When His Actions Don’t Match His Words

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What do you do when a guy’s actions don’t match his words? My ex-boyfriend seemed like a great guy at first, until this happened…

“I’m a good guy!” That’s what my boyfriend Bob would say (with his sexy southern accent) whenever he did something that wasn’t so ‘good’. He forgot my birthday? “I’m so sorry. I’m really a good guy. Let me take you out for dinner tonight to celebrate.” Have you ever met a good guy – someone who claimed to be ‘good’ – but they weren’t? That’s what today’s video is about…

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Is It Ever Okay to Lie In Online Dating?

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Is it ever okay to lie in online dating? In this video, I discuss the most common lies, which to forgive and when to walk away.

Are you tired of men who lie in online dating? While online dating presents a wonderful opportunity to search for love much more broadly than you could in ‘real life’, there are also unique challenges. Many first dates don’t go well for the following reasons: He was shorter, heavier or older than his profile represented. In other words, he lied about his height, age and weight. And that made you wonder if he was going to lie about other things.

In this video, I discuss when it’s okay to lie and when it’s not.

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The Impact of Attachment Trauma On Romantic Relationships

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Your attachment trauma directly impacts your adult relationships. Thais Gibson revealed the fascinating reasons why we choose our partners.

My podcast guest, Thais Gibson, spoke about attachment trauma and how it affects our love lives. She’s an author, speaker and co-creator of the Personal Development School. Thais is best known for her contributing work and research on Attachment Theory and the impact of attachment trauma on our adult romantic relationships. She’s the author of, The Attachment Theory Guide, and her YouTube channel often focuses on educating people on how to subconsciously reprogram this area of their lives.

In this episode:

  • What is Attachment Theory and how does it impact our romantic relationships?
  • What are the different attachment styles?
  • How do our early childhood experiences with attachment affect our subconscious mind?
  • How can we retrain our mind to transform any limiting program in each of the 7 areas of life (Mental, Emotional, Spiritual, Physical, Relationships Career & Financial)?

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How to Stay Safe When Online Dating

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We want you to stay safe when online dating. My podcast guest, Jenny Thompson, has created an easy way to do a background check. Listen!

It’s so important to stay safe when online dating. Jenny Thompson is the founder and CEO of SafetyPIN Technologies, the Internet’s first portable trust badge. With so many of us using apps to hire babysitters, rent private homes, and, of course, go on dates, SafetyPIN offers a better way to develop trust online.

In this episode:

  • Why do background checks on your dates
  • When to do a background check
  • Why dating sites should NOT do background checks
  • How to stay safe when online dating!

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When to Tell Him Your Deal Breakers

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Should you discuss deal breakers with men when you first start dating? Yes and no. In this video, you’ll learn when and what to share.

Stephanie wrote in, “Should you tell your deal breakers upfront? I have done this and then had men just hide them from me after finding out what they were.” In this video, I share which you should discuss before meeting, and which will reveal themselves through careful observation of his words and actions.

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How to Make Him Love You

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You’re dating a man who’s scared to commit. Are you wondering how to make him love you? Listen to this video to hear what I think…

A woman wrote to me about her boyfriend, asking for advice:

Hi Sandy,

I’m writing concerning my boyfriend. His last relationship is still affecting him. He got dumped by her after waiting several years hoping it would lead to marriage. Now he’s scared about our relationship. Sandy, please can you tell me how to make him love me. How to make him happy. How to make him forget all he has gone through. I really love him , I want us and I want to make him happy.

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