6 Steps to Staying Safe When Your Ex Turns into an Obsessive Stalker

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Sometimes after a breakup, things don’t end well. If your ex turns into an obsessive stalker, use these 6 tips to help you stay safe and sane.

According to the CDC, 7.5 million people are stalked each year in the United States. 61% of stalking victims are female, and 45% are male. Research estimates that victims know their stalker about 70% of the time. Most often, people report being stalked by a current or former intimate partner. If you feel that you might be a victim of stalking, use these 6 tips to make sure you stay safe, even if it is your ex who has turned from a seemingly kind and gentle person into an obsessive stalker.

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How to Reclaim Your Self-Esteem After a Breakup

After a breakup, your self-worth can suffer greatly. Take these small steps every day to reclaim your self-esteem and build your confidence. 

Reclaiming your self-esteem after a breakup can be one of the hardest challenges you face in your life. Your happiness and peace of mind revolve around your self-esteem, which is why it is so vital to not only reclaim your self-esteem after a breakup, but to retain it.

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3 Reasons Why Men Are Scared to Commit—and What You Can Do About it

Discover the top 3 reasons why men are scared to commit to you. Immediately know if he’s emotionally available or if it’s time to walk away and say, NEXT!

Wondering why men are scared to commit? I get it—dating after 40 can be challenging. Whether you’re online or offline, the process requires a lot of effort and time, and often, you’re left with a feeling of defeat, rejection, and just plain exhaustion. But then, every once in a while, you find someone special online. You connect and start to fall for him, only to find out that your potential partner doesn’t want to become exclusive. I want you to avoid this potential pitfall. With that in mind, here are three reasons why men are scared to commit to a relationship.

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How to Be a Woman of Value When a Man Stands You Up

What do you do when a man stands you up? He seemed amazing, you made a date, and then he didn’t show up. He apologized the next day. Do you forgive him?

I want to share a “woman of value” story with you. It’s about when a man stands you up and what you can do about it so you don’t feel powerless anymore. It’s about standing in your integrity, even when you feel rejected by a man. It’s about something that just happened to me. I think it’s important to learn lessons from every experience we have in dating. So, here’s my teachable moment about how to be a woman of value, even when a man stands you up!
 
I met a guy a few weeks ago. The first date was amazing. We both didn’t want it to end. He walked me to my car like a gentleman. I liked that. And for the first time in a LONG time, I was interested in a second date. He really liked me, too, and asked me out for the following week. All was good. Or so I thought…

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Why Do Men Disappear and Reject Me?

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Ever wonder why men disappear? Whether it’s after a few texts or phone calls, or even a few weeks of dating, when men disappear, it sucks. Try this.

Dear Sandy,

I think I am in the beginning stages of a new man disappearing. We’ve only been talking for five days. Wednesday and Thursday he texted me all day long, he called me, sent kiss emoticons. Today, I didn’t hear from him until I texted him this morning. His replies to anything I sent were short, no emotion, certainly no kisses. We haven’t met in person yet, but I already felt spoiled by his attention. So, I straight up asked him if something was wrong because he seemed distant today. I got no reply.

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How to Get Over a Breakup

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If you want to know how to get over a breakup, Brett McGinn can help. Check out his top tips for how to get over a breakup.

Brett McGinn is only twenty-six years old, but he helps people who are dealing with relationship issues, especially those who want to know how to get over a breakup. He believes that people don’t let their guard down enough, and it causes missed opportunities. He says it’s time for a fresh conversation about love and relationships, unfiltered. How does love make you feel? Love can be responsible for pure ecstasy, and it can cause heartbreak. When it causes the latter, he’s there to help.

I discussed how to get over a breakup with Brett on Last First Date Radio. Highlights of the show below. 

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