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Dress For Dating Success

dress for dating success

When you dress for dating success, your confidence soars. My guest, Scarlett De Bease, is an image consultant who shows you what to wear.

Scarlett De Bease helps women dress for dating success, and she shows women executives and business owners how to look as put together on the outside as they are inside. For the last 14 years, she has guided her clients to always know what to wear, have outfits that reflect their personality, professionalism, and power, plus have the confidence in their appearance they’ve been endlessly searching for. 

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

  • Why Scarlett became an image stylist
  • How a woman’s clothes affect her mindset and confidence in dating
  • Tips for a woman to rock her first date outfit
  • How to ace a Zoom date by looking and feeling your best

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Push Energy vs Pull Energy in Dating

push energy

Do you have push energy or pull energy in dating? Watch this video to learn the difference, so you can attract the men you like.

You’ve been messaging a guy on a dating site or app, and he takes several days to respond. Do you get impatient? Do you assume he’s not interested and unmatched him? Or do you write something snarky like, ‘Where’d you go?’

Here’s another scenario: you’ve been on an amazing first date with a guy, and he says he had a great time, I’ll call you. You don’t hear from him for a week. What do you do? Write to him and tell him you’d love to see him again, what’s a good day/time to get together? 

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Healing Your Disappointing Love Life

disappointing love life

Dr. Thomas Jordan is an expert at helping people heal their disappointing love life. Listen to this episode to learn his 3 powerful steps.

Thomas Jordan specializes in the treatment of chronic love life problems and is the founder of the Love Life Learning Center. In 2017, he launched the Healthy Love Life Seminar with his wife, psychotherapist, Victoria Jordan. He’s the author of, Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life. 

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

  • The difference between love and love relationships
  • How to connect the dots to your past to learn why you’ve repeated patterns in relationships
  • The 10 key areas that impact every relationship
  • How to heal your disappointing love life!

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How to Escalate a Relationship

How do you escalate a relationship without chasing, nagging, or demanding? In this video, learn how to speak up and ask for what you want!

Cynthia wrote in from Italy: “I went on one date with a guy, and he seemed very interested in me. Now, we’re on lockdown because of the pandemic, and we only communicate by phone once a week: he calls, and then the following week I call him. Yes he’s busy, but not that busy he can’t call a little more. I don’t know what I should do, because I don’t want to be the one chasing him.” 

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How to Have a Successful First Date

successful first date

If you want to have a successful first date, follow the helpful tips I share in this video. You’ll be on your way to finding love online!

Successful first date? Did you know you can enjoy every date, no matter what he looks like, or how much he wants to talk about his ex. Learn how to redirect conversations, and see every date as an opportunity, not something you dread. Follow the tips in this video, and you’ll make every first date a success.

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3 Biggest Mistakes in Online Dating

mistakes in online dating

Watch this video to learn the top 3 mistakes, so you can turn them around and find love online – even during the pandemic!

If you’re dating online without success, you’re probably making these 3 deadly mistakes. In today’s video, I’ll reveal the most common mistakes in online dating, and how you can turn them around to find love online!

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Married for the First Time at 65

married for the first time

Melanie married for the first time when she was 65. An actress who achieved everything but love, she finally found love later in life.

Melanie Chartoff married for the first time at 65! Beginning as an actor off and on Broadway, Melanie Chartoff is best known for the characters she created on “Fridays,” “Seinfeld,” “Newhart,” and “Rugrats,” as the voice of Didi Pickles. Her work has been included in a variety of publications, including The Jewish Journal and three editions of Chicken Soup for the Soul. “Odd Woman Out” is her first book.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

  • Why it took 65 years for Melanie to get married for the first time 
  • The mistakes Melanie made in love
  • The key transformation Melanie went through that led her to lasting love
  • A crazy story about how she met her husband
  • What you can learn from Melanie’s story

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