Why the People We’re Attracted to Don’t Like Us Back

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The people we’re attracted to often don’t like us back. Why is that? And what can we do about it? That’s what this video is about!

You’re attracted to someone, and they don’t feel the same about you. Whether you’ve been on a first date with them and they never called again, or you’ve been dating for a while and they ended things because they weren’t into you, or even when you messaged someone you found attractive on a dating app and didn’t hear back, it hurts. Why does this happen, and what do we do when the people we’re attracted to don’t like us back?

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Boundaries Aren’t Bitchy – An Interview With Cami Elen

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Boundaries aren’t bitchy, even though many people think they are. Setting boundaries early on in dating is critical. Here’s how.

Several years ago, I was interviewed by Cami Elen about why boundaries aren’t bitchy. In this private summit, I shared vulnerably about why I became a dating and love coach, why boundaries are beautiful and how I help women set clear boundaries from the very start. This conversation was so important, I decided to share it in a podcast episode.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

  • The number one mistake women make at the start of dating
  • How to stop texting and meet someone for a first date
  • Standards and boundaries to set early on
  • How to know when to have sex in a new relationship
  • What’s the pink velvet rope in dating
  • My five step method to set clear boundaries in dating
  • An exercise to help you identify your core needs in dating
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Dating Fatigue: 5 Reasons to Take a Dating Break

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If you have dating fatigue, it’s time to take a break. In this video, learn five benefits of taking a dating break.

Do you have dating fatigue? It might be time to take a break from dating. Maybe you’re feeling burned out, or you’ve had a several conversations fizzle out in a way that left you frustrated, or you’re just busy right now and focused on other things. Whatever the case, if you feel you’re not in the right place to date, stepping back for some time—whether it’s for a few hours, a few days, or a few weeks—can be very beneficial. Here are five reasons and benefits of taking a dating break.

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How to Love Yourself Unconditionally

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If you don’t love yourself, you prioritize other people’s needs and let people treat you poorly. Here’s how to love yourself unconditionally!

Do you love yourself unconditionally? Most of us let ourselves down from time to time. We accept and excuse bad behavior from others. We stay stuck in jobs, friendships, and romantic relationships when we know we should leave. Let’s talk about five ways to love yourself unconditionally, so you can live a life in alignment with your authentic self.

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The Danger of Being the Cool Girl

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Have you ever been the Cool Girl in dating, saying you’re fine when you’re not, not speaking up when you’re hurt? Watch this video!

Are you a Cool Girl? Do you pretend you don’t care when you really do? Do you act like you’re okay with the way you’re spoken to, when you’re hurting inside? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you’re not alone. In this video, we’ll explore the dangers of being the Cool Girl, and what you can do instead.

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5 Ways to Let Go of Your Need to Control In Dating

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How do you let go of your need to control when you’re dating or in a relationship? Here are my top 5 tips!

Why do we often feel a need to control in dating and relationships? There are a few key reasons: 1. We’re afraid of what will happen if we let go (we’ll lose ourselves, get hurt, be disrespected). 2. We’re attached to an outcome we think is best for us (which closes us off to what’s actually better for us). In this video, you’ll discover why it’s important to let go of needing control and several ways to do it!

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