How to Discuss Sex With Your New Partner

You’re in a new relationship. He wants sex before you’re ready. Matt Marr has great tips on how to discuss sex and more…

My awesome radio guest, Matt Marr talked about how to discuss sex with your new partner, where our sexual beliefs come from, how to change our sexual narrative, and so much more. He has been called the Gay White Oprah. After receiving his Masters in Clinical Psychology from Antioch University in 2009, Matt has been helping people gain perspective and power in their lives. In his weekly advice podcast, the DEAR MATTIE SHOW, Matt dishes out advice on relationships, sex, fear, friends, job, and even makeup.

As a Narrative Therapist, Matt believes that our lives can be seen through a story metaphor with characters of Fear, Hope, Depression, Addiction, etc all contributing to our narrative. Find all things Matt at www.dearmattieshow.com.

Highlights of our show below about how to how to discuss sex with your new partner in a safe way, and how to rewrite your love story by letting go of the old stories you’ve been telling.

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How the 4 Love Styles Can Help You Find a Compatible Partner

Therapist and coach Chelli Pumphrey, believes that one of the best ways to find a compatible partner is by knowing your love style. Learn more here.

find a compatible partnerChelli Pumphrey, MA, LPC is a Love Strategist. With over 20 years of experience as a psychotherapist, she brings a level of expertise into her coaching that helps her clients overcome fear, disrupt unhealthy patterns in relationships, and build confidence in their search for love. She is a relationship expert who uses her knowledge of psychology, neuroscience, and attachment to help people find compatible, healthy, passionate relationships. Chelli offers coaching, therapy, classes, and retreats to help you get to the core of what’s preventing you from finding love. You can learn more about Chelli at http://www.authenticdate.com.

Check out highlights of episode #245: The Power of Using Your Love Style to Find a Compatible Partner.

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What Can Ancient History Teach Us About Relationships?

Who knew that ancient history could teach us so many lessons about relationships? Author John Vespasian shared many fascinating stories on my radio show.

My radio guest, John Vespasian, is an expert on ancient history. He’s written eight books about rational living, including “When Everything Fails, Try This” (2009), “Rationality Is the Way to Happiness” (2009), “The Philosophy of Builders: How to Build a Great Future with the Pieces from Your Past” (2010), “The 10 Principles of Rational Living” (2012), “Rational Living, Rational Working: How to Make Winning Moves When Things Are Falling Apart” (2013), “Consistency: The Key to Permanent Stress Relief” (2014), “On Becoming Unbreakable: How Normal People Become Extraordinarily Self-Confident” (2015), and “Thriving in difficult times: Twelve lessons from Ancient Greece to improve your life today” (2016).

I interviewed him on episode #244: What Ancient History Can Teach Us About Relationships. Highlights of our interview can be found below.


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Valentine’s Day Special: Romantic Road Trips for the Young at Heart

How will you spend Valentine’s Day this year? Dinner, roses, chocolates? Or are you up for something totally unique? Check out these romantic road trips.

Dinner and dessert—that’s how most couples will spend their Valentine’s Day this year. But you and your sweetheart aren’t like most couples—or at least you don’t have to be. This year, spend Feb. 14,  and perhaps the rest of the week, on the open road taking in the beauty of America’s backyard.

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Dating in Midlife: Insights and Wisdom Gained

If you’re dating in midlife, you’ve probably experienced your share of heartbreak. These four ladies share what they learned about dating at this age.

I had so much fun interviewing the four “And I Thought Ladies”, discussing dating in midlife. These women have been interviewed on numerous shows for their unique approach to love. They bring four decades of life experiences to document their progress in understanding the keys to attracting in love, which begins in increasing self-love. These women span the gamut of relationships, from those who are survivors of abusive relationships, to those who are now happily married for several years. These four ladies empathize with women at any stage of love, because they have been there and have literally written two books about it!

Here’s the line up of the “And I Thought Ladies”: ​Wilnona is divorced after an emotionally abusive relationship. Jade, the youngest, found her Prince Charming after many years of dating, and she’s been married for four years. Dr. Argent has two doctorates and has dated around the world. She runs many businesses and is also an author. Renee had two divorces and now owns her own cleaning service with an awesome name, Divine Destiny.

Highlights of Episode 243: Four Perspectives on Love and Marriage in Midlife can be found below.

 

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The 6 Love Styles and How they Can Help You Find Lasting Love

What are the 6 love styles, and how can they help you find love? Identify YOUR love style and discover which love style is your perfect match.

My radio guest, Dr. Kate Ferrick, is a Relationships Coach who studies the psychology of romantic love. She has helped singles find love for over ten years, and conducts workshops for singles in Southern California. Dr. Kate has been interviewed on numerous radio stations regarding her findings on romantic love and the 6 love styles.

Learn about the The 6 Love Styles and How they Can Help You Find Lasting Love on Last First Date Radio. Highlights of our show below…

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