Men are too scared to flirt, and this is impacting their mental health. Here’s how men can become more confident in flirting and dating.

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Marni Kinrys believes men are too scared to flirt, and it’s leading to a mental health crisis no one is talking about. She’s the founder of The Wing Girl Method, host of the Ask Women Podcast, designer of the F-Formula, and an award-winning female dating coach for men ages 25-85 at every stage of dating and relationships. Marni is known for her blunt, no “fluff” approach and honest insider tips, tools and advice on what women really want vs. what they say they want.

In this episode:

• Why men today are so scared to flirt
• The impact on men’s mental health
• How men can improve self-confidence
• Why so many men are afraid of rejection

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Do you find flirting in midlife to be awkward or fake? Here are five tips to help you flirt naturally, playfully, and effectively!

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Flirting in midlife isn’t about playing games or trying to be someone you’re not. It’s about connection, confidence, and letting yourself be seen. When you remove the pressure to perform, flirting becomes something you are, not something you do.

Here are 5 tips for flirting in midlife and beyond that don’t feel fake or forced.

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If you’re dating after 50, it can be challenging to know how to flirt and create attraction. Watch this video to learn how!

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If the thought of flirting makes you cringe a little… you’re not alone. Many of my clients over 50 tell me, “Flirting feels fake.” Or, “I don’t know how to flirt anymore!”

Here’s the good news: flirting isn’t about acting like someone you’re not. It’s about showing genuine interest, confidence, and a little playful energy that says, “I see you—and I like what I see.”

Attraction isn’t just about physical looks or sexy banter—it’s about how you make someone feel in your presence. Ready to flirt like the fabulous, radiant woman you are? Here are 5 simple ways to create connection and chemistry after 50 (without trying too hard).

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How do you get a second date when you’re interested in someone? My podcast guest, T. Joel Wade, has some excellent tips!

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How do you get a second date? My podcast guest, T. Joel Wade, has some tips for you! He is a Presidential Professor of Psychology at Bucknell University. His research focuses on mate attraction, mate selection, mate expulsion, love, and relationships. He’s the author of numerous articles in social and evolutionary psychology journals, and his research has been covered in media outlets including the BBC, NPR, and CBC, and numerous national and international news magazines.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

• Do the actions men and women use to get a second date differ, and if so why? 
• What are a few things people can say or do to get a second date?  
• How the actions men and women use to signal attraction to a potential mate differs

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If you’re dating again after 40, you may need to brush up on your flirting. In this short video, I share simple—yet powerful—flirting tips.

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When it comes to flirting, a lot of people who are returning to the dating pool in midlife feel out of practice and uncomfortable. How do you flirt without it feeling awkward or fake? In this short video I filmed for Bottom Line, Inc., I offer a few flirting tips to help you be more successful at this thing we call love!

Note: Flirting is not necessarily an invitation for sex. And you don’t have to be fake. Instead, it is a way to convey subtle, focused attention. Flirting can include offering compliments, being playful, lightly touching your date’s forearm (but don’t overdo it!). And the best flirting tip of all…smile.

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Kira Sabin knows a thing or two about getting out of your comfort zone and meeting men offline to find your true love.

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My radio guest, Kira Sabin, is a certified life coach, Troop Leader of Love for The League of Adventurous Singles, speaker, travel junkie, coffee aficionado, champagne lover, story collector, life explorer & seven layers of ridiculous. Oh! And she is from America’s Dairyland, Madison, Wisconsin, and yes, she loves cheese.

I had a blast interviewing Kira about getting out of your comfort zone and going on SCAVENGER HUNTS to meet men offline and find love. Click here to listen to the show. Read highlights of the show below.

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