Why does Mary date men who aren’t kind? In this episode, I coach her to be able to choose men who respect and value her.

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This is a one-time coaching session with “Mary”, who’s not a client. She wrote in to the show: “Most of my life I’ve dated and had been married to men that have not been kind yet I would continue to give them chance after chance and think that it would get better. It never would, yet I have found myself in the same type of relationships over and over again. I would like to figure out why I give men chances when they have hurt me more than once.“

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

• How to stop giving the people you date the benefit of the doubt
• Why it takes seven times to leave an abusive relationship
• Why it’s important for people to earn their way back into your life if you breakup and they want to come back
• How our childhood influences our romantic relationships
• How one deal breaker makes all the good qualities null and void
• Why it’s important to ask more questions at the start of a relationship
• Curiosity is key in getting to know your dates better
• A great question to ask someone you’re dating to find out why their relationship ended

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Do you need to heal before dating again after loss or a breakup? In this video, you’ll learn how to heal and when to move on to date again.

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Do you have to heal completely before dating again after a breakup, divorce, or loss? The short answer is no, because we are never completely healed, and there’s a risk of doing so much healing, you put off dating altogether. But, the longer answer is it’s important to do some healing and self-reflection before jumping into a new relationship, or you will run the risk of repeating unhealthy dating patterns. In this video, you’ll learn about the type of healing that’s necessary and how to assess when you’re ready to start dating again.

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If you want to learn how to build trust in dating, this video is for you. If you’ve been betrayed or cheated on in the past, watch this!

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Has your trust ever been betrayed in dating or in a relationship? If so, it can be hard to trust when you date again. You will probably be on high alert for any potential threats to the relationship. When you don’t trust the people you date, you become hyper-vigilant, looking for what that person could do to hurt you, and that could sabotage a potentially healthy relationships. I’m going to share why it’s hard to trust and how to build trust in dating.

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Chemistry or compatibility – do you need both? How do you balance the two in a relationship? Watch this video!

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Which is more important – chemistry or compatibility? Are they equally important? One of the biggest challenges in romantic relationships is finding the balance between chemistry and compatibility. Here’s how to choose a partner based on both.

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Do want help in avoiding divorce? This divorce attorney wrote a guidebook for you. Listen to this important episode!

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Sarah Intelligator is a divorce attorney in Los Angeles, California. Practicing Family Law since 2008, Sarah has also been a yoga instructor since 2000. She organically bridged her two worlds, coining the term: “Holistic Divorce and Family Law.” In helping others through their divorces, Sarah realized that she could help them avoid divorce altogether. This inspired her to author her first book: “Live, Laugh, True Love: A Step-By-Step Guide to Dating and Finding a Meaningful Relationship, from a Divorce Attorney.” In her spare time, Sarah enjoys traveling and spending time with her son, Eli, and husband, Joel. She also dabbles in interior design.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

• How being a divorce attorney equips her to comment on relationships
• The 6 F words that lead to relationship failure
• An exercise to help define what’s most important in a relationship
• Good questions to ask on a date to determine if they’re right for you

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Do you struggle with speaking up in difficult situations? In this video, you’ll discover my 8 step process to help you resolve conflict.

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It can be challenging to speak up in when your feelings are hurt or when you need to express your feelings and needs in times of conflict. That’s why I’m sharing my 8-step method for how to have a difficult conversation.

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