Last First Date University

Courses and books to help you go on your last first date!

“If you're struggling to find a good man, tired of dates that go nowhere, or wish you could connect more deeply with men, I can help. My highly effective courses and books will help you find and create a deep loving connection with a high value man.”

Sandy Weiner

Chief Love Officer at



Thank you from the bottom of my heart for the Epic Love Course. I have learned so much from you.

I do feel confident that I will find my heart-mate and life will be so full that I will be overflowing with love and happiness  I am pumped on this next journey of my life.  I feel calmer and more confident. WOOHOO!

Last First Date University

The Best Dating & Relationship Courses

**NOTE: Find Love Online and the Communication Skills Courses Are Only Taught LIVE 

You can sign up for the waitlist. All other courses are DIY and available immediately!

Ace the Date

    •    Are you sick of going on dates that feel like a WASTE OF TIME and aren’t leading you to the relationship you want?

    •    Are the men you’re attracted to NOT ASKING FOR A 2ND DATE, while the needy or boring guys can’t wait to see you again?

    •    Are you NOT GETTING ASKED OUT at all and wonder why?

If the interesting, charming, attractive men are disappearing after one date or not asking you out, it’s NOT because something is wrong with you. There are just some things you don’t yet know.

In this course, dating coach, Bobbi Palmer and I will show you the REAL reasons why this is happening in your life—and how you can instantly turn your dating success around with new information and easy-to-implement steps. You’ll learn how to be optimistic about dating and ENJOY it, because you’ll be attracting the men you like and want. And you’ll do it WITHOUT MANIPULATION and WITHOUT ACTING. In fact, you’ll do it just by being YOU!

How to Talk to Men

Wouldn’t You Love to Know Exactly What to Say to Men…to Have the Deepest, Most Authentic Relationships?

What if you could…

    •     UNDERSTAND MEN and know what they REALLY WANT in a relationship. (It’s not what you think.)

    •     Know WHAT TO SAY to inspire a man to put his arms around you and want to DO ANYTHING TO PLEASE YOU.

(When you know these things, you will be irresistible to him!)

    •    Always know the exact words that will CONNECT TO A MAN’S HEART-ESPECIALLY WHEN YOUR FEELINGS ARE HURT.

A Successful Woman’s Guide to Epic Love

What Made You Successful in Business May Be Stopping You From Getting the Love You Want!

What if you could…

    •     ATTRACT MEN who meet you on all levels

    •     Reconnect to your SENSUALITY and inspire a man to fall in love with you

    •    Balance your work success with SUCCESS AT LOVE!
This program, led by Love Coach, Sandy Weiner, and Sexuality Expert, Dr. Saida Désilets, will support you to magnetize the man you deeply desire through connecting deeply with your sensuality and balancing your work success with your feminine grace.

Overcoming Fears in Dating and Relationships

Have Your Fears Held You Back From Going on Dates or Getting Close to Men you Like?

Fear and love can’t coexist. If you have been too afraid to date, or you’re afraid of getting hurt again, it will be difficult for you to attract love into your life. Your heart will not be open to love.

Whether you’re afraid for your physical or emotional safety, fears can keep you from the intimate relationship you yearn for.

Learn how to overcome your dating and relationship fears, so you can open your heart to the men who value you, the men who are safe to date, the men who will cherish and love you. When you overcome your fears, you'll be able to attract in your forever love.
This mini-course will:

Help you identify your most pressing dating and relationship fears, and give you actionable tips to help you move past your fears towards the relationship you desire and deserve.

Find Love Online


Wouldn’t it be wonderful to have a partner at this time? Someone to comfort you, to love and support you, and to binge-watch Netflix and eat chocolate together (or is that just me)?

I will show you how to date online in a way that helps you get to know men on a much deeper level. More intimacy and depth and more courting to slowly get to know each other. Doesn't that sound wonderful?

But, it’s not just about getting online and chatting with every potential romantic match. There’s a much more effective way to sift, sort, and ‘court’ successfully, and it involves the right skillset and mindset.

Would you like to learn how to create more meaningful connections?

Communication Skills for Better Relationships


When your feelings are hurt, do you speak up with kindness, lash out in anger, or hold back and say nothing until you can't take it anymore? 

Communication is THE most important skill for healthy, loving relationships. Unfortunately, most of us were never taught HOW to communicate in a way that brings us closer to the people we care about while staying true to ourselves.

I created this new comprehensive LIVE course for you: Show Up, Stand Up, Speak Up! Communication Skills for Better Relationships.  You'll learn how to quickly process your emotions so you can communicate more effectively with everyone...especially in your romantic relationships. Are you ready to learn how to become a great communicator?

Boundary University

Boundaries Are Essential (and they don't have to be so hard)! Healthy relationships -- whether at work, in romantic partnerships, families or friendships -- require skills, practice, and awareness.

They involve self-knowledge, good communication and the ability to set - and keep - clear, loving boundaries.

The result? More respect, love, and peace of mind. Less burnout and despair. You'll have relationships that don’t drain you ... they actually will FEED your soul. 

Are you ready to improve your life by learning and practicing our highly effective way to set boundaries at Boundary University?


 New York

“Becoming a Woman of Value” is an engaging quick read but packed with lots of practical techniques to live your best LIFE (work, home & LOVE)! Sandy’s personal stories are real and compelling and inspire the reader to go after what WE want in a healthy and authentic way. Learn to show, stand & speak UP by...”attracting in”, using your “brilliant intuition”, “taking care of your body, mind, spirit”, and “increasing your love vibration”.

Books by Sandy

The Secrets to setting 

healthy boundaries in dating

Stop driving yourself crazy OR letting the people you date drive you bonkers! Discover the secrets to staying sane while looking for lasting love.

In this eBook, Martial Arts expert, Theresa Byrne, and I have compiled a list of “The Top 20 Tips” you need for setting clear boundaries in dating.

We’ve also given you the “Boundaries in Your Back Pocket Blueprint”—quick scripts for what to say when you’re feeling unsure, but you know you need to draw the line.

We share the secrets to not only why you need to set limits, but some of the best ways to set them. It’s all based on decades of practical field research by a martial arts/defense and boundary setting expert and a dating coach who use these tools in their teaching and in their lives.

Becoming a Woman of Value:


If you’ve ever played small to make others comfortable, stayed quiet when you had something important to say, or stayed in a bad relationship or job too long because you didn’t think you could do better, this book is for you.

It's your guide to becoming a Woman of Value™.

The book is divided into the 3 PILLARS OF CORE CONFIDENCE™.




When you live as a woman of value, you will reap the benefits in all areas of your life; at work, in life, and in love.



Have you ever asked yourself “where are all the great men?” Have you wondered why you keep dating the same person with a different face? You’re not alone.

Healthy, lasting relationships don’t just happen ”when the time is right” or “when you’re not looking” as so many believe.

The most amazing relationships can happen at any age or stage of life. It’s all about the choices we make, from how we think about dating, to who we choose to date, how we communicate about hard things, when to walk away from the wrong people, and how we find and commit to the right partners.

Discover the hidden reasons why we make poor choices in love and the behaviors and skills that lead to our best choices and ultimately – our last first date.



A must have guide for becoming a more confident woman of value in both love and life

Well written, easy to follow guide for finding one's authentic self, overcome false beliefs, setting boundaries and much more. There are areas in my life that I felt lacking but was unsure how to tackle them. This guide book has given me excellent examples and ideas that I can use to make improvements in those areas. I will recommend this book to my friends!”.

Key Benefits of 

Our Courses and Books

If you want a healthy lasting relationship...

These courses and books will help you achieve success in dating and relationships. You'll improve social skills and sky-rocket your self-confidence.

I’ve broken it down into easy to follow steps to help you attract the love you deserve—without all the heartbreak and effort.

These DIY courses and books are designed for you to advance at your own pace.


Become a more effective dater

Most of us weren't modeled or taught how to date, especially after 40. I'll show you what you need to know for success.


Understand and communicate with men

Contrary to popular belief, men are not 'hairy women'! They communicate differently, and I'll show you how to connect to their hearts and souls.


Overcome fears in dating and relationships

Fear and love can't coexist. Your fears could be keeping you from the love you deserve. Overcome those fears and find love!


Set clear boundaries

Boundaries are what keeps us in healthy relationships. You'll learn the secrets to setting and keeping boundaries without being mean!

healing your relationships with men



Sandy helped me understand how to be more discerning about who I let into my life by setting boundaries early and often in relationships--of all kinds, not just those with new men. As a consequence, I am more highly attuned to recognizing warning signs and more confident in setting the boundaries I need to be true to myself.

The Best Dating and Relationship Courses and Books

Comprehensive real-world dating courses and books designed for long-term lasting change. Over a decade of research and coaching wrapped into courses and books you can afford. Because I want you to go on your LAST FIRST DATE!


Sandy Weiner helps women uncover their highest potential in all areas of life. The CEO of Last First Date and The Woman of Value, she's an internationally known TEDx speaker, dating and relationship coach, women's empowerment coach, and author. She’s also the host of two podcasts -- Last First Date Radio and The Woman of Value Podcast. Sandy believes a woman of value gets the respect and rewards she deserves in life and love.