[VIDEO] Should You Date a Separated Man?

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Should you date a separated man? Most women say, “Hell no!” In this video, you’ll hear my three principles for deciding whether to date a separated man.

Should you date a separated man? Most women feel they shouldn’t date a separated man because:

a. He may not be over his ex yet, and they might reconcile.

b. He may not be emotionally ready for a relationship yet.

c. Their faith is against dating men who are not yet divorced.

While all of the above reasons are valid, I feel it’s not that black and white of a situation. In this video, I offer a way to see the issue of whether you should date a separated man through a new lens. Check it out!

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How to Practice Tantric Dating

What is Tantric Dating? My podcast guest, Catherine Auman, explains the truth behind tantra (spoiler alert: it’s not about orgies).

My podcast guest, Catherine Auman‘s most recent book is Tantric Dating: Bringing Love and Awareness to the Dating Process. A Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Catherine is a relationship therapist and the Director of The Transpersonal Counseling Center in Los Angeles, California. She has advanced training in traditional psychology as well as the wisdom traditions. Catherine speaks twice a month in LA on how to find love and happy relationships, and she is the author of two books.

Highlights below for Episode 340: Tantric Dating: Bringing Love and Awareness to the Dating Process.

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Why Women Don’t Speak Up As Often As Men

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Want to know why women don’t speak up as often as men? In this video, I explain why this happens and how to begin to speak up much more in life and love.

A recent article in the New York Post revealed that women don’t speak up as often as men in academic seminars. In fact, women are two and a half times less likely to ask questions than men. Why do women speak up less often than men; at work, with friends and family, and especially in romantic relationships?





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How Patriarchy Stress Disorder Sabotages Women’s Love Lives

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What’s Patriarchy Stress Disorder, and how might it be affecting your love life? Dr. Valerie Baker shares her brilliant insights in this interview!

My podcast guest, psychologist, author, and speaker, Dr. Valerie Baker pioneers healing Patriarchy Stress Disorder™ (PSD)–the trauma of 1000s of years of oppression imprinted in women’s DNA. She calls PSD the invisible inner prison that keeps women from experiencing their ultimate success and happiness. In over 20,000 hours of her work as a therapist and coach to successful women, Dr. Valerie has guided thousands of women’s PSD jailbreaks. She helps high-achieving women who’re sick and tired of sacrificing their health, sanity, and love lives to heal PSD so they can finally marry their professional and personal success and happiness–and fully enjoy it.

Check out highlights below for episode #324: How Patriarchy Stress Disorder Sabotages Women’s Love Lives. 





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Empowering Women to Manifest Their Destiny

Empowering WomenMy podcast guest, Mary B. Morrison, believes in empowering women to manifest their destiny…in life, at work, and in love. Check out this episode!

My podcast guest, New York Times best-selling author Mary “HoneyB” Morrison, believes in the importance of empowering women to manifest their own destiny. She has published 23 books bestsellers with the underlying theme of female empowerment. Morrison founded Healing Her Hurt, Incorporated, a nonprofit that promotes the emotional, physical and financial health of marginalized women and girls by providing self-empowerment tools, resources and education. In 2010 and 2014, Mary also produced a play based on her novel, Single Husbands, which she wrote under her pseudonym, HoneyB.

Check out highlights below, and listen to/download episode #318: Empowering Women to Manifest Their Destiny.





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How to Stop the Crazy-Making Cycle of People Pleasing

Are you a people pleaser? Listen to this episode of Last First Date Radio, and learn how to stop the cycle of people pleasing!

My podcast guest, Amy E. Smith, is a certified confidence coach, masterful speaker, and personal empowerment expert. Founder of TheJoyJunkie.com, Amy uses her roles as coach, writer, podcaster, and speaker to move individuals to a place of radical personal empowerment and self-love.

With acute focus on helping people “find their voice”, she is highly sought after for her uncommon style of irreverence, wisdom, and humor and has been a featured expert on Fox 5 San Diego and YourTango.com.

Check out highlights below for episode #314: How to Break the Cycle of People-Pleasing with Amy Smith. 





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