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Men and Commitment…It’s the Opposite of What You Think

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Andre Paradis talks about men and commitment on this episode of Last First Date Radio. It’s the opposite of what you might think.

Andre Paradis has been studying people his entire life. Over a decade ago, he was compelled to teach his findings and knowledge to the masses. He’s a Coach, Teacher, Educator, Mentor and Public Speaker, and is an expert in dating, love, parenting and business.

The magic is to be fully aware of the energy mechanism in place in these dynamics and learn to negotiate the terms to reduce power friction. Andre has been married for over two decades and is a proud parent of two teens.

In this episode:

  • Why love relationships seem so difficult today
  • Why releasing the walls we put up is crucial to love
  • How can we release the armor?
  • What makes a man commit to a woman?

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How to Be More Vulnerable On Dates

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Being vulnerable on dates helps you build intimacy. But what exactly is vulnerability? Check out this video to learn more.

Why is it so important to be vulnerable on dates? And how do we define vulnerability?

The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines being vulnerable as:

1: capable of being physically or emotionally wounded

2: open to attack or damage : ASSAILABLE, vulnerable to criticism

If this is vulnerability, no thank you, right? Most of us grew up with this definition, and we avoided being vulnerable to protect ourselves from being hurt. Unfortunately, this protection also kept us from true intimacy.

My son, Max, joined me for this video on how to be more vulnerable on dates…

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Navigating Post-Pandemic Dating

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How do you navigate post-pandemic dating? Dr. Sheva Assar, clinical psychologist, shares practical tips and exercises for dating success.

Clinical Psychologist Dr. Sheva Assar specializes in supporting others by improving their confidence and experiences with dating, relationships, and life. She has a passion for advancing conversations around mental health, especially for young women, and sharing the tools necessary to not just get through life, but to thrive.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

-The challenges of post-pandemic dating

-How to successfully date again after the pandemic

-How to increase self-confidence in dating

-The importance of setting and enforcing personal boundaries

-How to date with intention

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The Problem With Keeping Someone On The Back Burner

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If you’ve ever kept an ex on the back burner while dating other men, this video reveals why the back burner sabotages your relationships.

Have you ever kept an ex on the back burner while dating other men? You keep in touch, he makes you feel desired and attractive, and he keeps you from feeling lonely.  

In this video, I share why keeping someone on the back burner can actually sabotage your search for love.

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The Shadow Side of Love

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Love Coach Junie Moon speaks about the shadow side of love. In this episode, learn what it is and how it might be keeping you from love.

Junie Moon, aka The Love Coach, teaches women in midlife how to magnetize their ideal partner and experience what she calls Next Level Love. She’s an award-winning international speaker, best-selling author of Loving the Whole Package: Shed the Shame and Live Life Out Loud, director/producer of the film Shed the Shame, host of the podcast Midlife Love Out Loud and a Certified Shadow Work® Facilitator.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

  • How Junie went from a 200-pound unhappy wife to losing weight, divorcing, and becoming a love coach
  • What is Shadow Work, and why is it important in dating?
  • What are some of the top reasons people struggle in relationships?
  • What are the four Love Shadows
  • How can people heal from their self-sabotage in love?
  • How can people break unhealthy patterns in love?

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Practice Dates: Top 3 Reasons They Help You Find Love

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Afraid to date again after a breakup or a long dry spell? Go on practice dates. In this video, learn the top 3 reasons why they help.

Are you afraid to date again after a breakup or a long dry spell? Go on practice dates. These are dates with men who aren’t your type, men you’re not that attracted to, men who are ‘maybes’. In this video, I discuss the top 3 reasons why you should go on practice dates.

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Rebuilding Libido for a Healthy Sex Life

If you’re a woman who lost her libido, discover the truth about rebuilding libido for a healthier sex life.

Irene Fehr is a Sex and Intimacy Coach who specializes in helping women in rebuilding libido. She helps couples in long-term relationships improve their intimacy and sex. Her mission is to dispel dangerous myths about women’s libido that cause heartache and broken dreams. She is no stranger to her clients’ issues, having recovered from the all-too-common story of a ‘happy marriage turned sexless’ when she lost her libido — all before turning 30.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

  • How Irene’s marriage went from great sex to no sex
  • The truth about rebuilding libido
  • What men and women can do to become more intimate
  • How to heal body image issues that effect sex
  • The truth about women’s libido, and why it’s so often misunderstood
  • Three myths about women’s libido

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