Dating with children can be tricky. That’s why I believe it’s helpful to spend some time deciding what works for you and your children. In this video, I speak about when to date again, when and how to talk to your kids, when to have sex and more. Check out today’s video, and please post your comments below.
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Terry Gaspard, LICSW, licensed therapist and author, joined me on Last First Date Radio to speak about the challenges of remarriage. She’s a contributor to The Good Men Project, The Gottman Institute Blog, DivorcedMoms.com, Huffington Post, Patheos.com, and marriage.com. Follow Terry on Twitter, Facebook, and her website movingpastdivorce.com. Her forthcoming book, The Remarriage Manual: How to Make Everything Work Better the Second Time Around was published by Sounds True in February 2020.
Check out the show notes below for EP 390: Successful Remarriage Tips with Therapist and Author, Terry Gaspard.
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Do you have fear of abandonment? If you do, you’re not alone. My podcast guest, Jami, volunteered to be coached live on the show this week. She’s 50 years old, divorced five years, and she’s struggling with how to find love after her divorce. Her only relationship post-divorce lasted six months, and it wasn’t fulfilling. She wants to know if she’s emotionally unavailable. During our live session on Last First Date Radio, she revealed where her fear of abandonment comes from, and how that fear has shielded her from the love she’s seeking.
Listen as I coach her live on air to help her get unstuck and finally attract and create the love she wants.
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You go out with a great guy. You laugh together, and the conversation seems to flow. He says he had a great time. But, he doesn’t call you back. Why?
Most of the time, it has nothing to do with you. He’s not emotionally available, or he’s not over his ex yet. Maybe an ex came back into his life, or he’s looking for a fling. You won’t know, and you can’t do anything about any of these reasons. It’s best to let it go and move on to the next guy.
But, there are times when something happened on the date that turned him off that you’re not aware of. That’s something you can improve upon so you get asked out again and again by the guys you like. In this video, I share the top three reasons why men don’t call you back.
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Heather wrote in: “I’ve been separated and divorced for 6 years. I’ve been in therapy and have been working on myself (listening to your podcasts and being a woman of value) but still spent the last two years in a relationship that was on and off again. How do you quickly find out if someone is a match? Instead of spending a few years trying to figure it out.”
Listen to Episode 362 as I coach Heather live on air on how to know…should I stay or should I go?
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Should you date a separated man? Most women feel they shouldn’t date a separated man because:
a. He may not be over his ex yet, and they might reconcile.
b. He may not be emotionally ready for a relationship yet.
c. Their faith is against dating men who are not yet divorced.
While all of the above reasons are valid, I feel it’s not that black and white of a situation. In this video, I offer a way to see the issue of whether you should date a separated man through a new lens. Check it out!
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