10 Signs You’re Dating an Emotionally Unavailable Man

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Ever date an emotionally unavailable man? You know how heartbreaking it can be. Watch this video and learn how to stop investing any more energy in emotionally unavailable men!

How many times have you dated a man—for a month, six months, a year, a decade—only to learn he was emotionally unavailable for a relationship?
Watch this video to learn the ten signs that will help you QUICKLY identify whether he is available or not, so you can go on YOUR LAST FIRST DATE!

10 Signs You’re Dating an Emotionally Unavailable Man

1. Focuses on sex/intimacy right Away. 

2. You feel like a last minute option, not a priority.

3. Complains about or still attached to past relationships.

4. He tells you he’s not available for a relationship right now.

5. Out of sight, out of mind. (You feel great when you’re together, but anxious when you’re apart.)

6. Doesn’t show emotion or empathize with you. 

7. Says loving words, but his actions tell a different story. 

8. He disengages by:

  • Working long hours.
  • Drinking too much
  • Spending a long time away from you
  • Avoiding difficult conversations
  • Keeping secrets

9. He’s nice to you, but not nice to others. 

10. Doesn’t escalate the relationship. 

 (The video goes into greater detail about each of these signs.)

How do you attract an emotionally available man?

1. Know what you absolutely must have and what your deal-breakers are.
2. Set clear boundaries with men (and everyone else in your life).
3. Speak up from the very start.
4. Get curious about him instead of making assumptions.
5. Be ruthlessly picky about the RIGHT things, and let all the small stuff go.
This is what I teach in my group and private coaching. When you learn to really love yourself first, know that you have tremendous self-worth, and believe that you need a man who’s going to treat you like the woman of value you already are, you will attract in a man who cherishes you.

Want to learn more about how I can help YOU attract in an emotionally available quality man? Click here.


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