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If you’re a single woman over 40, follow the blog to learn how to attract quality men, sustain a healthy relationship, break up with dignity, understand and communicate with men 40 +, and much more…

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The Search for Truth and Real Love

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My podcast guest, Elizabeth DiAlto, lives her life fully expressed. Follow her comedic journey to real love through the dating apps.

Known for her raw, honest, and grounded approach to self help and spirituality, my podcast guest, Elizabeth DiAlto is an Integrative Spiritual counselor, creator of Wild Soul Movement, an author, and the host of the popular podcast, Truth Telling with Elizabeth DiAlto. She’s been a teacher, leader, speaker, coach and trainer to groups and individuals for over 15 years.

Elizabeth works with women all across the globe through her digital programs and speaking engagements and more intimately through in-person intensives, retreats, workshops, and Wild Soul Movement™ teacher training. Her greatest mission in this life is to help those who identify as women worldwide to reclaim and redefine their own womanhood, and contribute to a new paradigm of culture where it is both safe and natural for women to love, trust, and accept themselves fully.

In 2013, Shape Magazine listed her alongside Dr Oz, Ellen, Jillian Michaels, and Tim Ferriss as a Top 30 Motivator. She has written for and been featured in many important publications. Aside from being a prolific creator and community builder, she’s an insatiable learner and a sensualist who loves spas, bathtubs, dancing (especially salsa!), reading, traveling, spending time in nature, and she has a laugh that has been described as, “a sound bath of sunshine and JOY.”

Check out highlights below for episode 331: The Search for Truth and Real Love with Elizabeth DiAlto. (more…)

Empowering Women to Get Smarter About Money

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My podcast guest, Barbara Huson, is all about empowering women to get smarter about money. Check out her three valuable tips you can start today!

My podcast guest, Barbara Huson, is the leading authority on empowering women to get smarter about building and maintaining wealth. As a bestselling author, teacher and wealth coach, Barbara has helped millions take charge of their finances and their lives.

Barbara’s background in business, her years as a journalist, her Master’s Degree in Counseling Psychology, extensive research, and her personal experience with money makes her the foremost expert on empowering women to live up to their financial and personal potential.

Barbara’s six books are: Prince Charming Isn’t Coming, Secrets of Six-Figure Women, Overcoming Underearning, Finding a Financial Advisor You Can Trust, Breaking Through, and Sacred Success.

Check out highlights below for episode #330: Empowering Women to Get Smarter About Money, with Barbara Huson.

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Why You Should Stop Worrying You’ll Be Alone Forever

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Have you ever worried you’ll be alone forever? My podcast guest, Nikki Novo, can guarantee you the answer is no. How? Check out the show notes to find out.

My podcast guest, Nikki Novo, is a Cuban-American author, spiritual mentor and intuitive dating coach. A certified hypnotherapist with the International Association of Counselors and Therapists, ThetaHealer(r) and Reiki healer, Nikki is the author of “Will I Be Alone Forever?” She has been commissioned to speak by organizations like Aveeno, Equinox, Yahoo, Fordham University, Florida International University, and Macy’s.

Before she became an intuitive dating coach, Nikki was an editor for Refinery29, MSN, and NBC. Her work has been seen in Allure, Town & Country, Huffington Post, and others. She also spent time in the publicity department of Lionsgate and Fox Searchlight.

Check out highlights of episode #329: Will I Be Alone Forever? Dating Advice From a Medium (more…)

How to Deal With a Man Who Blows Hot and Cold

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Ever been with a man who was loving one day and disappeared the next? Susan Winter shows you how to deal with a man who blows hot and cold.

My podcast cast, bestselling author/relationship expert Susan Winter (Allowing Magnificence and Older Women/Younger Men) writes, speaks and coaches on evolutionary forms of loving partnership and higher thinking. Internationally recognized as a thought leader in her field, Susan’s media credits include: The Oprah Show, The Today Show, Good Morning America, Harpers Bazaar, People Magazine, New York Magazine, and many, many more.

Check out highlights below for episode #328: Susan Winter on How to Deal With a Man Who Blows Hot and Cold. (more…)

The REAL Keys to Finding Love After 40

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My podcast guest, Ritual Expert, Barbara Biziou, shares surprising tips on how to find love after 40. You’re going to want to tune in to this show!

My guest, Barbara Biziou, author of the Joy of Rituals, is a Global Ritual Expert and Spiritual Life Coach. Her greatest passion is to inspire, empower and support people going through all of life’s transitions with easy-to-access rituals and spiritual practices that make life richer, easier and more meaningful.

Check out highlights of episode #327: Barbara Biziou Shares the REAL Keys to Finding Love After 40. (more…)

How to Inspire a Man to Commit to You

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How can you inspire a man to commit to you for a lifetime? Check out these fantastic tips by my podcast guest, love coach, Polina Solda.

My podcast guest, Polina Solda’s dating expertise comes from a roller coaster of real-life experiences—struggling in love, getting married, divorced and looking for love again in her 30s. When she moved to NYC to earn her Masters and work at the UN, she also got a “Master’s Degree in dating” by going on 100+ dates, and unlocking the secrets of finding and keeping love.

After she uncovered what was holding her back, she shifted to a new place from which she attracted her dream man. He proposed after six months of dating- they’ve been in a soulmate relationship for 10 years now.

Check out highlights below from my interview with Polina Solda on how to inspire a man to commit to you! (more…)

Why Women Don’t Speak Up As Often As Men

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Want to know why women don’t speak up as often as men? In this video, I explain why this happens and how to begin to speak up much more in life and love.

A recent article in the New York Post revealed that women don’t speak up as often as men in academic seminars. In fact, women are two and a half times less likely to ask questions than men. Why do women speak up less often than men; at work, with friends and family, and especially in romantic relationships? (more…)

[VIDEO] 5 Ways to Be More Vulnerable in Dating

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Want to connect more deeply and authentically on dates? In this video, I show you 5 ways to be more vulnerable on your road to true love.

Why would you want to be more vulnerable in dating? According to Brené Brown, “Vulnerability is uncertainty, risk, and emotional exposure. It’s that unstable feeling we get when we step out of our comfort zone or do something that forces us to loosen control. In fact, vulnerability is the core, the heart, the center of meaningful human experiences. It’s the first thing I look for in you and the last thing I’m willing to show you. In you, it’s courage and daring. In me, it’s weakness.” (more…)

How Patriarchy Stress Disorder Sabotages Women’s Love Lives

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Patriarchy Stress Disorder

What’s Patriarchy Stress Disorder, and how might it be affecting your love life? Dr. Valerie Baker shares her brilliant insights in this interview!

My podcast guest, psychologist, author, and speaker, Dr. Valerie Baker pioneers healing Patriarchy Stress Disorder™ (PSD)–the trauma of 1000s of years of oppression imprinted in women’s DNA. She calls PSD the invisible inner prison that keeps women from experiencing their ultimate success and happiness. In over 20,000 hours of her work as a therapist and coach to successful women, Dr. Valerie has guided thousands of women’s PSD jailbreaks. She helps high-achieving women who’re sick and tired of sacrificing their health, sanity, and love lives to heal PSD so they can finally marry their professional and personal success and happiness–and fully enjoy it.

Check out highlights below for episode #324: How Patriarchy Stress Disorder Sabotages Women’s Love Lives.  (more…)

How to Show Empathy in Dating and Relationships

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Many of us have trouble showing empathy in dating and relationships. In this video, I reveal three ways to show empathy and help you connect deeply.

Do you know how to show empathy in dating or when you’re in a relationship? Empathy is one of the most important skills in life. In this video, you’ll learn three elements of empathy that are critical if you want to forge deep, intimate relationships. (more…)