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Why Most Relationships Fail

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Dr. Larry Waldman explains why most relationships fail. Turns out, we date backwards. Tune in to find out what this means…and more!

My podcast guest, Dr. Larry Waldman, spoke about why most relationships fail, and how to forge healthy relationships. He’s a clinical forensic psychologist who consults, teaches graduate counseling courses, speaks professionally on parenting and relationships, and writes articles and self-help books on those topics. His books include “Who’s Raising Whom?” “Coping with Your Adolescent;” “How Come I Love Him But Can’t Live with Him?” “The Graduate Course You Never Had;” “Too Busy Earning a Living to Make Your Fortune?” “Overcoming Your Negotiaphobia;” and his latest book, “Love Your Child More Than You Hate Your Ex: What Every Divorced Parent Needs to Know.”

In this episode of Last First Date Radio, you’ll learn:

  • How you can love someone and not be able to live with them
  • What it means to date backwards
  • Why second marriages and most relationships fail
  • How to argue effectively
  • How to foster healthy relationships
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Five Assumptions to Stop Making in Dating

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In this video, I share five assumptions you must stop making if you’re searching for lasting love. Check it out!

Do you find yourself making a lot of assumptions about men? Dating in midlife can be challenging. Dating online can be even more challenging. We are meeting total strangers, and it’s easy to prejudge the men we meet.

But, having assumptions actually makes dating harder. We eliminate so many possible matches when we paint men with a broad brush.
In this video, I share five assumptions to stop making if you want to find love. Because your assumptions might be keeping you single!

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The Future of Live Streaming and Dating

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My podcast guest, Geoff Cook, spoke about the future of live streaming and dating apps. Learn ways to make dating fun on the apps using live streaming.

My podcast guest, Geoff Cook, joined me for an interesting conversation on the future of lives streaming and dating apps. He is a serial entrepreneur, and CEO of The Meet Group. It started as a single brand, which Geoff grew to over $30 million in revenue before merging with a public company in a $100 million deal. Since then, Geoff has led the company to acquire four additional social apps — GROWLr for $11.8 million. Andreessen Horowitz backed Skout for $55 million, Tagged for $60 million, and LOVOO for $70 million.

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How to Heal Childhood Wounds

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It’s important to heal our childhood wounds to have healthy relationships. In this video, I explain the origin of our wounds and how to heal them.

Our childhood wounds carry on into our adulthood relationships unless we do the work to heal them. We are all the products of our downloaded love blueprint, which is influenced by how we experienced love by our caretakers. This includes whether we were able to receive and give love safely; whether we felt cherished for who we were, not only what we did. In this video, you’ll learn how to begin to heal from your childhood wounds.

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The Secrets to Living a Fantastic Life

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Want to know the secrets to living a fantastic life? My podcasts guest have lived through the unthinkable, and they’ve written a book that will inspire you to live your best life.

Dr. Allen Lycka is one of the leading cosmetic dermatologists in the world. In 2003, he was diagnosed with ALS and given six months to live. After fighting the diagnosis, he is here today as a result of his courage and determination. Dr. Lycka used his experience to co-author the book The Secrets of Living A Fantastic Life with Harriet Tinka, and he speaks to groups around the world about transforming lives.

Harriet Tinka was an international model who was attacked and left for dead by a stalker. Told she would never walk again, she is known by her students as a “Powerhouse Role Model” who makes being genuine the most powerful thing of all. She is an invigorating transformational speaker, passionate life coach, blogger, Chartered Professional Accountant, Football Official, and an ultra-marathon runner. She is the founder and CEO of the award-winning Social Enterprise. She describes her life as moving from tragic to magic.

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When to Stay and When to Go!

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Confused about when to stay and when to go in a relationship? Watch this video and save yourself time, energy, and heartache.

If you’ve ever stayed too long in a relationship, or you’ve been confused about when you should stay and when to go, this video is for you. Learn the 5 most important questions to ask yourself about whether you should stay or go.

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Stop Dating Emotionally Unavailable Men!

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Maya Diamond joined me on Last First Date Radio to help women stop dating emotionally unavailable men. This is a must listen!

Maya Diamond is a Dating and Relationship Coach known for helping people shift their pattern of attracting and dating unavailable men to finding a healthy, satisfying, and fulfilling relationship.

From 2016 through 2018, Maya was named one of the best life coaches in San Francisco by Expertise.com. In 2014, she was named one of the Best Relationship Experts in California by DatingAdvice.com. Maya’s Tedx talk with over 50,000 views is called, The Surprising Key to Building a Healthy Relationship that Lasts. Her dating advice has been featured on Mind Body Green, Elephant Journal, Wikihow, and Fast Company. And she joined me on Last First Date Radio to help us stop attracting emotionally unavailable men!

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Why Are You Still Single?

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Vince Guaglione, author of, “Why are you still single?” discusses what he learned about being single, divorced, and struggling to find love.

My podcast guest, Vince Guaglione, saw a post in a Facebook group asking, “Why are you still single?” This prompted him to write a book on the topic. Find out what he discovered in this episode of Last First Date Radio.

Vince is a guy who asks lots of questions, not only of himself, but also of his society and the world around him. Although he claims he’s found no real answers, that hasn’t stopped him in his quest to gain perspective on a little something we call life. Originally from Philadelphia, Vince now resides in Raleigh NC.

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How to Stop Getting Breadcrumbed!

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In this video, I outline 7 signs you’re getting breadcrumbed, and two ways to stop it from continuing.

Have you ever been ‘breadcrumbed? Breadcrumbing is getting crumbs of attention from someone you’re dating…just enough to keep you hooked. How can you tell if you’re getting breadcrumbed, and how can you nip it in the bud?

Check out today’s video to learn the signs and the solutions to breadcrumbing. (And you’ll hear my personal story of getting breadcrumbed and what I did about it).

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Create a Great Relationship During Quarantine and Beyond

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Brendon Watt shows us how to create a great relationship during quarantine…and beyond! This episode will make you think about what you want to create.

Brendon Watt spoke with me about how to create a great relationship during quarantine. He is a speaker, entrepreneur and life mentor. He’s the co-author of the best-selling book, Relationship: Are You Sure You Want One? and is co-founder of the Relationship Done Different workshop series. Brendon is the CFO of Access Consciousness®, transforming lives in 174 countries, facilitating classes and workshops all over the world, encouraging others to step out of judgement and into a more authentic, fulfilling life.   

In this episode:

  • How to deal with a partner who’s getting on your nerves when in quarantine
  • Creative ways to keep the peace when sheltering at home
  • If you’re single and lonely during quarantine, how can you thrive?
  • What is Relationship Done Different?       
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