Are you tired of feeling confused, heartbroken, or frustrated with men?

Do you wonder how to even start dating at this stage in your life?

What if I told you that dating can be easier, more fun, and more successful?

 Introducing the
Last First Date Inner Circle Program

Inner Circle

 In my exclusive Inner Circle coaching group, I help women ages 40 & over take the guesswork out of dating and relationships. I provide you with the support, dating tips, scripts and tools you need to succeed at attracting and sustaining a relationship with a quality grownup man.


In the Inner Circle, I share inside information on how to understand and communicate with men.

I will be your personal guide to help you find a true loving relationship with a quality man.

Plus, you'll get the support of wonderful women just like you in our private coaching forum. 

Jennifer G. New Jersey

“Working with Sandy I have come to value all that I bring to a relationship. I found a great guy online after my divorce and started working with Sandy to ensure I remain a high value woman for myself first and then an awesome girlfriend second. Sandy is thrilled to hear about my high points and skillfully walks me through the lows with great care. She isn’t scared to tell me what I need to hear and often has great insight into opportunities for deepening our connection. I am in love for the first time in my life! The universe provided me with a gift by putting Sandy on my path.”

Hi, I'm Sandy!

Sandy Weiner

I understand what it's like to date after 40. When my 23-year marriage ended, I found myself thrust back into the dating world at age 52 with no idea how to date in the digital age. I soon realized that there was more to dating than just figuring out the difference between a "wink" and a "flirt" on Match.com. I still had some inner work to do so that I could become the high value woman I needed to be in order to attract the best relationship of my life.

You see, in my past relationships, I gave up important parts of myself for men. I lost my power. I felt invisible. So I read every book I could find on healthy relationships. I studied with some of the best dating and relationship coaches. I became really good at online dating. And I began to enjoy the process. I learned to relax and be myself on every date. I had quality men falling for me for the first time in my life. I wanted to share my knowledge and expertise with other women, so I became a certified life and dating coach.

Now, I guide women to learn those same skills that helped me attract my amazing boyfriend. I make sure my clients take care of their needs first (instead of giving them up to please a man). I help them date with dignity and self-respect. The women I work with know how to cut the players loose before their hearts take over. They learn self-compassion and don't expect to always get things right the first time around. Dating is complex, and the more you learn about yourself, the better the outcome of your relationships.

In my private one-on-one coaching, I love helping women attract the love of their life in the prime of their life. But I wanted to help more women find love. I wanted to make my expertise much more affordable and accessible to a greater number of women. So I created  a unique and value-packed group coaching program, and the Inner Circle was born.


The Inner Circle is right for you if...

You're tired of hearing dating advice geared to younger women. 

You're ready to learn effective dating scripts & tips that work for women 40+.

You want to attract a grownup quality man and stop wasting time with immature boys! 


What will you receive as an Inner Circle Member?

  • Monthly Group Coaching Q&A Call

    Every month, I host a one-hour conference call on a pertinent relationship/dating theme. Following my short lecture, I open up the call for your questions and comments.

  • Digital Recordings of All Calls

    You never have to worry about missing a call, because every session is recorded. The digital MP3 link will be sent to you within 24 hours along with the call transcript.

  • Monthly Action Exercises

    You'll receive an exercise every month to reinforce the monthly topic. This will help you forward the learning and lead you to become even more successful at attracting a quality man.

  • Private Members-Only Forum

    You will have access to a private forum of wonderful like-minded women who are going through similar dating/relationship issues. I am actively involved in the group discussions. The support of a community is invaluable as you go through the frustration, confusion, and especially the successes of dating/relationships. There’s nothing like a great success story to motivate you as to what’s possible for you.

  • BONUS: Article on the Topic of the Month!

    You will receive one article every month, written by me, related to the monthly topic. My tips, scripts and dating tools have transformed my clients’ dating success. You’ll be surprised at how quickly your love life will turn around.

  • Discounts on Private Coaching

    As a member of this community, if at any time you'd like additional coaching support, you will receive a 10% discount on any monthly private one-on-one coaching program.

  • Surprises & Extras

    Every month, there's a surprise guest for a bonus call, someone that is hand-picked to share incredibly valuable content with you.

Listen to a Sample Q&A Call

Click the button below to listen to a sample Inner Circle Q&A Call, 
"How to Handle Emotional Baggage in Dating"

Lauren Gale-Napach New York, NY

“There is no one I would recommend more highly than Sandy Weiner as a dating and relationship coach. Sandy clearly has spent much of her life storing up her vast amount of wisdom. She has a tremendous amount of integrity in her work and in the way she lives her life. Sandy is so passionate about guiding people to living their lives with integrity, authenticity and passion in order to attract true love. She is highly ethical,  deeply compassionate, and 100% present when working with you!” 


When does the Inner Circle begin?

The Inner Circle is an on-going program designed to provide continuous support to you. You can join at any time and begin reaping the benefits of your membership right away. Our monthly calls are typically held on the 3rd Wednesday of the month, at 8:00 PM ET/7:00 PM CT/5:00 PM PT.

Once you register, you'll be added to our Inner Circle mailing list to be kept up-to-date on everything happening within the program so you can get the most out of your membership.

What topics are discussed in the Inner Circle?

We talk about everything relevant to dating after 40. Following is a list of some of this year's topics. This by no means is a conclusive list.

•  When to forgive him, when to forget him
•  How to deal with sexual pressure in dating 
•  Managing tough conversations on a date
•  Baggage handling – what to share, how to share, and when to share
•  How to amp up your femininity without giving up your power (or being fake)
•  How to recognize and quickly walk away from dangerous men
•  Balancing your heart and head in dating
•  How to recognize and fall in love with a good guy (even when the attraction isn’t a 10)
•  Understanding men over 40 (learning “manspeak”)
•  Managing expectations in dating
•  How to know if you’re emasculating men (and don’t even realize it) 
•  How to get him to commit without being the aggressor

What does the Inner Circle cost?

My private coaching averages $1,500 a month. The work I do with private clients is highly personalized, and the success rate is very high. I understand that private coaching is not affordable for everyone. That's why I've kept the price to only $37/month! 

Once you subscribe, you’ll get a welcome email within an hour with all the information you’ll need to join the private forum, plus a schedule of the entire year of calls so you can mark them on your calendar. (Note that if at any time you wish to leave the group, you can unsubscribe at any time with 72-hours notice.)

If this program calls to you, I encourage you to join me and register by clicking on the button below!

INNER CIRCLE
Monthly Membership

In the Inner Circle, you get to ask me questions on the monthly calls AND in the private forum, access to all digital call recordings, relevant & information-rich articles and exercises, and the support of other women like you who are ready to date with dignity. 

Are you ready to attract the love of your life?


Still have questions?

Please do not hesitate to contact me if you are left with any questions or concerns. We will determine if this program is a right fit for you and make sure you feel like this is a good investment for you and your future. Click on the button below to send me an email. I look forward to hearing from you!


The Last First Date Inner Circle is a monthly membership program designed to help women over 40 understand grownup men, make healthier choices in dating, and fall madly in love with themselves in order to attract and sustain a loving relationship. Once you enroll, you'll be automatically billed $37/month as long as you remain a member. To cancel at any time, please email support @ lastfirstdate.com. Your membership will be suspended within 72 hours. Audios for Last First Date Inner Circle calls and all support materials are the property of Last First Date, LLC and Sandy Weiner. Participation in any recorded call waives all rights in its further use. For full terms of use and privacy policy, click here.