Client Success

jennifer gardella“Working with Sandy I have come to value all that I bring to a relationship. I found a great guy online after my divorce and started working with Sandy to ensure I remain a high value woman for myself first and then an awesome girlfriend second. Sandy is thrilled to hear about my high points and skillfully walks me through the lows with great care. She isn’t scared to tell me what I need to hear and often has great insight into opportunities for deepening our connection. I am in love! The universe provided me with a gift by putting Sandy on my path.

[UPDATE: Jennifer and her boyfriend got married! They have a beautiful blended family and are so happy together.]

 

– Jennifer, Pennsylvania

 

 

I am now in a wonderful relationship with a really good man.

“I wanted to finally break my pattern of dating emotionally unavailable men, and I was overwhelmed and intimidated by online dating. That’s why I hired Sandy—to help me date online with increased self-love, dating and communication skills, and confidence. Sandy wrote an excellent profile that captured the real me, selected the best pictures, and most importantly, showed me that online dating could be a positive and fun experience.

I gained the confidence to be my true self when communicating with and meeting men. I am now in a wonderful relationship with a really good man. I believe he’s in my life, because Sandy helped me step out of my comfort zone, speak up as a woman of value, and attract a man with the qualities I want and need in a relationship. Thank you Sandy!”

Leslie B., Portland, OR

 

A light inside has been turned on and I’m sharing the real me with the world!

“I’m so excited to see what is next for me but don’t have the feeling I need to grab at straws, or men, just to complete my life. I now have the confidence to reach out to others, whether it be male, female, young, old, and share their sorrows and joys.

It’s easy for me to talk with strangers or dates without judging either myself or them. I’m not pining away for someone to rescue me from myself, but sharing myself with others.

A light inside has been turned on and I’m sharing the real me with the world! Thank you, Sandy, for being who you are and giving your gifts to those in need!”

Maureen B., Washington

You can read more about Maureen’s story here.

 

If you are lucky enough to work with Sandy, you’ll learn essential life and love skills as your self-worth increases, and you’ll relate to men in a whole new way.

“At 78, I never thought I would use a dating coach, let alone go online to find companionship. But I very much wanted to have relationships with men again after being alone for 8 years after my divorce. Sandy was very sensitive to my trepidations and listened with genuine empathy. A true professional, she expressed what she feels is absolutely essential to successfully navigating dating: being a woman of value.

I needed to increase my self-love, with the knowledge that a man would be fortunate to have me in his life, not only the other way around. Through specific exercises and visualizations Sandy helped me to internalize this in a way that made a difference.  

I began to attract men in a way I never had before and to relate to them as myself. Sandy is solid not only as a professional, but trustworthy as a human being. If you are lucky enough to work with her, you’ll learn essential life and love skills as your self-worth increases, and you’ll relate to men in a whole new way.”

Susan, Manhattan, New York

 

“I came to Sandy devastated and heartbroken after a messy divorce and a failed 18-month relationship with someone I thought I would marry. There were tons of red flags I had refused to pay attention to, and I was heartbroken when it ended. Through Sandy’s coaching and Naked Truth Dating seminar, I learned that the missing factor in both of those equations was ME. I had lost myself. Through Sandy’s advice to “date myself first” I won back the self-love, dignity and self-respect I had abandoned so long ago. I was able to clearly articulate what was important to seek in my mate and not settle for anything less.

I also learned to trust my intuition. My turning point came when I was able to tell from early on the telltale signs of a dysfunctional relationship. I let that man go with dignity. I saved myself from heartache. I was never able to do this for myself before being coached by Sandy!  The more attractive I became to myself, the more likely I knew my chances were for attracting Mr. Right. Sure enough, I met the greatest guy and we’ve been together for two years. Sandy, you changed my life!!”

Debbie D. Rye, NY

 

Jane pollakSandy was a positive, gentle and knowledgeable guide through the murky waters of post-divorce dating. She helped me laugh, and when necessary, lifted my chin back up and not take any of it too seriously. I highly recommend Sandy for her tenderness and compassion along with her positive modeling of the process of dating after divorce.”

 

[UPDATE: Jane met the most amazing man online shortly after we began working together. They’ve been together for four years now. This is the most authentic, loving relationship of her life!]

Jane Pollak, Certified coach, author, speaker and lifestyle entrepreneur at Janepollak.com

 

“As I went back and forth about whether to date a man I’d been friends with for years, I grew more and more frustrated. Sandy made me feel comfortable and helped me express and clarify the many different thoughts I had been struggling with. She helped me look at my options in a clear way, and I was able to make a decision with her help. I am happy to announce that my best friend and I got married last year, and we now have a beautiful baby girl. Thank you to Sandy for giving me the perfect amount of guidance I needed and for empowering me to make what turned out to be the best decision of my life.”

[UPDATE: Jessica has been married six years, and they have two beautiful children!]

Jessica N, Stamford, Connecticut

 

“As a recently divorced mother of three, the idea of plunging back into the dating scene seemed insurmountable. Sandy convinced me to try online dating and then proceeded to hold my hand and walk me through the process. She helped me choose a dating site, set up my profile, and worked with me on my profile essays. I could not have come this far (or had any dates) without her intervention. Sandy listened, understood me, and was truly empathetic. It takes time to find the right man, and I had Sandy to help me persevere. I found the love of my life in November, and we just got married! Thank you, Sandy!”

Shani S, Connecticut

 

“I highly recommend Sandy Weiner. Her insights helped me be more open, clarify and expand my expectations, cast a wider net, and learn how to write and respond with feelings versus just words. This is professional guidance from someone who understands the challenges of our current dating environment. Sandy provides a series of practical tools and constructive conversations to better appreciate our self-image and the messages we send.

She tweaks and tailors to attract who we want in our lives. Clever and compassionate, I find myself quoting Sandy frequently. One of my favorites is, “Avoid {being guarded and} dating backwards. Be soft on the outside and strong on the inside to attract a good man.” The pool of gentlemen responding to me and asking for a first date has increased and improved dramatically. Sandy, I promise to invite you to my wedding!”

JCJ, California

 

“Sandy has stunning insight into people and their processes. She connects the dots in ways that are creative and brilliant. I highly recommend her as a coach.”

Becky P, Princeton, New Jersey

 

I’m celebrating how much more aware I am of my perspectives on dating and my ability to adapt a more positive approach. I’m feeling more confident in thinking that I am valuable/important. The ability to instantly “check” myself about the perspective through which I see things was a direct result of our work, and I’m very thankful for that. This is a skill I want to continue using for the rest of my days. I think it will permeate into all other parts of my life, not just dating. I felt that you really cared about me and wanted me to reach my goals. All in all, you were a great cheerleader and coach.”

Stephanie, New York City, NY

 

“ Throughout my 23-year marriage, my career title had been wife, mother and “domestic engineer” of three children and a chihuahua. As a woman starting over after divorce, I had no idea where to start. After putting everyone else first for so many years, I had lost my way. I began with a call to Sandy. As my Life Coach, Sandy has put me on the path to beginning my next chapter. With Sandy’s help, I explored my true talents and interests, identified my priorities and set new goals. She taught me to celebrate my accomplishments, no matter how small. I learned to honor my needs by speaking up when feelings are hurt and setting clear boundaries in order to have healthy relationships with everyone in my life. Sandy is a great coach who is able to read between the lines and focus on what’s important to help her clients grow and achieve their goals. Thank you Sandy, for helping me reconnect to the self I lost along the way.

Lynn, Ohio

 

“When I first contacted Sandy 18 months ago, I was in such a state of panic: My boyfriend of five years had broken up with me, because he said he needed his space. I was heartbroken and scared of being alone. I could not understand why he was leaving me  I was so good to him! After all, I was accommodating all his needs and forgetting mine. How could he leave me?

I had been married for 20 years to a man who was a mamma’s boy, selfish, and demanding. I often felt like I was his mother. After my divorce, I was determined to find a man who would give of himself and treat me like a woman of value. But until I worked with Sandy, I did not know my value. I had  never put myself first! I am an accomplished businesswoman, and people tell  me I’m a real catch. But I could not see it.

Sandy and I worked together, and I read books she recommended. Sandy was always there for me. When my boyfriend came back, I happily got back together with a new understanding of his needs and how to express mine. After a year, I realized I was no longer in love with him, and I ended the relationship.

I truly feel good about myself. I have stayed friendly with my boyfriend but I am not in love with him any longer. In fact, I do not have a boyfriend now, and for the first time in my life, I feel liberated! I have a full life; my business, my girlfriends, travel, a wonderful family. If I want a relationship, in the future, you will be the first person I call!

Sandy, you changed my life! Thank you  for being there for me when I needed reassurance and feeling that someone loved me. Today I know I am a woman of value!

Louise, Canada

 

“Thank you for our coaching sessions. I learned a lot about myself and felt affirmed by your acknowledgement and powerful listening. Your encouragement to keep doing online dating helped and also your suggestion to continue to let go of my past relationship. I now know that if I don’t let go, I’ll never move on to finding a much better match. I also listened to your advice and hired a photographer for my online profile. Talking to you made me realize that if I truly want to find a life partner now, I have the resources available. And this was only our first session. Can’t wait ’til the next one! A sincere thank you.”

Maryann M, California

 

919943_10151651496921018_951996186_o“Sandy takes a creative, clear-eyed approach to her career as a Dating Coach utilizing elements from her background in art and teaching. She encourages her clients to unlock their hidden potential with fun exercises, giving them the tools to become more light-hearted, aware and able to seek a suitable life partner. Sandy has the ability turn “it’s complicated” into “in a relationship” via excellent guidance.”

Malerie Yolen-Cohen, Freelance Magazine/Newspaper journalist, travel writer

 

 

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