Why Women Don’t Speak Up As Often As Men

women don't speak up

Want to know why women don’t speak up as often as men? In this video, I explain why this happens and how to begin to speak up much more in life and love.

A recent article in the New York Post revealed that women don’t speak up as often as men in academic seminars. In fact, women are two and a half times less likely to ask questions than men. Why do women speak up less often than men; at work, with friends and family, and especially in romantic relationships?

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How Patriarchy Stress Disorder Sabotages Women’s Love Lives

Patriarchy Stress Disorder

What’s Patriarchy Stress Disorder, and how might it be affecting your love life? Dr. Valerie Baker shares her brilliant insights in this interview!

My podcast guest, psychologist, author, and speaker, Dr. Valerie Baker pioneers healing Patriarchy Stress Disorder™ (PSD)–the trauma of 1000s of years of oppression imprinted in women’s DNA. She calls PSD the invisible inner prison that keeps women from experiencing their ultimate success and happiness. In over 20,000 hours of her work as a therapist and coach to successful women, Dr. Valerie has guided thousands of women’s PSD jailbreaks. She helps high-achieving women who’re sick and tired of sacrificing their health, sanity, and love lives to heal PSD so they can finally marry their professional and personal success and happiness–and fully enjoy it.

Check out highlights below for episode #324: How Patriarchy Stress Disorder Sabotages Women’s Love Lives. 

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Empowering Women to Manifest Their Destiny

Empowering WomenMy podcast guest, Mary B. Morrison, believes in empowering women to manifest their destiny…in life, at work, and in love. Check out this episode!

My podcast guest, New York Times best-selling author Mary “HoneyB” Morrison, believes in the importance of empowering women to manifest their own destiny. She has published 23 books bestsellers with the underlying theme of female empowerment. Morrison founded Healing Her Hurt, Incorporated, a nonprofit that promotes the emotional, physical and financial health of marginalized women and girls by providing self-empowerment tools, resources and education. In 2010 and 2014, Mary also produced a play based on her novel, Single Husbands, which she wrote under her pseudonym, HoneyB.

Check out highlights below, and listen to/download episode #318: Empowering Women to Manifest Their Destiny.

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How to Stop the Crazy-Making Cycle of People Pleasing

Are you a people pleaser? Listen to this episode of Last First Date Radio, and learn how to stop the cycle of people pleasing!

My podcast guest, Amy E. Smith, is a certified confidence coach, masterful speaker, and personal empowerment expert. Founder of TheJoyJunkie.com, Amy uses her roles as coach, writer, podcaster, and speaker to move individuals to a place of radical personal empowerment and self-love.

With acute focus on helping people “find their voice”, she is highly sought after for her uncommon style of irreverence, wisdom, and humor and has been a featured expert on Fox 5 San Diego and YourTango.com.

Check out highlights below for episode #314: How to Break the Cycle of People-Pleasing with Amy Smith. 

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Why You Should Lower Your Expectations in Dating

Lower Your Expectations in Dating

Lower your expectations in dating. What? Yes, your expectations are probably keeping you single. Find out why in this video!

If you’re a single woman over 40, you may be sabotaging your love life by having too many expectations. That’s why I suggest you lower your expectations. What? Lower your expectations in dating? Yes, you read that correctly. Here’s why…

Let’s say you expect men to always pursue you, and you never initiate contact, you will miss many opportunities to connect online and offline with quality men. (HINT: Men over 40 don’t chase like younger men do).

If you expect men to have advanced degrees in education in order to prove their intelligence, you’ll miss all the brilliant men who never went to college. Do you see what I mean? Watch this video to learn more.

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[VIDEO] The Worst Dating Advice for Women Over 40

Dating Advice for Women Over 40

There’s so much bad dating advice for women over 40, it can be crazy-making. This video outlines the 5 worst dating tips and what you should do instead if you want to find love.

Unfortunately, there’s a ton of bad dating advice for women over 40. It can be overwhelming and confusing to date at this age. To compound the issue, much of the advice out there is contradictory. “Never make the first move.” “Women should ask men out.” “Wait 24-hours before texting him back.” “Text back that day or he’ll lose interest.” How do you make sense of all of the advice out there?

In this video, I share the five worst dating tips…and what you should do instead if you want to find true love.

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