Last First Date University
Courses and books to help you go on your last first date!
“If you're struggling to find a partner, tired of dates that go nowhere, or wish you could connect more deeply with the people you date, my courses and books are designed to help you go on your last first date, because it's never too late to find the love you deserve.”
Sandy Weiner
Chief Love Officer at LastFirstDate.com
Canada
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for the Epic Love Course. I have learned so much from you.
I feel confident that I will find my heart-mate and life will be so full that I will be overflowing with love and happiness. I am pumped on this next journey of my life. I feel calmer and more confident. WOOHOO!
Last First Date University
The Best Dating & Relationship Courses
**NOTE: Find Love Online and the Communication Skills Courses Are Only Taught LIVE
You can sign up for the waitlist. All other courses are DIY and available immediately!
Ace the Date
• Are you sick of going on dates that feel like a WASTE OF TIME and aren’t leading you to the relationship you want?
• Are the men you’re attracted to NOT ASKING FOR A 2ND DATE, while the needy or boring guys can’t wait to see you again?
• Are you NOT GETTING ASKED OUT at all and wonder why?
If the interesting, charming, attractive men are disappearing after one date or not asking you out, it’s NOT because something is wrong with you. There are just some things you don’t yet know.
In this course, dating coach, Bobbi Palmer and I will show you the REAL reasons why this is happening in your life—and how you can instantly turn your dating success around with new information and easy-to-implement steps. You’ll learn how to be optimistic about dating and ENJOY it, because you’ll be attracting the men you like and want. And you’ll do it WITHOUT MANIPULATION and WITHOUT ACTING. In fact, you’ll do it just by being YOU!
How to Talk to Men
Wouldn’t You Love to Know Exactly What to Say to Men…to Have the Deepest, Most Authentic Relationships?
What if you could…
• UNDERSTAND MEN and know what they REALLY WANT in a relationship. (It’s not what you think.)
• Know WHAT TO SAY to inspire a man to put his arms around you and want to DO ANYTHING TO PLEASE YOU.
(When you know these things, you will be irresistible to him!)
• Always know the exact words that will CONNECT TO A MAN’S HEART-ESPECIALLY WHEN YOUR FEELINGS ARE HURT.
A Successful Woman’s Guide to Epic Love
What Made You Successful in Business May Be Stopping You From Getting the Love You Want!
What if you could…
• ATTRACT MEN who meet you on all levels
• Reconnect to your SENSUALITY and inspire a man to fall in love with you
• Balance your work success with SUCCESS AT LOVE!
This program, led by Love Coach, Sandy Weiner, and Sexuality Expert, Dr. Saida Désilets, will support you to magnetize the man you deeply desire through connecting deeply with your sensuality and balancing your work success with your feminine grace.
Overcoming Fears in Dating and Relationships
Have Your Fears Held You Back From Going on Dates or Getting Close to Men you Like?
Fear and love can’t coexist. If you have been too afraid to date, or you’re afraid of getting hurt again, it will be difficult for you to attract love into your life. Your heart will not be open to love.
Whether you’re afraid for your physical or emotional safety, fears can keep you from the intimate relationship you yearn for.
Learn how to overcome your dating and relationship fears, so you can open your heart to the men who value you, the men who are safe to date, the men who will cherish and love you. When you overcome your fears, you'll be able to attract in your forever love.
This mini-course will:
Help you identify your most pressing dating and relationship fears, and give you actionable tips to help you move past your fears towards the relationship you desire and deserve.
Find Love Online
[NOTE: LIVE ONLY - SIGN UP FOR THE WAITLIST IF IT'S NOT BEING TAUGHT TODAY]
Wouldn’t it be wonderful to have a partner at this time? Someone to comfort you, to love and support you, and to binge-watch Netflix and eat chocolate together (or is that just me)?
I will show you how to date online in a way that helps you get to know men on a much deeper level. More intimacy and depth and more courting to slowly get to know each other. Doesn't that sound wonderful?
But, it’s not just about getting online and chatting with every potential romantic match. There’s a much more effective way to sift, sort, and ‘court’ successfully, and it involves the right skillset and mindset.
Would you like to learn how to create more meaningful connections?
Communication Skills for Better Relationships
[NOTE: LIVE ONLY - SIGN UP FOR THE WAITLIST IF IT'S NOT BEING TAUGHT TODAY]
When your feelings are hurt, do you speak up with kindness, lash out in anger, or hold back and say nothing until you can't take it anymore?
Communication is THE most important skill for healthy, loving relationships. Unfortunately, most of us were never taught HOW to communicate in a way that brings us closer to the people we care about while staying true to ourselves.
I created this new comprehensive LIVE course for you: Show Up, Stand Up, Speak Up! Communication Skills for Better Relationships. You'll learn how to quickly process your emotions so you can communicate more effectively with everyone...especially in your romantic relationships. Are you ready to learn how to become a great communicator?
Say it Your Way
Storytelling for Dating And Connection
[NOTE: LIVE ONLY - SIGN UP FOR THE WAITLIST IF IT'S NOT BEING TAUGHT TODAY]
Many people believe dating success comes down to attraction, timing, or witty banter. But the moments that truly create connection happen through stories.
Stories reveal who you are without you having to over-explain yourself. They show your humor, your heart, your resilience, and your values in a way that feels natural and authentic.
Whether you're dating again after a long break, navigating the frustrating world of midlife dating for the first time, or wanting deeper connection with the people in your life, storytelling helps you be remembered for who you truly are.
By the end of this course, you'll have the skills to share your most important stories, know how to answer challenging and annoying dating questions, speak with clarity, humor and confidence, and develop the storytelling skills you need to succeed in dating.
Boundary University
Boundaries Are Essential (and they don't have to be so hard)! Healthy relationships -- whether at work, in romantic partnerships, families or friendships -- require skills, practice, and awareness.
They involve self-knowledge, good communication and the ability to set - and keep - clear, loving boundaries.
The result? More respect, love, and peace of mind. Less burnout and despair. You'll have relationships that don’t drain you ... they actually will FEED your soul.
Are you ready to improve your life by learning and practicing our highly effective way to set boundaries at Boundary University?
New York
“Becoming a Woman of Value” is an engaging quick read but packed with lots of practical techniques to live your best LIFE (work, home & LOVE)! Sandy’s personal stories are real and compelling and inspire the reader to go after what WE want in a healthy and authentic way. Learn to show, stand & speak UP by...”attracting in”, using your “brilliant intuition”, “taking care of your body, mind, spirit”, and “increasing your love vibration”.
Books by Sandy
Love at last:
true stories of falling in love later in life
The eighteen true stories of couples featured in "Love at Last" prove that the best relationships often come to us later in life. And love usually comes in surprise packages!
These stories will inspire you and give you hope if you're single to find your forever love.
“If you imagine that those who find love late in life are just lucky, each compelling story in this book with “love lessons” attached provides deeply honest truths about what it took to shape a relationship into something beautiful, remarkable and enduring. Luck can make an introduction, but then the work begins. I recommend this book wholeheartedly.”
Susan Scott, author of Fierce Love, Creating a Love That Lasts – One Conversation at a Time
CHOICE POINTS IN DATING:
EMPOWERING WOMEN TO MAKE HEALTHIER DECISIONS IN LOVE
Have you ever asked yourself “where are all the great men?” Have you wondered why you keep dating the same person with a different face? You’re not alone.
Healthy, lasting relationships don’t just happen ”when the time is right” or “when you’re not looking” as so many believe.
It’s all about the choices we make: how we think about dating, who we choose to date, how we communicate about hard things, when we walk away from the wrong people, and how we find and commit to the right partners.
Discover the hidden reasons why we make poor choices in love and the behaviors and skills that lead to our best choices and ultimately – our last first date.
Becoming a Woman of Value: HOW TO THRIVE IN LIFE AND LOVE
In Becoming a Woman of Value: How to Thrive in Life and Love, I invite readers on a personal and transformational journey toward self-worth and authentic living.
This book is designed for any woman who has ever played small, doubted herself, or stayed in situations that felt less than she deserved. With warmth and clear guidance, I break down the internal barriers that hold women back from claiming their confidence, showing that true value starts with how we show up for ourselves.
Through a blend of introspection, practical exercises, and empowering concepts, the book gently challenges readers to rethink their patterns—whether in relationships, work, or daily life—and to cultivate a sense of value that is both deeply personal and powerfully freeing.
The Secrets to setting
healthy boundaries in dating
Stop driving yourself crazy OR letting the people you date drive you bonkers! Discover the secrets to staying sane while looking for lasting love. In this book, Martial Arts expert, Theresa Byrne, and I have compiled a list of “The Top 20 Tips” you need for setting clear boundaries in dating.
We’ve also given you the “Boundaries in Your Back Pocket Blueprint”—quick scripts for what to say when you’re feeling unsure, but you know you need to draw the line.
Learn the secrets to not only why you need to set limits, but some of the best ways to set them. It’s all based on decades of practical field research by a martial arts/defense and boundary setting expert and a dating coach who use these tools with their clients and in their own lives.
Montana
“A must have guide for becoming a more confident woman of value in both love and life
Well written, easy to follow guide for finding one's authentic self, overcome false beliefs, setting boundaries and much more. There are areas in my life that I felt lacking but was unsure how to tackle them. This guide book has given me excellent examples and ideas that I can use to make improvements in those areas. I will recommend this book to my friends!”.
Key Benefits of
Our Courses and Books
If you want a healthy lasting relationship...
These courses and books will help you achieve success in dating and relationships. You'll improve social skills and sky-rocket your self-confidence.
I’ve broken it down into easy to follow steps to help you attract the love you deserve—without all the heartbreak and effort.
These DIY courses and books are designed for you to advance at your own pace.
1
Become a more effective dater
Most of us weren't modeled or taught how to date, especially after 40. I'll show you what you need to know for success.
2
Understand and communicate with men
Contrary to popular belief, men are not 'hairy women'! They communicate differently, and I'll show you how to connect to their hearts and souls.
3
Overcome fears in dating and relationships
Fear and love can't coexist. Your fears could be keeping you from the love you deserve. Overcome those fears and find love!
4
Set clear boundaries
Boundaries are what keeps us in healthy relationships. You'll learn the secrets to setting and keeping boundaries without being mean!
California
Sandy helped me understand how to be more discerning about who I let into my life by setting boundaries early and often in relationships--of all kinds, not just those with new men. As a consequence, I am more highly attuned to recognizing warning signs and more confident in setting the boundaries I need to be true to myself.
The Best Dating and Relationship Courses and Books
Comprehensive real-world dating courses and books designed for long-term lasting change. Over a decade of research and coaching wrapped into courses and books you can afford. Because I want you to go on your LAST FIRST DATE!
ABOUT US
Sandy Weiner helps people uncover their highest potential in all areas of life. The CEO of Last First Date and The Woman of Value, she's an internationally known TEDx speaker, dating and relationship coach, women's empowerment coach, and author of four books. She’s also the host of two podcasts, Last First Date Radio and The Woman of Value Podcast. She believes it's never too late to go on your last first date!