How to Avoid Being Blindsided in a Relationship

blindsided in a relationship

Have you ever felt you were blindsided in a relationship? Things seemed to be just fine, and suddenly…BAM!…he breaks up with you. What happened? You didn’t see it coming.

I believe relationships leave clues, and if we pay close attention, it’s much harder to feel blindsided ever again. Watch this video to learn my method for preventing being blindsided in the future.

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3 Steps to Setting Clear Boundaries in Dating

Setting Clear Boundaries

Boundaries? Gotta have ’em! In this video, I share 3 steps to setting clear boundaries when you’re dating or in a relationship.

What are boundaries? I like to define them as a pink velvet rope, you know the kind they have in theaters? Their purpose is to keep the wrong people out and the right ones in. Boundaries are our emotional self-defense. They teach others how to treat us, and they keep us safe and sane.

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3 Ways to Build Trust in Relationships

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Trust is a cornerstone of a healthy relationship. How do you build trust? My podcast guest, Karen Aberle, shares actionable tips for you!

Whether you’re single, married, or searching for love, you’re sure to be inspired by my podcast guest. Karen Aberle is the author of Love’s Invisible Dance, inspired by her own juicy 30-year marriage, 3 decades of researching relationship and the philosophy of language, and an 18-year apprenticeship with shamans of central Mexico. She’s coached teams in Fortune 100 organizations on building strong professional relationships using the same skills she and her husband have taught in couples’ workshops.

Check out highlights below for episode 334: Karen Aberle on 3 Ways to Build Trust in Your Relationship





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How to Discover if a Man Wants a Relationship

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Are you confused about how to find out if a man wants a relationship? In this video, I share how to become a private investigator as you date to find love.

How do you know if a man wants a relationship or if he’s a player? Most women either end up interrogating a man on a first date…or they say nothing at all and wait for things to unfold.

Those strategies don’t work. In this video, I teach you how to find out if he shares your relationship goals by doing something you may not have thought of.





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How to Deal With a Man Who Blows Hot and Cold

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Ever been with a man who was loving one day and disappeared the next? Susan Winter shows you how to deal with a man who blows hot and cold.

My podcast cast, bestselling author/relationship expert Susan Winter (Allowing Magnificence and Older Women/Younger Men) writes, speaks and coaches on evolutionary forms of loving partnership and higher thinking. Internationally recognized as a thought leader in her field, Susan’s media credits include: The Oprah Show, The Today Show, Good Morning America, Harpers Bazaar, People Magazine, New York Magazine, and many, many more.

Check out highlights below for episode #328: Susan Winter on How to Deal With a Man Who Blows Hot and Cold.





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Why Women Don’t Speak Up As Often As Men

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Want to know why women don’t speak up as often as men? In this video, I explain why this happens and how to begin to speak up much more in life and love.

A recent article in the New York Post revealed that women don’t speak up as often as men in academic seminars. In fact, women are two and a half times less likely to ask questions than men. Why do women speak up less often than men; at work, with friends and family, and especially in romantic relationships?





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