The Cure for Falling for Potential

falling for potential

Have you ever caught yourself falling for potential? You meet someone online, you think he could be the one, and you can’t wait to meet. And then…

Has this ever happened to you?

You’re dating online, and you spot a man who seems amazing! He’s handsome, he’s read all the right books, and he also likes the Grateful Dead and hiking! He seems like he could be the perfect match. You exchange a few messages, chat briefly, and the first date is set. “What if I’m about to meet my future husband?” you nervously think as he’s about to enter the restaurant.

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How to Discover if a Man Wants a Relationship

man wants a relationship

Are you confused about how to find out if a man wants a relationship? In this video, I share how to become a private investigator as you date to find love.

How do you know if a man wants a relationship or if he’s a player? Most women either end up interrogating a man on a first date…or they say nothing at all and wait for things to unfold.

Those strategies don’t work. In this video, I teach you how to find out if he shares your relationship goals by doing something you may not have thought of.





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How to Deal With a Man Who Blows Hot and Cold

blows hot and cold

Ever been with a man who was loving one day and disappeared the next? Susan Winter shows you how to deal with a man who blows hot and cold.

My podcast cast, bestselling author/relationship expert Susan Winter (Allowing Magnificence and Older Women/Younger Men) writes, speaks and coaches on evolutionary forms of loving partnership and higher thinking. Internationally recognized as a thought leader in her field, Susan’s media credits include: The Oprah Show, The Today Show, Good Morning America, Harpers Bazaar, People Magazine, New York Magazine, and many, many more.

Check out highlights below for episode #328: Susan Winter on How to Deal With a Man Who Blows Hot and Cold.





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Are You Dating a Narcissist? Here’s a Better Question…

Dating a Narcissist

He’s a narcissist! The word gets thrown around way too much. In this video, I ask,”Are you dating a narcissist? Here’s a better question to ask…”

Are you dating a narcissist? If you’ve ever been in an emotionally abusive relationship, you may be tempted to label every man who exhibits those selfish and toxic traits as a narcissist. In this video, I discuss why it’s important to NOT label men as narcissists, but instead, learn to recognize the signs of someone who is TOXIC to you.





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10 Character Traits of Men Who Are Unsafe to Date

Unsafe to DateHave you ever been with a man who seemed so wonderful at first—until the red flags showed up? Here are 10 character traits of men who are unsafe to date.

There are some crafty men who put on a good act. They seem amazing at the beginning—loving, showering you with gifts, introducing you to their family right away. Eventually, you find him to be unsafe to date. What I mean is he is unkind, untrustworthy, maybe even abusive.

Many of us are not trained to see the signs of someone who’s emotionally unsafe to date, especially early on. If you want to find EPIC love, you need to be able to quickly pick up on those red flags, especially the subtle ones.

This is something I spent a lot of time studying after my divorce. I not only wanted to save myself from future heartbreak, I wanted to help as many women as I could to date with dignity and self-respect, and to attract in a man of integrity, someone they could trust. That is my mission at Last First Date.





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How to Cure Yourself of Codependency, the Relationship Killer

Cure Yourself of Codependency

My radio guest, Lisa Concepcion, is a dating and relationship coach who healed from codependency. If you want to cure yourself of codependency, this is the show for you.

My radio guest, Lisa Concepcion, spoke to my audience about how to cure yourself of codependency. She is a Certified Professional Dating & Relationship Transformation Expert and Founder of LoveQuest Coaching™. She specializes in helping people transform their love lives beginning with self-love. Through her programs, Lisa quickly empowers people to clearly define the relationship they want, and then helps them adopt the mindset necessary to manifest and maximize it.

Check out highlights below from episode #309: Curing Yourself of Codependency, the Relationship Killer.





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