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Push Energy vs Pull Energy in Dating

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Do you have push energy or pull energy in dating? Watch this video to learn the difference, so you can attract the men you like.

You’ve been messaging a guy on a dating site or app, and he takes several days to respond. Do you get impatient? Do you assume he’s not interested and unmatched him? Or do you write something snarky like, ‘Where’d you go?’

Here’s another scenario: you’ve been on an amazing first date with a guy, and he says he had a great time, I’ll call you. You don’t hear from him for a week. What do you do? Write to him and tell him you’d love to see him again, what’s a good day/time to get together? 

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Healing Your Disappointing Love Life

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Dr. Thomas Jordan is an expert at helping people heal their disappointing love life. Listen to this episode to learn his 3 powerful steps.

Thomas Jordan specializes in the treatment of chronic love life problems and is the founder of the Love Life Learning Center. In 2017, he launched the Healthy Love Life Seminar with his wife, psychotherapist, Victoria Jordan. He’s the author of, Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life. 

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

  • The difference between love and love relationships
  • How to connect the dots to your past to learn why you’ve repeated patterns in relationships
  • The 10 key areas that impact every relationship
  • How to heal your disappointing love life!
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How to Escalate a Relationship

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How do you escalate a relationship without chasing, nagging, or demanding? In this video, learn how to speak up and ask for what you want!

Cynthia wrote in from Italy: “I went on one date with a guy, and he seemed very interested in me. Now, we’re on lockdown because of the pandemic, and we only communicate by phone once a week: he calls, and then the following week I call him. Yes he’s busy, but not that busy he can’t call a little more. I don’t know what I should do, because I don’t want to be the one chasing him.” 

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How to Have a Successful First Date

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If you want to have a successful first date, follow the helpful tips I share in this video. You’ll be on your way to finding love online!

Successful first date? Did you know you can enjoy every date, no matter what he looks like, or how much he wants to talk about his ex. Learn how to redirect conversations, and see every date as an opportunity, not something you dread. Follow the tips in this video, and you’ll make every first date a success.

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3 Biggest Mistakes in Online Dating

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Watch this video to learn the top 3 mistakes, so you can turn them around and find love online – even during the pandemic!

If you’re dating online without success, you’re probably making these 3 deadly mistakes. In today’s video, I’ll reveal the most common mistakes in online dating, and how you can turn them around to find love online!

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Married for the First Time at 65

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Melanie married for the first time when she was 65. An actress who achieved everything but love, she finally found love later in life.

Melanie Chartoff married for the first time at 65! Beginning as an actor off and on Broadway, Melanie Chartoff is best known for the characters she created on “Fridays,” “Seinfeld,” “Newhart,” and “Rugrats,” as the voice of Didi Pickles. Her work has been included in a variety of publications, including The Jewish Journal and three editions of Chicken Soup for the Soul. “Odd Woman Out” is her first book.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

  • Why it took 65 years for Melanie to get married for the first time 
  • The mistakes Melanie made in love
  • The key transformation Melanie went through that led her to lasting love
  • A crazy story about how she met her husband
  • What you can learn from Melanie’s story
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Questions to Ask Before Meeting Your Date During the Pandemic

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[NEW VIDEO] How do you stay safe when you date during the pandemic? Ask these important questions BEFORE you meet up.

How do you date during the pandemic? That’s a question we’re still asking 9 months after COVID-19 became a global pandemic. Before that, many of us met our dates on an online dating site or app, and that first date was a crapshoot. Will it lead to a relationship? Or will it be a dead end? During the pandemic, the stakes are higher. You can risk contracting COVID-19 from someone you may never see again.

While it’s not always easy to know how a first date will turn out, we can lower the risk of getting the virus on a date. How? By asking questions in advance. In this video, I share some crucial questions to keep you safe.

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Is Jealousy Always Bad For a Relationship?

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Jealousy…is it always bad for relationships? My guest, Joli Hamilton, presents a new way to see the benefits. Listen in!

Dr. Joli Hamilton is a research psychologist, author, TEDx speaker, and AASECT certified sex educator. She has spent the past two decades balancing a wild entrepreneurial spirit with a deep desire to have a secure, passionate partner (and she raised 7 kids along the way!). Joli is committed to helping women create sustainable, soul-nourishing relationships without sacrificing their career dreams.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

  • The difference between jealousy and envy
  • How people can deal effectively when they are jealous in a relationship
  • A four-step process for managing when you’re jealous
  • The opposite of jealousy
  • What’s compersion, and why is it something we should work on in our relationships?
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How to Overcome Your Fear of Love

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Overcome Your Fear of Love

Is fear is keeping you from the love you want? In this video, you’ll learn how to overcome your fear of love.

Let’s talk about overcoming your fear of love! In this video, I uncover the most common fears in dating and relationships, why we have these fears, the benefit of staying afraid, and how to overcome your fear of love.

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Emotional Detox for Anxiety in Dating

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If you have anxiety in dating or in your relationships, tune in! Sherriana Boyle, the founder of Emotional Detox©, shares great strategies.

If you get anxiety in dating, this show is for you. My guest, Sherianna Boyle, is an international, Emotional Detox Coach®, author of eight books, including her most recent Emotional Detox and Emotional Detox for Anxiety. She is an adjunct Psychology Professor and founder of Emotional Detox Coaching® servicing clients virtually world wide.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

  • What is an Emotional Detox©?
  • Why so many people are reactive
  • How people can overcome anxiety in dating
  • The CLEANSE© Method
  • The #1 thing you need for dating success
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