The Secrets to Writing Online Dating Emails that Work!

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Do you struggle with writing online dating emails that get opened and answered? My radio guest, Martin Dumbleton, is here to help!

 

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My radio guest, Martin Dumbleton, began online dating after his divorce. Sometimes he would find a girlfriend and suspend the quest, but he’d start again once he had been dumped. So many of the women told him he was good at writing online dating emails that were funny, he began to collect the 

dialogues. After five years of on and off dating, he looked at the material and realized there was enough to write a book. All the dialogues in his book, I’m willing to lie about how we met: Dating Dialogues with Martin Dumbleton, are based on exchanges with real women. Their words have been changed in order to protect their identities.

You can read highlights of our conversation Last First Date Radio about how to write online dating emails that work below!

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How to Respond to an Offensive Online Dating Message

How do you respond to that seemingly offensive online dating message? This case study illustrates how one clever message could turn things around.

As a dating coach for women over 40, I find many women at this age are jaded and tired of dating online. As a result, they often write men off for what may seem like an offensive online dating message at first glance. In today’s post, I want to give you another perspective as to why men sometimes write messages that feel offensive. I’ll give you some ideas as to how to respond to those seemingly offensive online dating messages without being nasty. 

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Online Dating Profile Tips to Vastly Improve Your Success

If you want to find love, start with your online dating profile. In this short video, I share my best tips for creating an online dating profile that works!

Your online dating profile matters…a lot! In this short video interview with Sarah Hiner, President of Bottom Line, Inc., I offer my secrets to writing a great online dating profile. Some of the tips I share: 1. Stay away from clichés and time wasters. No one wants to read another profile that says, “looking for my partner in crime” or “I’m just as comfortable in a little black dress as a pair of jeans”. [*Insert eye roll*]  2. Get right into it, and tell people about the things that are important to you. 3. Stay away from vague adjectives. This isn’t your résumé, but rather an insight into your passions. 4. Use recent photos that accurately reflect who you are. Include photos that show you doing things you love doing. And more…

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New Dating Terminology: What Are Ghosting, Benching, and Breadcrumbing?

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What are Ghosting, Benching, and Breadcrumbing? Discover the meaning of the newest dating terminology in this short video I made for Bottom Line, Inc.

With the advent of online dating, there is often new dating terminology. In this short interview with Sarah Hiner, president of Bottom Line, Inc., I define some of the new terms you may encounter while exploring online dating in the 21st century!

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A Tale of My Tinder Dates in Israel

On my recent three-week trip to Israel, I went on Tinder. I was curious. What is dating like here? Here’s the tale of my Tinder Dates in Israel!

I spent the last three weeks in Israel visiting my oldest daughter and her family. They moved to Israel last August, and I’m here to help my daughter take care of her delicious newborn and toddler girls. On my second day here, I decided to log into Tinder and see what dating in Israel is like. This is a tale of my Tinder dates in Israel, and how they compare and contrast with Tinder dating in New York/Connecticut back home.

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{VIDEO} How to Stay Safe When Dating Online

In this short video, I share my best tips with Bottom Line, Inc. on how to stay safe when dating online. Online dating doesn’t have to be scary!

Online dating can be frightening to many people, especially if you’re over 40. You’re meeting total strangers through online dating sites and apps. In this video that I filmed for Bottom Line, Inc., I reveal my best tips on how to stay safe when dating online. 

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