Let’s Talk About Sex After 40!

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sex after 40Are you getting back into dating in your 40s, 50s and beyond? In today’s video, I’m talking about sex after 40. Check it out!

Let’s talk about sex after 40! What are the ‘rules’ about sex when you’re getting back into dating in your 40s and 50s? I sat down with Sarah Hiner, President of Bottom Line, Inc., to discuss the Last First Date  dating principles. I don’t believe in hard and fast rules. I do believe it is absolutely fine not to have sex right away, but do communicate your attraction so your prospective partner doesn’t lose interest or get the wrong idea. As with other aspects of relationships, it’s important that people communicate what they want and need. And most important, daters should get tested for STDs and use protection against STDs­—this is a very real risk to this age group.

Let’s Talk About Sex After 40!

In a recent episode of Last First Date Radio, my guest, Matt Marr talked about how to discuss sex with your partner. Here’s an excerpt:

How can people explore sexuality in a safe way?

Build your own strong sexual self first. I recently saw so many people on social media talking about Jennifer Lopez as a cougar because she dates younger men. It offended me. One of the things women over 40 are dealing with is a culture that says it’s not appropriate to be sexual at their age.

If you’re not comfortable with your sexuality, ask yourself, “Is that a story I created on my own, or was it from my parents, religious institution, TV, movies, etc?”

[It’s important to discover your limiting beliefs and create a new story about healthy sexuality.]

Read more and listen to the episode here.

Watch the video below to hear more about the ins and outs (pun intended) of sex after 40!

sex after 40

How do you feel about sex after 40? Do you believe in the 3-date rule? The 90-day rule? What works for you?



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