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Dating After a 24-Year Unhealthy Marriage

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How do you date again after a long unhealthy marriage? I coach Michelle on this episode to help her succeed in love this time around.

If you’ve been in an unhealthy marriage, and you’re out there dating again, this episode is for you. I coach Michelle, who is struggling with re-entering the dating world after an emotionally abusive 24-year marriage. She’s been in therapy to process the abuse and learn about healthy attachments and good communication.

She’s well educated, financially secure, and independent, which she believes seems to scare off potential dates. What’s really going on and how can she find love this time around? Listen to this episode to see what we uncover through our coaching session.

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When to Go ‘No Contact’ After a Breakup

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When do you go ‘no contact’ after a breakup? In this video, you’ll learn six reasons why you should cut ties after a breakup.

Is it hard for you to go ‘no contact’ after a breakup? Have you ever heard those three dreaded words after you’ve been dumped or you broke up with him: “let’s be friends”? In this video, my son Max and I discuss why it’s important to go ‘no contact’, and how it can be the best way to move on and heal after a breakup.

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Healing From Emotional Abuse

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Author Robin Lieberman shares the story from her book, Searching for September, about Seppie who heals from emotional abuse.

Robin Lieberman is an educator and novelist with life experience in the areas of marriage, divorce, long term relationships, and middle age dating. Her own triumphs, and those of other women who have used her as their sounding board, gave her the impetus to write her debut novel, Searching for September. This fictional romance/suspense captures the essence of one woman finding passion in what ultimately becomes an emotionally abusive relationship.

Robin lives in Manhattan, enjoys world travel, spending time with her intimate circle of friends, and has a daughter, son, and three grand pups.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

  • Why Robin wrote Searching for September, a book about falling for a narcissist
  • Key lessons about recognizing emotional abuse
  • Why women stay in abusive relationships
  • Red flags to look out for when dating
  • How women can stop excusing the inexcusable

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Fifty Dates After Fifty

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Carolyn Lee Arnold went on fifty first dates after fifty to find her partner. Listen to this episode to find out what happened!

Carolyn Lee Arnold is a writer, hiker, relationship workshop assistant, and former educational researcher. Fifty First Dates After Fifty is about an experiment she set up for dating men. Before that, she spent 18 years identifying as a lesbian feminist. Still a feminist, she lives in the San Francisco Bay Area.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

  • Why Carolyn wrote a book about her fifty dates after fifty
  • How setting a goal of 50 dates made dating more enjoyable
  • The workshops Carolyn attended that helped her learn more about love, intimacy, and sexuality
  • How dating married or unavailable men helped her on her journey to love
  • The lessons she learned from her dating research project
  • How she found the man she’s with now
  • What you can learn from this book to help you enjoy the dating process

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Been Ghosted? Watch This!

Ghosting is hurtful, so let’s do something about it! In this video, we decode ghosting and give you a blueprint for what to do if you’ve been ghosted.

If you’ve ever been ghosted, you know how much it sucks to suddenly be ignored by someone you liked. In today’s video, my son Max and I define ghosting, why people ghost, and what you can do if you’ve been ghosted or you’ve ghosted others.

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