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Looking For Love in All the Wrong Places

Are you looking for love in all the wrong places? My podcast guest, Venus Castleberg, was stuck in unhealthy patterns until she did this…

Venus Castleberg is the author of Here to Forever: Finally Free to Be Me, a story that explores looking for love in all the wrong places. From a belief system that she was flawed and broken to discovering how to like herself, Venus delivers the tools and processes to create something greater. A seasoned entrepreneur, holistic healthcare practitioner and coach, Venus is devoted to a life of joyful possibility. 

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

  • Why finding ‘the one’ is not the real goal
  • How to stop looking for love in all the wrong places
  • The steps to attracting in a healthy partnership
  • What to do if you’re in a relationship that’s toxic to you

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Why We Fall For People We Can’t Have

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Many of us fall for people we can’t have. In this video, you’ll learn why we do that, and how we can start falling for people we CAN have.

Have you ever fallen for someone who was in a relationship, or married, or they lived too far away, or they were somehow not available for a relationship? Watch this video and learn why we fall for people we can’t have.

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Healing From Codependency

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Charisse Cooke helps with healing from codependency on this episode of Last First Date Radio. Such an important conversation!

Charisse Cooke has been a therapist for 17 years and in a relationship for 14, which is why she has firsthand knowledge of the traps we inevitably fall into. She offers step-by-step online teaching videos outlining exactly what to do to improve your relationship.She also writes how-to articles tackling the biggest problems modern relationships face. And she answers your questions in the Agony Aunt section of her website.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

  • What is codependency?
  • How does codependency originate?
  • How does being codependent affect our romantic relationships?
  • How can we begin to heal from codependency?

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Signs You’re Dating An Emotionally Unavailable Man

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If you’ve ever dated an emotionally unavailable man, watch this video. Learn 7 signs of emotional unavailability so you can quickly move on.

How many times have you dated a man, only to learn he was emotionally unavailable for a relationship?

Watch this video to learn seven signs that will help you QUICKLY identify whether he is available or not, so you can move on to find a man who’s ready for a relationship.

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Impostor Syndrome in Your Intimate Relationships

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My podcast guest, Tracy Crossley, talks about imposter syndrome in our romantic relationships. Learn how to reveal your authentic self on dates!

Tracy Crossley is a Behavioral Relationship Expert, Author and Podcast Host, who specializes in treating individuals with unhealthy LIFE and relationship patterns. Tracy helps clients transform, impostor syndrome, insecure attachment, negative belief systems, breaking the cycle of narcissistic damage, destructive self-talk, and more. With a background in psychology, an innate emotional intuition, which draws from her own personal experience

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

  • What is impostor syndrome?
  • How we know we’re experiencing it
  • How to overcome or manage it
  • How to remove the mask of perfection on dates

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How to Find Love After 50

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Author Francine Russo shares great tips on how to find love after 50. You’ll gain new insights and more hope after listening to this episode!

Francine Russo is the author of Love after 50 and They’re Your Parents, Too! Armed with a PhD in English literature, she became a journalist focusing on psychology, relationships and social trends. Having cut her teeth at the Village Voice, she’s gone on to write for virtually every publication from the Atlantic to The New York Times. She covered the Boomer beat at Time magazine for over a decade, and her cover stories have appeared on Parade, Scientific American and New York Magazine. 

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

  • How Francine found love again after being widowed twice
  • How to stay hopeful when you’re searching for love after 50
  • The biggest challenges to dating at this age
  • What it means to do the ‘headword’ before dating
  • How to get a reality check in dating
  • Different ways people make love work at this stage in life
  • How to reframe rejection
  • How to make sex work well later in life
  • And more!

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