How to Deliberately Attract Your Soul Mate

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Are you dating with clarity and focus? My radio guest, Love Coach Dina Robison, shared useful tips on how to deliberately attract your soul mate.

My radio guest, Dina Robison is a Deliberate Love Coach, Certified Law of Attraction Coach, Certified Yoga and Meditation instructor. She inspires women to deliberately attract your soul mate and love you truly desire. Joyfully married, Dina has two beautiful daughters and lives in Sunnyvale, California.

You can listen to the show via the player at the bottom of the post. And check out highlights below for episode #286: How to Deliberately Attract Your Soul Mate with Love Coach, Dina Robison.


How to Deliberately Attract Your Soul Mate

What inspired you to do the work you do?

In 2008, I was in my last unfulfilling relationship. It woke me up to breaking the cycle of repeating a pattern of spiraling out of control. What could I do differently? I stopped dating for a few years. I moved from NYC back to my family home in California. I did soul searching, meditation, and coaching programs. In 2011, I was ready to date again. I met my soulmate in May of that year, and he proposed seven months later. We got married the following August.

I noticed that a lot of people in my life were following similar patterns. They were drawn to me for advice and encouragement. So, I became a coach to help others make the journey more enjoyable and quicker.

What is deliberate attraction, and how is it different from regular attraction?

Deliberate attraction having as much clarity as possible and clear focus on the type of person and relationship you want to attract. It’s also about clarity around life goals. Once you have that clarity, it’s easier to recognize him when you meet him.

How do you date to attract deliberately?

If you’ve done the work, you’re clear about who you are and who your soul mate partner is, it makes it so much simpler. Meditate on where your soulmate will be, and go to the places where he might be. Live your life with your goals in mind from the soul level. You’re more likely to find him.

This also applies to online dating. I met my husband online. I knew I needed to go online, even though I had a lot of resistance. You use your clarity to decide which sites to go on, how to write your profile, and how to seek the right match based on his profile.

How can you find out if someone is looking for a serious relationship on the first date?

I suggest you ask open-ended questions that allow him to reveal his values and goals.

For example:

  • If you found your dream woman now, what would that look like?
  • What do you see yourself doing in the next ten years?
  • What makes you happy?

What is the biggest success story you have had with a client over 40 that believed she was the most unlikely to find love?

A few years ago, a woman came to me heartbroken. She was living in Corsica, France, in her late forties, and had a long distance romance that didn’t work out. She was ready for change. I worked with her, and she began with very little hope of meeting someone. There was a small pool of men on her island to choose from.

I was helping her live from her soul. Her passion was writing a blog. A man started commenting on her posts, and they began emailing. They collaborated, started Skyping, and he became her soulmate. They’re married, living in France and traveling all over the world.

Grab your FREEBIES from Dina at On the home page, there’s a free audio to help you deliberately attract your soulmate now, and in the pop up box, you can opt in for a mini course to learn how to choose the best online site and write a profile to draw in your soulmate.

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