Why Do I Keep Dating Men Who Aren’t Kind?

Why does Mary date men who aren’t kind? In this episode, I coach her to be able to choose men who respect and value her.
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This is a one-time coaching session with “Mary”, who’s not a client. She wrote in to the show: “Most of my life I’ve dated and had been married to men that have not been kind yet I would continue to give them chance after chance and think that it would get better. It never would, yet I have found myself in the same type of relationships over and over again. I would like to figure out why I give men chances when they have hurt me more than once.“
In this episode of Last First Date Radio:
- How to stop giving the people you date the benefit of the doubt
- Why it takes seven times to leave an abusive relationship
- Why it’s important for people to earn their way back into your life if you breakup and they want to come back
- How our childhood influences our romantic relationships
- How one deal breaker makes all the good qualities null and void
- Why it’s important to ask more questions at the start of a relationship
- Curiosity is key in getting to know your dates better
- A great question to ask someone you’re dating to find out why their relationship ended