Safe to Love During COVID-19 and Beyond

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Dr. Gary Salyer is an expert on helping people feel safe to love, especially during COVID-19. Listen to this very important episode.

Dr. Gary Salyer is a transformational relationship mentor who helps singles and couples rewrite the rules for love in their brains so they can create a love that lasts. He’s the author of, Safe to Love Again: How to Release the Pain of Past Relationships and Create the Love You Deserve.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

  • What it means to be safe to love, especially during the pandemic
  • How our Attachment Style influences our romantic partner choices
  • Your basic human rights when it comes to love
  • The challenges created during the pandemic for singles and couples
  • The inner work that helps you finally find lasting love

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It’s Never Too Late

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I’m living proof that it’s never too late to begin again. If you’re feeling stuck in life or love, watch this video.

It’s Never Too Late! Are you settling in your life in any way? For the first fifty years of my life, I settled in love, life, and work. To the outside world, I had it all; a husband who was a comedian with a successful career, we worked together, and I did my own work as an artist painting furniture (not earning much money), three healthy kids, a beautiful home in Stamford, CT, volunteer work…. But on the inside, I felt lonely, disrespected, trapped, judged, and unfulfilled.

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The Neuro Trauma Healing Process

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My podcast guest, Dane Stevens, created a healing process to help people create their best life and their most extraordinary relationships.

Dane Stevens created a healing process to help people create their best life and their most extraordinary relationships. He’s the owner and director of An Extraordinary Life, a company that promotes healing, awareness and self-empowerment. He developed the Neuro Trauma Healing Process – NTHP – out of sheer necessity when his nervous system became dangerously compromised. He’s the author of, Reclaim Your Power to Create Your Best Life, which reveals his story and the process.

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The Difference Between Partnership and Relationship

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What’s the difference between partnership and relationship? In this video, discover why partnerships are stable and relationships end.

In this week’s Last First Date Radio podcast episode, relationship coach, Ken Bechtel, spoke about knowing the difference between partnership and relationship. He said, “If we look at what relationship means, it’s how two people relate or behave towards each other. Partnership is a team, a shared soul level relationship. That’s the key. If you’re in a partnership, you’re in an agreement, so when they’re not with you, you’re still connected and working towards a mutual goal...A partnership is like a teeter totter, where each is fully engaged. You participate together.”

In this video, I dive deeper into the differences between partnership and relationship.

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How to Deal With Breakup Guilt

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The person ending a relationship often feels breakup guilt. In this video, learn how to overcome breakup guilt and find lasting love.

When you’re the one ending a relationship, it’s common to experience breakup guilt shortly after the relationship ends, especially if you see your partner suffering after the breakup. It’s also common to glorify and miss all that was good in the relationship, instead of remembering what didn’t work. As a couple, you had hopes and dreams, and now those are over. Even if you know your ex wasn’t right for you, the dream of what you hoped for has ended, and that can bring up many difficult feelings.

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Setting Boundaries During Challenging Times

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Setting boundaries keeps us safe and sane. In this video, discover my 5-Step process for setting crystal clear boundaries.

Setting boundaries…always important, but especially during the challenging times we’re experiencing right now with the pandemic. In this video presentation I did for Ellevate Women’s Network, I cover some of the boundary challenges you might be dealing with, and how creating boundaries can help you stay safe and sane, no matter what’s going on in your world.

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