Five Keys to Happiness ~ Even if You’re Not in a Relationship
Of course you want to be happy. Maybe you feel that the key to happiness lies in finding the man or woman of your dreams. You are not alone. Happiness, that pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, can seem elusive to some. Why does it feel so hard? I’d like to suggest that perhaps we are focusing on the wrong things.
The truth is that happiness is not that hard to achieve. In order to have the man or woman of your dreams, you need to be happy with yourself. Yes, I know that sounds like a big old cliché. But it just happens to be a simple truth. To be happier, refocus your life by considering the following key steps:
Stop looking for happiness over there.
Perhaps you are attracted to happy people and wonder why they get to be so lucky? Why is their life so much better than yours? Why do they have more money, more balanced kids, more supportive parents, healthier relationships, better friends, just fill in the blank? Everyone has their share of sh%^*t. It’s how they deal with it that matters. This is your sh%^*t we’re talking about. You get to choose how to deal with it.
Less talk, more action and focus.
What you say to yourself and others doesn’t matter as much as what you do. It’s your focus, or lack of it, that counts. What do you focus on every day? The focus of your life should be consistent with your priorities. Do you focus every day on your happiness? Are your actions consistent with your focus? If you are happier, you will be more likely to attract a healthy partner.
Live happiness right now.
Happiness exists only in the now. The best way to begin your discovery of true happiness is to stop looking for it. Happiness is not a discovery; it is already in you, waiting to be unveiled. To be truly happy is to unblock the shields to your happiness, uncover the joy within, and share that with others. You will be a magnet for positive people and attract a wonderful mate.
Focus your good attitude on a person that you want to attract.
Giving someone your undivided attention makes him or her feel special. Your aura of happiness will rub off. You will become irresistible because you are giving to another. Sharing joy is sexy!
Simplify your life.
Get rid of negative energy. Drop resentments and assumptions. Focus on happiness NOW. If you want a happy life and a joyous relationship, share the happiness that is within yourself, and do it right now. Do it with clarity and focus. Get rid of all black holes of energy.
As Ghandi so eloquently said, “You must be the change you wish to see in the world.” Change your happiness and see what you attract into your life.