How Women Are Redefining Intimacy and Dating Standards

How are women today redefining intimacy and dating standards? Listen to this episode with Morgan Hewett to find out!
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How are women redefining intimacy and dating standards? My podcast guest, Morgan Hewett, is a second-time founder and Harvard Business School MBA building Devin, an AI powered vibrator + erotic audio experience for women. She previously founded and sold a generative-AI health tech startup and now focuses on modern dating, female desire, and why women are rewriting the rules of relationships in the AI era.
In this episode:
- Why so many successful women opt out of conventional dating
- How to tell the difference between loneliness and desire for a partner
- The role of technology in emotional and sexual fulfillment
- Mindset shifts to date with confidence
EP 711: Morgan Hewett – How Women Are Redefining Intimacy and Dating Standards

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How are women redefining intimacy and dating standards? That’s what we’re talking about on this episode with my guest, Morgan Hewett. She is a second-time founder and Harvard Business School MBA building Devin, an AI powered vibrator + erotic audio experience for women. She previously founded and sold a generative-AI health tech startup and now focuses on modern dating, female desire, and why women are rewriting the rules of relationships in the AI era.
In this episode:
- Why so many successful women opt out of conventional dating
- How to tell the difference between loneliness and desire for a partner
- The role of AI and technology in emotional and sexual fulfillment
Connect with Morgan
- Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@morgan.pink.founder
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/morgan.pink.founder
- Learn more about Devin, the escape you’ve been waiting for: https://devintoys.com/
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Highlights from this episode
What is Devin?
- Morgan Hewitt, Harvard MBA, is the founder of Devin (AI-powered vibrator + interactive erotic audio).
- Devin: device with sensors for adaptive vibration + customizable interactive audio voice/fantasy.
- Target users span ages 30–65; many presale signups from women 40–65.
- Use cases include solo pleasure, partner-enhancement, and therapeutic support for trauma survivors.
Dating trends & why women opt out of dating
- Increasing numbers of women single by choice; many report equal or greater life satisfaction when single.
- Economic independence raises expectations: women now prioritize emotional availability, not just financial stability.
- Generational shift: younger men (Gen Z) show more emotional intelligence; older cohorts may lag.
- Toxic relationship patterns and trauma lead some women to delay or avoid dating.
AI, privacy, and ethical concerns
- Privacy caution: large AI platforms may use conversational data for ads; Devin emphasizes limited/no collection of PII and safe onboarding (use of fantasy identities).
- Ethical concern: AI replacing human creators/artists and full replacement of human relationships is troubling.
- Devin positions AI as augmentation (self-exploration, rehabilitation, sexual literacy), not replacement for human intimacy.
Practical takeaways for dating & sexual health
- Self-knowledge and self-pleasure improve communication and relationship satisfaction.
- Tools like Devin can help people experiment safely, build sexual literacy, and practice intimacy (including for PTSD recovery).
- Dating advice: be authentic, set boundaries, cultivate self-attraction before seeking validation from others.
Connect with Morgan
- Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@morgan.pink.founder
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/morgan.pink.founder
Watch this episode on YouTube
Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast here.
Apply to get FREE coaching on the podcast: https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching
If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to finally find love, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute love breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application
Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate
Get a copy of Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love and Choice Points in Dating; Empowering Women to Make Healthier Decisions in Love and Love at Last: True Stories of Falling in Love Later in Life
