“Working with Sandy I have come to value all that I bring to a relationship. I found a great guy online after my divorce and started working with Sandy to ensure I remain a high value woman for myself first and then an awesome girlfriend second. Sandy is thrilled to hear about my high points and skillfully walks me through the lows with great care. She isn’t scared to tell me what I need to hear and often has great insight into opportunities for deepening our connection. I am in love! The universe provided me with a gift by putting Sandy on my path.” [UPDATE: Jennifer and her boyfriend got married! They have a beautiful blended family and are so happy together.] 

“I wanted to finally break my pattern of dating emotionally unavailable men, and I was overwhelmed and intimidated by online dating. That’s why I hired Sandy—to help me date online with increased self-love, dating and communication skills, and confidence.

Sandy wrote an excellent profile that captured the real me, selected the best pictures, and most importantly, showed me that online dating could be a positive and fun experience. I gained the confidence to be my true self when communicating with and meeting men.

I am now in a wonderful relationship with a really good man. I believe he’s in my life, because Sandy helped me step out of my comfort zone, speak up as a woman of value, and attract a man with the qualities I want and need in a relationship. Thank you Sandy!” 

“I was divorcing after a long marriage, and as a guy in my mid-50s, I was unsure of who I was as a dater, lover, or partner: I was seeking an expert that could provide an outside perspective on who I was after exiting a long relationship.

Many people have blind-spots when they are looking at themselves and I was sure that applied to me as well. My story happily developed into an exclusive relationship during the period that Sandy and I were working together, so she modified her approach from dating coach to relationship tutor, helping me navigate interpersonal conversations while fostering my personal growth in the process.

As a knowledgeable sounding board, Sandy provided necessary feedback, advice, and tools which moved my relationship towards more honesty and intimacy. My commitment to coaching with Sandy truly leveled-up the quality of my social interactions with women, boosted my self-confidence, and resulted in a happy, loving relationship.” 

“I'd been divorced for about three years after a marriage of almost 20 years. I couldn't seem to get over all of the negative feelings associated with the split: resentment, anger, guilt, regret.  None of these thoughts were serving me!  I was also in a new relationship, seemingly playing out old patterns of behavior like minimizing my needs, not being able to communicate them and then wondering why the relationship was so surface level.

What Sandy was able to help me see is that my needs are important and it is critical to have the skills to communicate them.  Her book "Becoming a Woman of Value" also provided super helpful tips for truly valuing my self-worth and embracing everything I have to offer.  We went through weekly homework, and the exercises stretched me to do things that were very much out of my comfort zone.  Simple things like speaking up when I felt hurt or felt mimized.  I never realized how often I squelch my needs so as not to appear "high maintenance".  

Whenever I get into the mode of rumination about my ex-husband and divorce, I'm able to remember Sandy's words: "You both did the best you could."  That helps me get to a place of peace and acceptance for how things turned out.  In my new relationship, I am much more comfortable expressing my needs, and am often surprised at the positive response I get from my guy!  Amazing what happens when you actually ask for what you need.

I'm truly grateful for my time with Sandy.  She gave me the confidence, tools and skills to communicate my needs and believe that having a great relationship is possible.  Thank you Sandy!  I wish I'd met you 25 years ago!” 

“I found the love of my life with your support! I now have the confidence to reach out to others, whether it be male, female, young, old, and share their sorrows and joys.

It’s easy for me to talk with anyone without judging either myself or them. I learned not to expect someone to rescue me. A light inside has been turned on and I’m sharing the real me with the world! Thank you, Sandy, for being who you are and giving your gifts to those in need!”

You can read more of Maureen’s story here.

"Sandy was a positive, gentle and knowledgeable guide through the murky waters of post-divorce dating. She helped me laugh, and when necessary, lift my chin back up and not take any of it too seriously.

I highly recommend Sandy for her tenderness and compassion along with her positive modeling of the process of dating after divorce.”

[Jane met the most amazing man online shortly after we began working together. It was the most authentic, loving relationship of her life!]