How to Create Sexual Enlightenment

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Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver show you how to create sexual enlightenment in yourself and your relationships.

Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver have helped thousands of couples and singles create lasting intimacy and fulfillment in their life and relationships. They’re featured on Showtime’s documentary series Sexual Healing and the Emmy Award-winning NBC show Starting Over, best-selling authors of Sexual Enlightenment: How to Create Lasting Fulfillment in Life, Love and Intimacy endorsed by world-renowned Spiritual Pioneer Dr. Michael Beckwith, and the co-founders of TantraNova Institute in Chicago. Elsbeth and Freddy are husband and wife as well as business partners living in Chicago.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

  • What is sexual enlightenment?
  • What’s “sacred sexuality”?
  • How can women and men benefit from the TantraNova approach?
  • The role of creativity in the context of sexual enlightenment. 

EP 505: Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver – How to Create Sexual Enlightenment

What led you to do this work?

Freddy: When I was 13 and living in Hawaii, my father who was a psychiatrist, gave me a book on sexuality. It helped me get past fears and unconscious blocks. When I grew up, I became a software engineer, and I began looking to find my life partner. I moved to Chicago and found Elsbeth. We partnered and started our company.

Elsbeth: I didn’t have a dad like Freddy’s. I was born in Germany. Got my doctorate in education and became a management consultant. I was miserable in relationships, attracting unavailable men. There was a pivotal moment when I realized I needed to make a change in my approach to relationships. I took a tantra workshop that opened up healing for me and helped me trust men.

What is sexual enlightenment?

Freddy: We work with life force and sexual energy, where we’re receptive and open. When we have a witness state of mind, we open energetically to the right person. We flatten unhealthy attractions.

Elsbeth: Tantra is the energetic body. If we could learn to attune with our life force energy and how it shows up, it would change our lives for the better. It’s the most powerful energy, as it brings forth life. Become aware of how the energy moves through us. Become connected to your spark. We notice a physical sensation in our body. We notice emotional body sensations as feelings. In our mind, we notice thoughts that can open or close the path to love. Out of that awareness, we can alter it.

How do you work with people?

Freddy: People who come to work with us learn the foundations of their energetic self and how their thoughts show up, which create energy. We teach them how to work consciously with their sexual energy. 

How does feminine and masculine energy show up in sexuality?

Elsbeth: This shows up in any couple of any gender. Unless there is yin and yang polarity, there is no attraction. Masculine sexual energy rises quickly and then falls. We teach men to separate ejaculation from orgasm. Then they can learn to bring consciousness to their energetic self.

Feminine sexual energy rises much more slowly, and can last a lot longer. When a man brings this energy to a woman, it’s easier for her to receive. He feels connected from his heart and his sexual energy. We call it holding space for a woman. It requires evolution on both sides. 

What are your final words of advice for anyone who wants to have sexual enlightenment and go on their last first date?

Place a hand on your heart, close your eyes, notice how your energy drops into your heart. Gratitude, love. Go on dates from that space. Listen from your heart space instead of your critical mind. Do this exercise every day.

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