you single again after a long-term relationship or a divorce?
- Tired of first dates that don’t develop into a relationship?
- Are you ready to throw in the towel on dating?
Don’t do it! My experience as a dating coach has taught me that it’s possible to find your soul mate. And I also know that it takes tough love to find true love.
Anything worth having requires straight talk and hard work.
As your dating coach at Last First Date, I understand that there is no easy fix for love. Finding love is a process and that process is not simple. It requires hard work and commitment, a commitment of time and emotional energy to get your mind, body and spirit ready for such an important life change.
You have to find yourself before you can find love.
Have you really looked at yourself? I mean into yourself. Deeply. You might understand bits and pieces about who you are: your personality (I’m a little pessimistic), behavior (I eat too many sugary foods), or your personal history (my divorce ruined my ability to trust men). The problem is that these pieces are not connected.
Think of Last First Date and date coaching as the navigation system in a car.
You tell your GPS where you are and where you want to go and it gives you directions. It shows you the route, step by step. It also shows you where you are from above, looking down. What I do is similar.
I help you get the big picture in your love life.
I help you see yourself and your life through many angles, so that you understand how all of the parts of yourself fit together. You will begin to see the landscape of your life through a panoramic lens.
Once you see the big picture, once you see yourself in a completely realistic way, all of your good points and all the points you want to work on, all your successes and all your disappointments, you’ll be able to understand yourself better and make permanent positive changes in your love life.
And once you understand YOU, once you have your exact coordinates mapped out, you’ll be able to get from where you are right now, without success in love, to where you want to be; on the road to finding your soul mate.
Some people tell you what you want to hear. I tell you what you NEED to hear.
In fact, I tell you what your friends are afraid to tell you. Yes, I am honest and tough, but always in a loving and supportive way. Which is why I can help you much more than your friends can.
To find love, you need to be grounded in reality.
In order to do that, you need to confront reality. You need to be willing to hear things about yourself that you may not want to hear, or accept things about yourself that you haven’t wanted to accept.
Last First Date can help you find success in love through our many coaching programs.
Whether you need a fifteen minute coaching session to answer a dating questions, an hour of content-rich coaching, my full program of one-on-one ongoing coaching, or my Date U group coaching, there is something for everyone. You can also sign up for my blog and get free advice on dating.
Please let me know how I can help you get from your first date to finding your soul mate.




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