Listen to this cautionary tale of falling in love with an emotionally dangerous person. You won’t believe what happened in this episode!

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Bill Saubert is the author of “The Girl With The Green Lipstick“, a cautionary memoir of falling in love with an emotionally dangerous person. He’s an adventurer, NPR radio host, entrepreneur, non-profit board member, and novelist. He was a partner with the management consulting firm of McKinsey & Co before taking a senior marketing role with MasterCard in Australia for four years after which he retired. He is the proud father of a fabulous daughter and the grandfather of two beautiful children.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

• What motivated Bill to write his memoir about falling for an emotionally dangerous person?
• The significance of the green lipstick
• Is online dating riskier later in life?
• Why Bill missed red flags in his relationship

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When do you go ‘no contact’ after a breakup? In this video, you’ll learn six reasons why you should cut ties after a breakup.

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Is it hard for you to go ‘no contact’ after a breakup? Have you ever heard those three dreaded words after you’ve been dumped or you broke up with him: “let’s be friends”? In this video, my son Max and I discuss why it’s important to go ‘no contact’, and how it can be the best way to move on and heal after a breakup.

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Andre Paradis talks about men and commitment on this episode of Last First Date Radio. It’s the opposite of what you might think.

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Andre Paradis has been studying people his entire life. Over a decade ago, he was compelled to teach his findings and knowledge to the masses. He’s a Coach, Teacher, Educator, Mentor and Public Speaker, and is an expert in dating, love, parenting and business.

The magic is to be fully aware of the energy mechanism in place in these dynamics and learn to negotiate the terms to reduce power friction. Andre has been married for over two decades and is a proud parent of two teens.

In this episode:

• Why love relationships seem so difficult today
• Why releasing the walls we put up is crucial to love
• How can we release the armor?
• What makes a man commit to a woman?

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Want to get clear about your must-have list in dating? In this video, you’ll learn my surefire method for creating your must-have list!

I believe that to date most effectively and with the least amount of heartache, you need to be clear about your must-have list. These are the character traits you absolutely need in a relationship. 

When you’re first dating, it’s not always so easy to figure out if a guy is right or wrong for you. Most men have many redeeming qualities, but that doesn’t necessarily make him the right fit for YOU, especially if you’re looking for a long-term relationship.

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Sexual shame can keep us from experiencing the pleasures of a healthy sex life. Here are 5 signs of sexual shame and how you can overcome it.

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Sexual shame can keep us from fully experiencing the pleasures and benefits of a healthy sex life. But, many of us have shame around sex without even realizing it. The messages we receive about sex growing up and through our sexual experiences greatly influence how we view sex. In this video, I cover five signs of sexual shame and how we can overcome that shame to have the best sex of our lives!

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Women can emasculate men without even realizing it. Here are ten ways you might be emasculating men, and why it drives men away.

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What does ’emasculate men’ mean? Dictionary.com defines emasculation as castration, but that’s not what we’re talking about here. I’m referring to The Urban Dictionary definition of emasculation: “…the removal of a male ego, pride, empowerment.”

Women are often unaware when they do this. They wonder why men get so angry, defensive, or shut down. A common example of emasculation is when a man is driving with his significant other. He turns left to get on the highway, and she says, “You’re going the wrong way. The back roads are faster.” She’s making him wrong and herself right, and this leads to a big fight. “But, I was just trying to help”, she says. By trying to help, she’s subconsciously trying to control him. He feels emasculated, because he now believes he can’t do anything right in her eyes. This can lead to the fracturing of many relationships.

Watch this video to learn how to stop emasculating men and create the loving relationship you want.

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