Flirting Tips for Midlife Daters

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If you’re dating again after 40, you may need to brush up on your flirting. In this short video, I share simple—yet powerful—flirting tips.

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When it comes to flirting, a lot of people who are returning to the dating pool in midlife feel out of practice and uncomfortable. How do you flirt without it feeling awkward or fake? In this short video I filmed for Bottom Line, Inc., I offer a few flirting tips to help you be more successful at this thing we call love!

Note: Flirting is not necessarily an invitation for sex. And you don’t have to be fake. Instead, it is a way to convey subtle, focused attention. Flirting can include offering compliments, being playful, lightly touching your date’s forearm (but don’t overdo it!). And the best flirting tip of all…smile.

 

Flirting Tips for Midlife Daters

I asked my private Facebook group to share some of their favorite flirting tips.

Here’s what they said:

– Wear a dress that shows some cleavage 👗 and cover it up with a light sweater. Then, if you really like him, take it off and make him sweat 😓. It makes them lose their concentration.
– Tie a knot in the stem of the cherry with your tongue. Kidding, I suck at flirting!
– Eye contact with a smile and gently bite my lip. Kinda hard to explain…
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Watch the video below to learn my simple but powerful flirting tips. 

flirting tips

Do you have a few of your own that I haven’t mentioned? Please leave a comment below and help other midlife daters relax into flirting.

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Comments

2 Comments

  1. ss June 21, 2019 at 4:55 AM

    Hi Sandy – LOVE this post/video. It is so helpful!

    The biggest lessons for me are:

    flirting isn’t necessarily an invitation to s.e.x. – it’s about giving someone the attention
    flirting is about giving compliments, being playful and being less serious
    light physical touch & smile are great ways too!

    I put the lessons from you into practice.

    Really I had the same impression about flirting – always concerned about whether I was too playful. Thank you Sandy for clearing that up!

    Also, touching is also a crazy question of mine for a long time – I’m generally a warm person and I love hugging people. But I also don’t want to give them the wrong impression especially professionally. Your tip provided the perfect answer! Touching is great – just keeping it on the lower arm area!

    Thank you Sandy!

  2. Sandy Weiner June 21, 2019 at 9:24 AM

    Thank you, Siyan 🙂

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