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Stop Choosing the Wrong Men and Trying to Make Them into the Right One!

Choosing the Wrong Men

Have you been guilty of choosing the wrong men and hoping they’ll become the right one for you? Watch this video to learn how to choose the right man!

One of the biggest challenges in dating is knowing how to choose the right partner for you. What I’ve seen women do over and over in my ten years as a life and dating coach, is choosing the wrong man, and then trying and make him into the right one. That never works. I’ve certainly done the same thing. But, then I learned how to choose the right man…from the very start. In this video, I show you how.

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How Can a Busy Single Mom Who Works Full Time Find Love?

Single Mom

Are you a single mom who’s trying to find love? Listen as I coach Christina live on air about how to find love at age 50, with a full-time job and a teenage daughter.

Christina is a 50-year-old busy single mom who works full time. She has 14-year-old daughter and lives in a rural area. How can she meet men and find love? She’s tried online dating without any luck. She’s been divorced since 2013 and feels ready to meet someone to date.

I coached Christina on Last First Date Radio in episode #310: How Can a Busy Single Mom Who Works Full Time Find Love? Check out highlights below!

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[VIDEO] The Worst Dating Advice for Women Over 40

Dating Advice for Women Over 40

There’s so much bad dating advice for women over 40, it can be crazy-making. This video outlines the 5 worst dating tips and what you should do instead if you want to find love.

Unfortunately, there’s a ton of bad dating advice for women over 40. It can be overwhelming and confusing to date at this age. To compound the issue, much of the advice out there is contradictory. “Never make the first move.” “Women should ask men out.” “Wait 24-hours before texting him back.” “Text back that day or he’ll lose interest.” How do you make sense of all of the advice out there?

In this video, I share the five worst dating tips…and what you should do instead if you want to find true love.

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How to Cure Yourself of Codependency, the Relationship Killer

Cure Yourself of Codependency

My radio guest, Lisa Concepcion, is a dating and relationship coach who healed from codependency. If you want to cure yourself of codependency, this is the show for you.

My radio guest, Lisa Concepcion, spoke to my audience about how to cure yourself of codependency. She is a Certified Professional Dating & Relationship Transformation Expert and Founder of LoveQuest Coaching™. She specializes in helping people transform their love lives beginning with self-love. Through her programs, Lisa quickly empowers people to clearly define the relationship they want, and then helps them adopt the mindset necessary to manifest and maximize it.

Check out highlights below from episode #309: Curing Yourself of Codependency, the Relationship Killer.

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How to Know if He’s the One

he's the one

Have you spent too much time with the wrong man? Are you confused about whether to stay or go? Check out these 5 surefire ways to know if he’s the one!

You’re dating a guy for six months, a year, two years. He’s handsome, kind, and he says he loves you. But…you’re not sure if he’s the one. He hasn’t introduced you to his family yet. He hasn’t worked in a few months. He’s always tired. You’re a Democrat and he’s a Republican. You’re a vegan, and he’s a carnivore. You take good care of your health, and he’s a couch potato. Which of these are deal breakers, and which are things you can work out?

In today’s video, I reveal five signs that he’s the one. 

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How a Relationship Becomes Stronger Through Challenges

Relationship Becomes Stronger

Many relationships fall apart after going through major crisis. Listen to this inspiring episode about a couple whose relationship becomes stronger through life’s challenges.

My radio guests, psychotherapists and relationship counselors, Charlie and Linda Bloom, discussed how a relationship becomes stronger when challenged. Their latest book, That Which Doesn’t Kill Us: How One Couple Became Stronger at the Broken Places, chronicles a ten-year period in which they experienced a series of grueling ordeals that brought their marriage to the brink of divorce on more than one occasion. Unlike many couples whose marriages don’t survive these ordeals, Charlie’s and Linda’s did. Their story is illuminating, instructive, and deeply inspiring, and will serve any couple facing the inevitable challenges that frequently confront committed partnerships.

Check out highlights plus unaired bonus material for episode #308: How Life’s Difficulties Can Help Couples Become Much Stronger.

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How to Be a Giver Without Becoming a Doormat


Are you a giver? Giving is a beautiful thing, unless you are dating a taker. Here’s how to be a giver without becoming a doormat, especially when you’re dating!

If you’re a giver by nature, you love to help others, and you treat people the way you want them to treat you. But, there have been times when you’ve felt taken advantage of by takers who don’t give back. How do you keep on giving without being taken advantage of, especially when you’re dating? That’s the topic of today’s video.

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