He has your back, and you laugh about the same things. He’s someone you can grow with---an honest and open communicator. He makes your world a better place, and you do the same for him.
This man is not just a dream. He can be yours. Because there's nothing wrong with you. There are just a few things you don't yet know about finding love after 40. Things have changed a lot in the dating world since your 20s and 30s!
"Women who find epic love after 40 know their value, understand men, and trust their instincts about whether to stay or go." ~ Sandy Weiner
You Can Coach From Anywhere in the World!
It doesn't matter where you live, because I coach women all over the world. We use a conference line or video conferencing.
All calls are recorded, so you can listen over and over.
Improve Your Communication Skills
One of the reasons women hire me is for my expertise in communication. I will help you understand men and speak your truth with men---and everyone else in your life.
You'll be able to set clear standards without feeling harsh or mean. And you will gain more respect from everyone in your life. Priceless!
New Online Dating Essay and Screen Name
I'll write your profile essay in your words, so that it reflects your true essence. The right man will read it and say, "I want to get to know THAT woman better!"
Your screen name says a lot about who you are. Yet, most people have one that's either nondescript, or worse, it turns men off. I'll help you create a screen name that attracts in the right men.
Men are visual, and your photos are the first thing he sees when scrolling through hundreds of profiles. I'll help you post photos that touch his heart. (And if you need new photos, I can recommend a photographer anywhere in the US/Canada.)
The Deeper Work
We'll identify your dating/relationship patterns and areas that need attention.
I'll help you understand how your relationship with your parents has influenced your dating patterns, and how this understanding will help you make healthier choices.
Uncover Your Blind Spots
We all have difficulty seeing ourselves as others see us. As a highly intuitive and creative coach, I see your blind spots and help you overcome your challenges through powerful exercises that you can practice anytime.
I believe every man is your teacher. I help you have a more positive mindset in dating, as we debrief every date and learn lessons you'll apply to your next date.
Imagine being able to discuss every possible red flag before you get involved! This process alone will fast-track you on your way to epic love.
As a bonus, every private client is given free access to my bi-monthly group coaching program, the Last First Date Inner Circle. My expert guests and I cover important topics relevant to dating after 40.
This wonderful group will help you see that you're not alone. There is tremendous power in community.
I will share my best resources with you, including books, articles, and videos to support you on your journey to finding a wonderful partner.
As a radio host, I read books by the latest cutting edge authors in the field of dating and relationships in midlife. I weed through the myriad of resources so you can save precious time.
Coaching is customized to every woman's unique needs. The minimum commitment to coaching is either three or six months. (Because lasting change takes a minimum of three months, and I want your coaching experience to transform your life!)
To determine if we’re a good fit, click below to fill out a Love Life Makeover application. I’ll get back to you within 48-hours to send a link for scheduling your complimentary discovery call. If we’re not the right fit for private coaching at this time, I’ll direct you to other options that may be better for you.
“Working with Sandy I have come to value all that I bring to a relationship. I found a great guy online after my divorce and started working with Sandy to ensure I remain a high value woman for myself first and then an awesome girlfriend second. Sandy is thrilled to hear about my high points and skillfully walks me through the lows with great care. She isn’t scared to tell me what I need to hear and often has great insight into opportunities for deepening our connection. I am in love! The universe provided me with a gift by putting Sandy on my path.” [UPDATE: Jennifer and her boyfriend got married! They have a beautiful blended family and are so happy together.]
“I wanted to finally break my pattern of dating emotionally unavailable men, and I was overwhelmed and intimidated by online dating. That’s why I hired Sandy—to help me date online with increased self-love, dating and communication skills, and confidence.
Sandy wrote an excellent profile that captured the real me, selected the best pictures, and most importantly, showed me that online dating could be a positive and fun experience. I gained the confidence to be my true self when communicating with and meeting men.
I am now in a wonderful relationship with a really good man. I believe he’s in my life, because Sandy helped me step out of my comfort zone, speak up as a woman of value, and attract a man with the qualities I want and need in a relationship. Thank you Sandy!”
After my divorce from a 23-year unhappy marriage, I set out to learn everything I could about dating and relationship success. I wanted to learn why I struggled in relationships. So, I read scores of books, studied with many of the top experts, and began hosting a weekly radio show where I interviewed 100's of experts in the field of dating, mating, and relating in midlife.
What I learned is that most of us have grown up in homes that didn’t model healthy relationships. That’s why we unconsciously sought out partners who mirrored our most difficult parental relationship. And that created years of frustration and anguish.
Most of us weren’t taught to love ourselves enough. Plus, we didn't understand how men and women’s brains are very different, and why that impacts our relationships.
When you’re schooled in healthy love principles, you attract in a relationship with a man who values you and commits to the relationship. No more disappearing men. No more waiting for a man to change. No more hanging onto breadcrumbs.
I began to attract high value men, leading to several long-term relationships that were more fulfilling than any relationships in my past. While I haven't yet found my forever love, I am happy with my life. I know he's out there, and I won't settle for less than I deserve.
I want you to attract in your forever love. That's why I now teach the life-changing knowledge I’d gained over the years.
And that’s why I decided to become a dating and love coach, specializing in helping women like you find love by showing up as your authentic self with men.
With my support, you will learn to communicate your needs and wants effortlessly and honestly. You will connect to the hearts of the men you like---and know how to walk away from men who are not the right fit---without second guessing yourself.
If this resonates with you, fill out an application to help me learn more about you and see if we're a good fit.
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“I’m so excited to see what is next for me but don’t have the feeling I need to grab at straws, or men, just to complete my life. I now have the confidence to reach out to others, whether it be male, female, young, old, and share their sorrows and joys.
It’s easy for me to talk with strangers or dates without judging either myself or them. I’m not pining away for someone to rescue me from myself, but sharing myself with others. A light inside has been turned on and I’m sharing the real me with the world! Thank you, Sandy, for being who you are and giving your gifts to those in need!”
You can read more of Maureen’s story here.
“At 78, I never thought I would use a dating coach, let alone go online to find companionship. But I very much wanted to have relationships with men again after being alone for 8 years after my divorce. Sandy was very sensitive to my trepidations and listened with genuine empathy. A true professional, she expressed what she feels is absolutely essential to successfully navigating dating: being a woman of value.
I needed to increase my self-love, with the knowledge that a man would be fortunate to have me in his life, not only the other way around. Through specific exercises and visualizations Sandy helped me to internalize this in a way that made a difference.
I began to attract men in a way I never had before and to relate to them as myself. Sandy is solid not only as a professional, but trustworthy as a human being. If you are lucky enough to work with her, you’ll learn essential life and love skills as your self-worth increases, and you’ll relate to men in a whole new way.”
Sandy was a positive, gentle and knowledgeable guide through the murky waters of post-divorce dating. She helped me laugh, and when necessary, lifted my chin back up and not take any of it too seriously.
I highly recommend Sandy for her tenderness and compassion along with her positive modeling of the process of dating after divorce.” [UPDATE: Jane met the most amazing man online shortly after we began working together. They’ve been together for over four years. This is the most authentic, loving relationship of her life!]
*NOTE: This program isn't for everyone. It is only for those who are truly committed to self-reflection, facing their fears, and making changes in order to attract and sustain lasting love. If you're interested in transforming your love life to attract a quality man, please fill out a Love Life Makeover application by clicking this link.
If I feel we're a good fit, I'll send a link to schedule a call. We'll see if we click, and if we do, I'd be happy to answer any questions and work out a payment plan to help you attract the love of your life!