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How to Avoid Dating Dangerous Emotional Predators

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[PODCAST] Stay safe! Author and therapist, Steven Wolhandler, shares many tips about how to avoid dating emotional predators.

My podcast guest, Steven Wolhandler, is a psychotherapist, mediator, consultant and retired attorney. He spoke with me about how to avoid dating dangerous emotional predators. Steven knows how abusive and manipulative people prey on the emotions of good people – and how good people can protect themselves. He has decades of experience dealing with, and learning from, toxic manipulators, and helping their victims with penetrating insight, effective strategies and humor. Listen as he offers a radically different view of these Emotional Predators and provides practical effective solutions. 

Check out the show notes, and listen to/download EP 358: How to Avoid Dating Dangerous Emotional Predators.

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How Palm Reading Can Help You Find Your Soulmate

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[PODCAST] Palm reading reflects your soul and life purpose, your personality archetypes, talents, health, and even your soulmate!

My podcast guest, Cynthia Clark, is a palm reading consultant and relationship expert. Author of Stories in Your Hands: Discover Your Authentic Destiny Using Palmistry & Tarot, she has worked with over 7,000 people worldwide in the past 10 years. She created the most innovative and accurate matchmaking system using palmistry to help spiritual singles find long-lasting love through https://Loveinyourhands.com. Cynthia also offers readings, coaching, courses and professional training and is passionate about sharing her vast knowledge of palmistry as an empowerment tool.

Check out the show notes for Episode 357: How Your Hands Reveal the Deepest Secrets of Your Soul.

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[VIDEO] Red Flag or Trigger? How to Tell the Difference

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Are you mistaking a trigger for a true red flag? Are you missing red flags early on, and getting your heart broken? If so, this video is a must watch!

How do you know the difference between a red flag and a trigger? In this video, I share a little story about a woman who confused red flags with triggers.

Listen to her story, and see how dangerous it can be to get caught up in misinterpreting men’s intentions—and possibly pushing away a good guy.

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Decluttering Your Emotional Closet to Find Lasting Love

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[PODCAST] Looking for love? Spend time decluttering your emotional closet! My podcast guest, Laura Richer, shows you how.

My podcast guest, Laura Richer, is a certified hypnotherapist, dating coach, and owner of Richer Healing in Seattle, WA. She developed the Richer Love Program to help women build healthy self-esteem and support her clients to find the relationship they want and deserve. Laura is also the host of “The Laura Richer Show” heard on KKNW 1150AM Radio in Seattle. On her show, she has featured prominent relationship authorities and authors, bringing new insights into the art of love.

Check out highlights below and listen to/download EP356: Decluttering Your Emotional Closet to Find Lasting Love.

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[VIDEO] Should You Date a Separated Man?

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Should you date a separated man? Most women say, “Hell no!” In this video, you’ll hear my three principles for deciding whether to date a separated man.

Should you date a separated man? Most women feel they shouldn’t date a separated man because:

a. He may not be over his ex yet, and they might reconcile.

b. He may not be emotionally ready for a relationship yet.

c. Their faith is against dating men who are not yet divorced.

While all of the above reasons are valid, I feel it’s not that black and white of a situation. In this video, I offer a way to see the issue of whether you should date a separated man through a new lens. Check it out!

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How to Avoid Being Blindsided in a Relationship

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Have you ever felt you were blindsided in a relationship? Things seemed to be just fine, and suddenly…BAM!…he breaks up with you. What happened? You didn’t see it coming.

I believe relationships leave clues, and if we pay close attention, it’s much harder to feel blindsided ever again. Watch this video to learn my method for preventing being blindsided in the future.

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Treva and Robby: Married After 50 For the First Time

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Treva and Robby Scharf, hosts of the Done Being Single Podcast, married after 50 for the first time! Hear their inspirational story.

Treva and Robby Scharf married after 50 for the first time! They are co-hosts of the podcast, “Done Being Single,” on the VoiceAmerica Talk Radio Network. With a combined 107 years of single life under their belt, they have the wisdom and experience needed to navigate the dating world.

“Done Being Single” covers all aspects of being single and finding love later in life. From sex tips to dating intervention, from tough love to life advice, from personal growth to prenups, Treva and Robby aim to entertain and empower.

Check out highlights below for Episode 355: Older and Wiser – How to Find Love Later in Life with Treva and Robby Scharf.

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Getting Out of Your Head on a Date

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My podcast guest, Heather Nichols, talked about the importance of getting out of your head on a date. Hint: Your body holds the answers to true love!

My podcast guest, Heather Nichols, MSW, is a Joy of Business facilitator, movement & meditation consultant, tantra practitioner and somatic psychotherapist. She combines her expertise in mind-body therapy with 20 years’ experience in the world of business and entrepreneurship to facilitate people toward a fuller, more joyful, experience of business, life and family.

An Access Consciousness® facilitator, healer, and mom, Heather has been running a weekly radio show for more than 6 years. She also facilitates workshops and private consultations online and around the world. She refuses to take ‘no’ for an answer from life and brings to her work a fierce commitment to create joy, ease, and wealth on the planet – in every aspect.

Check out episode 354 to learn how to get out of your head and into your body on your journey to true love. 

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Safe to Love Again

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If you’ve been hurt in past relationships and/or you grew up in a highly dysfunctional home, this podcast is for you. You can feel safe to love again!

Based on a field of study called Attachment Theory, the science of intimate relationships, my podcast guest, Dr.Gary Salyer’s insights have a profound and often immediate impact on helping people feel safe to love again. As a transformational relationship mentor, he helps people re-write the rules for love in their brains. He empowers singles to reclaim their rights for a full soulmate relationship. With couples, he helps resolve their conflicts and differences so they can have the love they dream about. Therapists are even saying his new approach will ‘change the way therapists do therapy.’

Check out highlights of Episode 353: Release the Pain of Past Relationships to Create The Love You Deserve.

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[Video Series] How to Master Your Love Life

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In these 10 short videos, you’ll learn how to turn around the biggest dating mistakes and find love by becoming the master of your love life.

As a dating and love coach for women over 40 for over a decade, I am a keen observer and teacher of the keys that lead a woman to become the master of her love life and attract the love she deserves. I also know what gets in the way of a woman’s ability to have the relationship she yearns for.

To help you become the master of YOUR love life, I’ve created a series of ten live videos in my Facebook Group, Your Last First Date. (If you’re not yet a member, click the link to join).

Each video contains a surprising mistake women often make — usually without any awareness —that could be keeping them from the love they deserve.

Watch these short videos, and leave a comment below as to what resonated for you and where you struggle in your love life. (NOTE: I didn’t edit them, as I wanted you to get the feel for how they’re presented in front of a live audience.)

If you want to master your love life, join the Love Mastery Program before registration closes on May 10th at Midnight ET. Learn more here.

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