Confusing Intuition and Triggers in Dating and Relationships

Confusing Intuition and Triggers

Do you have trouble distinguishing between your intuition and triggers? This could be what’s keeping you from true love. Check out this video to learn more.

If you have trouble distinguishing between your brilliant intuition and the triggers from your past, you’re listening to the wrong inner guide. This can be one of the key reasons you’re single. You’re being reactive instead of proactive in your love life. Many women who are dating after 40 are unknowingly shutting down their hearts to love by thinking that their triggers, which are based in fear and self-protection, are telling the truth. Your intuition, which is based in love and core values, is the real truth-teller, your guide to true love. I created a video to explain this further…

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Are You Doomed to Repeat Relationship Mistakes of Your Past?

 

Have you wondered if you’re doomed to repeat the relationship mistakes of your past? You’re not alone. Listen to today’s video to learn how to choose healthier relationships.

We want to give you some new ways to think about your past relationship mistakes and their impact on the relationships you have today and in your future. My colleague, Theresa Byrne, and I love to teach about boundaries, and today’s topic is an example of applying both internal and external boundary setting skills.

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Boundaries: How to Handle Toxic Family Members

 

toxic family members

In this week’s video, we’re talking about how to set boundaries with toxic family members. If you have a family member who steps on your boundaries, you must watch this!

Have you ever felt all zen and in a really grounded place? Then you spend time with your family. Within minutes you feel all that calmness slipping away. There’s a great quote from Ram Dass, “If you think you’re enlightened, go spend a week with your family!” This weeks video in our boundaries series is about how to handle Toxic Family Members.

WHY is this important? Because we can’t choose our families, but we CAN choose how to set boundaries with them to protect ourselves from emotional pain.

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Boundaries: How to Deal With Unwanted Sexual Advances

Unwanted Sexual Advances

How do you deal with unwanted sexual advances? Do you ignore it and hope it goes away?
Do you freeze, not sure what you’re supposed to do? Watch this video for tips and tools!

This week’s boundaries video is about a heavy and sensitive topic: How to deal with unwanted sexual advances. What do you do if someone is coming on to you in a sexual way, either at work or in your personal life, and it makes you uncomfortable?

This can even be people saying sexual or inappropriate things to you that make you uncomfortable, which is still a kind/type of sexual advance.

The creep vibe.

The looks up and down or suggestive comments. Ick!

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Boundaries: How to Effectively Handle Unsolicited Advice

unsolicited advice

If you’ve ever been on the receiving end of unsolicited advice, you know how annoying it can be. In this video, we share our method for dealing with well-meaning meddlers!

Have you ever been the unwitting recipient of someone telling you what they think you need to do? Have you been “shoulded” on? Like you “should” this or that. Unsolicited advice comes at us all the time.

In today’s video we’re addressing unsolicited advice. This is a really common boundary violation, and the next time you’re faced with a well-meaning meddler, we want you to be able to deal with it with grace.

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How to Save a Challenging Relationship

Challenging Relationship

Can your relationship be saved? My radio guest, Larry Bilotta, discloses the number one reason why marriages fall apart and how he saved his own challenging relationship from hell!

Want to know how to save your challenging relationship? Married over 40 years when divorce is so prevalent, my radio guest, Larry Bilotta, is the leading authority on understanding people, marriage and relationships.

Larry lived 27-years in a marriage made in Hell, but in the 28th year, he fell in love…with his wife! Today, after transforming his own marriage, Larry holds the key to bringing a marriage back from the brink of divorce – even after the papers have been filed.

Highlights below for episode #293: How to Keep the Wrong People Out of Your Life.

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