Jami’s fear of abandonment is keeping her single. In this live coaching session on Last First Date Radio, I share tools to help Jami finally find love.

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Do you have fear of abandonment? If you do, you’re not alone. My podcast guest, Jami, volunteered to be coached live on the show this week. She’s 50 years old, divorced five years, and she’s struggling with how to find love after her divorce. Her only relationship post-divorce lasted six months, and it wasn’t fulfilling. She wants to know if she’s emotionally unavailable. During our live session on Last First Date Radio, she revealed where her fear of abandonment comes from, and how that fear has shielded her from the love she’s seeking.

Listen as I coach her live on air to help her get unstuck and finally attract and create the love she wants.

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You go on a great first date. But…he never asks you out again. If you wonder why men don’t call you back, this video is for you!

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You go out with a great guy. You laugh together, and the conversation seems to flow. He says he had a great time. But, he doesn’t call you back. Why?

Most of the time, it has nothing to do with you. He’s not emotionally available, or he’s not over his ex yet. Maybe an ex came back into his life, or he’s looking for a fling. You won’t know, and you can’t do anything about any of these reasons. It’s best to let it go and move on to the next guy.

But, there are times when something happened on the date that turned him off that you’re not aware of. That’s something you can improve upon so you get asked out again and again by the guys you like. In this video, I share the top three reasons why men don’t call you back.

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Listen as I coach Heather live on the podcast. She wants to know how she can figure out early on, “Should I Stay or Should I Go?”

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Heather wrote in: “I’ve been separated and divorced for 6 years. I’ve been in therapy and have been working on myself (listening to your podcasts and being a woman of value) but still spent the last two years in a relationship that was on and off again. How do you quickly find out if someone is a match? Instead of spending a few years trying to figure it out.”

Listen to Episode 362 as I coach Heather live on air on how to know…should I stay or should I go?

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Should you date a separated man? Most women say, “Hell no!” In this video, you’ll hear my three principles for deciding whether to date a separated man.

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Should you date a separated man? Most women feel they shouldn’t date a separated man because:

a. He may not be over his ex yet, and they might reconcile.

b. He may not be emotionally ready for a relationship yet.

c. Their faith is against dating men who are not yet divorced.

While all of the above reasons are valid, I feel it’s not that black and white of a situation. In this video, I offer a way to see the issue of whether you should date a separated man through a new lens. Check it out!

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What is Tantric Dating? My podcast guest, Catherine Auman, explains the truth behind tantra (spoiler alert: it’s not about orgies).

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My podcast guest, Catherine Auman‘s most recent book is Tantric Dating: Bringing Love and Awareness to the Dating Process. A Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Catherine is a relationship therapist and the Director of The Transpersonal Counseling Center in Los Angeles, California. She has advanced training in traditional psychology as well as the wisdom traditions. Catherine speaks twice a month in LA on how to find love and happy relationships, and she is the author of two books.

Highlights below for Episode 340: Tantric Dating: Bringing Love and Awareness to the Dating Process.

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Want to know why women don’t speak up as often as men? In this video, I explain why this happens and how to begin to speak up much more in life and love.

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A recent article in the New York Post revealed that women don’t speak up as often as men in academic seminars. In fact, women are two and a half times less likely to ask questions than men. Why do women speak up less often than men; at work, with friends and family, and especially in romantic relationships?

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