A Fail-Safe Template for an Outstanding Online Dating Profile

If you want to succeed at online dating, your online dating profile must stand out from the crowd. Here’s a template that will make it easy to do just that!

How important is an outstanding online dating profile? If you want to find love, which I think you’ll agree is pretty significant—why wouldn’t you spend time and effort crafting the best profile essay, one that describes who you are in as few words as possible? Why, oh why, do many people post God-awful essays that tell you nothing about the person? (Do you feel my pain?)

One of the secrets to online dating success is knowing how to stand out from the crowd. So, don’t write a string of adjectives to describe yourself. You’ll end up sounding generic. Do you feel just as comfortable in a little black dress as you do in a pair of jeans? (Yawn) And then you wonder why online dating doesn’t work…

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How the 4 Love Styles Can Help You Find a Compatible Partner

Therapist and coach Chelli Pumphrey, believes that one of the best ways to find a compatible partner is by knowing your love style. Learn more here.

find a compatible partnerChelli Pumphrey, MA, LPC is a Love Strategist. With over 20 years of experience as a psychotherapist, she brings a level of expertise into her coaching that helps her clients overcome fear, disrupt unhealthy patterns in relationships, and build confidence in their search for love. She is a relationship expert who uses her knowledge of psychology, neuroscience, and attachment to help people find compatible, healthy, passionate relationships. Chelli offers coaching, therapy, classes, and retreats to help you get to the core of what’s preventing you from finding love. You can learn more about Chelli at http://www.authenticdate.com.

Check out highlights of episode #245: The Power of Using Your Love Style to Find a Compatible Partner.

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What Can Ancient History Teach Us About Relationships?

Who knew that ancient history could teach us so many lessons about relationships? Author John Vespasian shared many fascinating stories on my radio show.

My radio guest, John Vespasian, is an expert on ancient history. He’s written eight books about rational living, including “When Everything Fails, Try This” (2009), “Rationality Is the Way to Happiness” (2009), “The Philosophy of Builders: How to Build a Great Future with the Pieces from Your Past” (2010), “The 10 Principles of Rational Living” (2012), “Rational Living, Rational Working: How to Make Winning Moves When Things Are Falling Apart” (2013), “Consistency: The Key to Permanent Stress Relief” (2014), “On Becoming Unbreakable: How Normal People Become Extraordinarily Self-Confident” (2015), and “Thriving in difficult times: Twelve lessons from Ancient Greece to improve your life today” (2016).

I interviewed him on episode #244: What Ancient History Can Teach Us About Relationships. Highlights of our interview can be found below.


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Valentine’s Day Special: Romantic Road Trips for the Young at Heart

How will you spend Valentine’s Day this year? Dinner, roses, chocolates? Or are you up for something totally unique? Check out these romantic road trips.

Dinner and dessert—that’s how most couples will spend their Valentine’s Day this year. But you and your sweetheart aren’t like most couples—or at least you don’t have to be. This year, spend Feb. 14,  and perhaps the rest of the week, on the open road taking in the beauty of America’s backyard.

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11 Critical Steps for Safe Online Dating

This infographic outlines the importance of taking safety precautions and shows you how to take steps to have a safe online dating experience.

Love it or hate it, online dating is hands down the best way to find love after 40. Imagine trying to find love at this age without sites like Match.com and OkCupid, Bumble and Hinge. Do your friends set you up? Probably not. And if they do, it’s usually with someone who’s not a good fit. Most people over 40 go to work, the gym, and come home. Online dating is the place people find love all day every day. But, it’s important to take steps for safe online dating.

This isn’t to scare you and keep you from online dating due to horror stories you may have heard. Fortunately, those stories are few and far between. But, it’s important to know about safe online dating, so you can relax and enjoy the journey to find love after 40. This infographic outlines the importance of taking safety precautions and shows you how to take steps to have a safe online dating experience.

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How to Be Your Own Best Lover

Be your own best lover to attract your best partner. Try these wonderful exercises by coach, author, and nutritionist, Rebecca Clio Gould.

My radio guest, Rebecca Clio Gould is a Certified Holistic Health Practitioner, Integrative Nutrition Health Coach, Qigong and Meditation Teacher, Sexual Awakening for Women Facilitator, and Author of “The Multi-Orgasmic Diet.” She’s on a mission to help women live healthier lives, step into their power, love themselves more, experience more joy, and live life to the fullest. Rebecca has been running her own business, Elemental Harmony, PLLC since 2007 and lives in Seattle, Washington.

You can find highlights below for episode #241: How to Be Your Own Best Lover with Rebecca Gould.

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