...to have the deepest, most authentic relationships?
What if you could...
Sometimes men say one thing ("I'll call you") and do another (you never hear from them again). Why do men promise and not follow through?
Have you ever tried to have an important conversation with a man, but know in your heart that he's not really listening? His eyes glaze over as you tell him how hurt you feel, and you can't believe it. Why won't he hear you? Does he simply not care?
What about when you tell him you're trying to eat healthy, and he brings you a box of chocolates? Why isn't he paying attention? Is he selfish - or is he just being a man?
How do you tell him you're unhappy/angry/sad/frustrated without feeling like a nag or a broken record?
"I'd rather hang out with my girlfriends!"
I get it. Talking to your girlfriends is so much easier than talking to most men.
But you want a relationship with a MAN!
You want intimacy.
You want to talk and have men really hear you.
The first step in communicating effectively is learning how to understand men.
When you understand and truly know how to get through to men, your relationships will become easier, deeper, and much more intimate.
I'll teach you how to talk to men about ANYTHING!
In this Comprehensive DIY Course, You'll Get:
Learn the secret words that make men want to open up and get closer to you!
Discover how to get men to listen to you and value what you have to say--- especially when your feelings are hurt!
Connect deeply with the men you like and have the intimate healthy relationship of your dreams!
Do you want to communicate how you REALLY FEEL to a man - without pushing him away?
A Proven System to Help You Communicate More Deeply and Effectively With Men
You will never have to second guess what to say to the men in your life...no matter what!
Here's what our happy clients have to say:
"I gained the confidence and communication skills to attract my husband!"
"Sandy is an acute listener and is able to process and decipher important information about dating. Her extraordinary skills helped me to change the way I now interpret and react to men. When we began working together, I was timid and did not believe in my “wonderful self.”
As you can imagine, this had a negative influence on first impressions, especially when dating. It was with Sandy's guidance and steady caring support that I changed my self-perception from 'I am not/I cannot', to 'I am and I can'!
With Sandy's expert coaching, I gained the confidence and communication skills to attract my husband!
Thank you Sandy, for being so pivotal to the quality of my life."
"I learned to honor my needs by speaking up when feelings are hurt..."
"Sandy taught me to set clear boundaries in order to have healthy relationships with everyone in my life.
Sandy is a great coach who is able to read between the lines and focus on what's important to help her clients grow and achieve their goals. I learned to honor my needs by speaking up when feelings are hurt.
Thank you Sandy, for helping me reconnect to the self I lost along the way.”
"THANK YOU so much for not only encouraging me to have this talk, but for thinking of such a wise and thoughtful way to begin an intimate connection..."
"I spent the night with my boyfriend last night AND I am very happy to report that prior to hopping into bed we sat on the couch and had our 'sex talk’. We discussed STDs, birth control, exclusivity and allowing time to ‘gel’ as sex partners. He was totally with me, very supportive and expressed many times how much he appreciated such a mature conversation. We both agreed that we wished we did such a thing in the past and wondered why such an obvious conversation is always over looked.
THANK YOU so much for not only encouraging me to have this talk, but for thinking of such a wise and thoughtful way to begin an intimate connection. My boyfriend and I are off to a good start."
I designed this tele-course for women - single or married or in long-term relationships - who want to learn how to talk to men and finally be heard. I've helped thousands of women learn to stand in their power and speak up when they want to ask a favor or express hurt feelings with men. They know how to ask the hard questions and say what they feel without turning a man away.
Just this morning, I got a note from a client who had been feeling rejected when a man didn't call her after a wonderful weekend away. I helped her stop the negative self-talk ("I did something to turn him off", "I'm not good enough for him").
She set up a time to talk and learn the truth. It was scary at first. But after speaking with him, her stomach stopped hurting. She was grateful to know how he really felt. She walked away with her head held high. She felt empowered---like a woman of value.
Sandy is no doubt the reason I am in a healthy loving relationship with a wonderful man! I had been single for a very long time and dated so many men who were either emotionally or physically unavailable. Often times I ignored red flags or I was too quick to write them off. I never thought it would be possible to meet someone online, much less spend the rest of my life with them.
Sandy helped me to see my value and communicate my needs without sounding needy or critical. That is what truly made the difference in attracting the right man. I have done a lot of work and knew that Sandy was special. Her wisdom and life experience is what saved my relationship that I thought would never work. Sandy has the ability to coach and guide you on how to get clarity around your needs and to be a treated like a woman of value! If a true loving relationship is what you want, trust me Sandy is worth the investment!
MP3 Recording: Balancing Your Heart & Head in Dating
MP3 Recording: How to Stop Loving the People Who Hurt Us
MP3 Recording: How to Understand Men!
What I learned in this course:
1. My well being is my priority.
2. I need to ask questions up front [in a relationship] and not be afraid of the answers. If the answer is not what I want, then I need to make a decision on how to go forward.
3. I also learned how to use the words: "I felt _______ when you did or said ______" instead of assuming. I'm learning to be more gentle in how I express myself.
I'm happy that I invested in this course, Sandy, and I'm happy that I'm working with you to improve my relationship with my boyfriend.
I'll teach you how to talk to men about ANYTHING!
In this Course, You'll Get:
Here's our guarantee: Try the How to Talk to Men DIY Course for 7 days. We've packed so much value into this course, we're pretty sure it will change your life. If you're not satisfied, just let us know and we'll send you a refund.
With the tools you learn in How to Talk So Men Will Listen, And Listen So Men Will Talk, you will effortlessly connect more deeply with men in every part of your life.
"To effectively communicate, we must realize that we are all different in the way we perceive the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others.”
Wishing you love and empowered communication,
I said to myself, "I really need to learn how to communicate with men"....and in popped your course email into my inbox.!
Thanks so much for all of the information you shared. I am a sponge for knowledge and have absorbed so much. I am already putting so much into practice.
I really believe the information will help me immensely in my next intimate/romantic relationship - it's already helping in my life in general (work, friendships, etc.). Just wanted to say... thanks!!!!
P.S.: After learning these skills, you'll never again have to worry about how he really feels about you. You'll never have to stuff your feelings for fear of not being heard. You'll have deeper, more authentic relationships with men. And your man will want to do anything to make you happy. If you don't jump on this opportunity right now you'll be missing out on having the relationship of your dreams.
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* Note: The title for this course was inspired by the work of Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish, authors of my parenting bible, "How to Talk so Kids Will Listen & Listen so Kids Will Talk."