Can Attraction Grow?

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Can attraction grow? While it can’t be forced, it can definitely grow. In this video, you’ll learn how to make that happen.

Many people have asked me, “Can attraction grow?” As much as we’d like to feel attracted to a man who treats us like gold, we can’t force sexual attraction. Many of us have tried to fall in love with someone who’s sweet, kind, and amazing ‘on paper’…but we don’t fall in love based on what’s on paper. It’s a bit more complex than that. Yes, attraction can grow. In this video, you’ll learn what’s necessary to make that happen.

Can Attraction Grow?

Although our sexual attractions can’t be forced, they can be educated, as my friend and colleague, therapist Ken Page says. There are ways to grow your attraction with men who are kind, respectful, and available. Stay away from the ones who are unkind, disrespectful and unavailable, the men who many of us are naturally attracted to.

In this video, you’ll learn:

  • Why we’re attracted to the same person with a different face
  • Why we have an ideal physical, emotional, or personality type
  • How we can learn to develop attraction with the right man
  • What to look for to assess if attraction can grow
  • Why butterflies are often a sign to RUN before your heart is broken

How can you help attraction grow?

When we care about someone, we create attachment to that person. And with attachment, attraction grows. Our brains create new neural pathways of connection and attraction.

When you’re used to intense butterflies as a sign of attraction, these types of relationships can feel boring to you. You might want to run away. But, if your man continues to show up as someone you can trust, someone who’s inspirational, and someone from whom you can learn and grow, please don’t run. Give yourself the space and time to see if your attraction grows. Notice what you appreciate about him, how you are attracted to him, rather than focusing on what’s not attractive to you.

Let attraction build through physical touch and emotional connection. And you might just forge the most loving relationship you’ve ever had.

Have you ever been in a relationship where you saw attraction grow? Please share below!


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