The Impact of Attachment Trauma On Romantic Relationships

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Your attachment trauma directly impacts your adult relationships. Thais Gibson revealed the fascinating reasons why we choose our partners.

My podcast guest, Thais Gibson, spoke about attachment trauma and how it affects our love lives. She’s an author, speaker and co-creator of the Personal Development School. Thais is best known for her contributing work and research on Attachment Theory and the impact of attachment trauma on our adult romantic relationships. She’s the author of, The Attachment Theory Guide, and her YouTube channel often focuses on educating people on how to subconsciously reprogram this area of their lives.

In this episode:

  • What is Attachment Theory and how does it impact our romantic relationships?
  • What are the different attachment styles?
  • How do our early childhood experiences with attachment affect our subconscious mind?
  • How can we retrain our mind to transform any limiting program in each of the 7 areas of life (Mental, Emotional, Spiritual, Physical, Relationships Career & Financial)?

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How to Stay Safe When Online Dating

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We want you to stay safe when online dating. My podcast guest, Jenny Thompson, has created an easy way to do a background check. Listen!

It’s so important to stay safe when online dating. Jenny Thompson is the founder and CEO of SafetyPIN Technologies, the Internet’s first portable trust badge. With so many of us using apps to hire babysitters, rent private homes, and, of course, go on dates, SafetyPIN offers a better way to develop trust online.

In this episode:

  • Why do background checks on your dates
  • When to do a background check
  • Why dating sites should NOT do background checks
  • How to stay safe when online dating!

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When to Tell Him Your Deal Breakers

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Should you discuss deal breakers with men when you first start dating? Yes and no. In this video, you’ll learn when and what to share.

Stephanie wrote in, “Should you tell your deal breakers upfront? I have done this and then had men just hide them from me after finding out what they were.” In this video, I share which you should discuss before meeting, and which will reveal themselves through careful observation of his words and actions.

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How to Make Him Love You

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You’re dating a man who’s scared to commit. Are you wondering how to make him love you? Listen to this video to hear what I think…

A woman wrote to me about her boyfriend, asking for advice:

Hi Sandy,

I’m writing concerning my boyfriend. His last relationship is still affecting him. He got dumped by her after waiting several years hoping it would lead to marriage. Now he’s scared about our relationship. Sandy, please can you tell me how to make him love me. How to make him happy. How to make him forget all he has gone through. I really love him , I want us and I want to make him happy.

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What to Do if He’s Moving Too Fast

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What do you do if a man is moving too fast, and it makes you uncomfortable? In this video, you’ll learn 5 steps to slow the pace down.

I get this question a lot: “He’s moving too fast, and I don’t know what to do! How can I slow him down without turning him off?” If you’ve ever dated a guy whose pace was faster than yours, you’re not alone. In this video, you’ll learn 5 steps to take if a man is moving way faster than you.

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Why Most Relationships Fail

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Dr. Larry Waldman explains why most relationships fail. Turns out, we date backwards. Tune in to find out what this means…and more!

My podcast guest, Dr. Larry Waldman, spoke about why most relationships fail, and how to forge healthy relationships. He’s a clinical forensic psychologist who consults, teaches graduate counseling courses, speaks professionally on parenting and relationships, and writes articles and self-help books on those topics. His books include “Who’s Raising Whom?” “Coping with Your Adolescent;” “How Come I Love Him But Can’t Live with Him?” “The Graduate Course You Never Had;” “Too Busy Earning a Living to Make Your Fortune?” “Overcoming Your Negotiaphobia;” and his latest book, “Love Your Child More Than You Hate Your Ex: What Every Divorced Parent Needs to Know.”

In this episode of Last First Date Radio, you’ll learn:

  • How you can love someone and not be able to live with them
  • What it means to date backwards
  • Why second marriages and most relationships fail
  • How to argue effectively
  • How to foster healthy relationships

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