When to Tell Him Your Deal Breakers

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Should you discuss deal breakers with men when you first start dating? Yes and no. In this video, you’ll learn when and what to share.

Stephanie wrote in, “Should you tell your deal breakers upfront? I have done this and then had men just hide them from me after finding out what they were.” In this video, I share which you should discuss before meeting, and which will reveal themselves through careful observation of his words and actions.

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How to Make Him Love You

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You’re dating a man who’s scared to commit. Are you wondering how to make him love you? Listen to this video to hear what I think…

A woman wrote to me about her boyfriend, asking for advice:

Hi Sandy,

I’m writing concerning my boyfriend. His last relationship is still affecting him. He got dumped by her after waiting several years hoping it would lead to marriage. Now he’s scared about our relationship. Sandy, please can you tell me how to make him love me. How to make him happy. How to make him forget all he has gone through. I really love him , I want us and I want to make him happy.

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What to Do if He’s Moving Too Fast

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What do you do if a man is moving too fast, and it makes you uncomfortable? In this video, you’ll learn 5 steps to slow the pace down.

I get this question a lot: “He’s moving too fast, and I don’t know what to do! How can I slow him down without turning him off?” If you’ve ever dated a guy whose pace was faster than yours, you’re not alone. In this video, you’ll learn 5 steps to take if a man is moving way faster than you.

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Why Most Relationships Fail

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Dr. Larry Waldman explains why most relationships fail. Turns out, we date backwards. Tune in to find out what this means…and more!

My podcast guest, Dr. Larry Waldman, spoke about why most relationships fail, and how to forge healthy relationships. He’s a clinical forensic psychologist who consults, teaches graduate counseling courses, speaks professionally on parenting and relationships, and writes articles and self-help books on those topics. His books include “Who’s Raising Whom?” “Coping with Your Adolescent;” “How Come I Love Him But Can’t Live with Him?” “The Graduate Course You Never Had;” “Too Busy Earning a Living to Make Your Fortune?” “Overcoming Your Negotiaphobia;” and his latest book, “Love Your Child More Than You Hate Your Ex: What Every Divorced Parent Needs to Know.”

In this episode of Last First Date Radio, you’ll learn:

  • How you can love someone and not be able to live with them
  • What it means to date backwards
  • Why second marriages and most relationships fail
  • How to argue effectively
  • How to foster healthy relationships

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How to Heal Childhood Wounds

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It’s important to heal our childhood wounds to have healthy relationships. In this video, I explain the origin of our wounds and how to heal them.

Our childhood wounds carry on into our adulthood relationships unless we do the work to heal them. We are all the products of our downloaded love blueprint, which is influenced by how we experienced love by our caretakers. This includes whether we were able to receive and give love safely; whether we felt cherished for who we were, not only what we did. In this video, you’ll learn how to begin to heal from your childhood wounds.

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