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If you’re a single woman over 40, follow the blog to learn how to attract quality men, sustain a healthy relationship, break up with dignity, understand and communicate with men 40 +, and much more…

How to Deliberately Attract Your Soul Mate

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Are you dating with clarity and focus? My radio guest, Love Coach Dina Robison, shared useful tips on how to deliberately attract your soul mate.

My radio guest, Dina Robison is a Deliberate Love Coach, Certified Law of Attraction Coach, Certified Yoga and Meditation instructor. She inspires women to deliberately attract your soul mate and love you truly desire. Joyfully married, Dina has two beautiful daughters and lives in Sunnyvale, California.

You can listen to the show via the player at the bottom of the post. And check out highlights below for episode #286: How to Deliberately Attract Your Soul Mate with Love Coach, Dina Robison.

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10 Types of Dating Drama that Turn Off the Men You Like

Are you unknowingly coming across as a drama queen in dating? Dating drama will turn off the men you like. Author Camie Vincent dishes on dating drama!

[NOTE: Today’s guest post is by Camie Vincent, aka LadyLove, an upcoming guest on my radio show.]

I once saw a video on You Tube that basically said men considered ALL women to bring some amount of crazy and drama to a relationship. Some more than others, and if a man was lucky enough to find a woman who rarely unleashed that side of her, hold on tight, because she is a mystical unicorn who surely would be highly sought after! After I read it, I asked a few of my single male friends if they agreed. Not only did they say they did, but they enjoyed talking about the different degrees of dating drama they have had to endure over the years.

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How to Manage Painful Emotional Triggers

Emotional triggers from childhood trauma will resurface in life and love…unless you learn how to manage them. Riana Milne shows you how.

My radio guest, Riana Milne, is a certified global Life, Dating & Relationship Coach, a #1 Best Selling author and expert on dealing with trauma and emotional triggers. She helps one overcome a fearful negative mindset to tap into their personal power and positive, conscious mindset for success in both life and love relationships.

With close to 90% of adults experiencing adverse childhood events, Riana explains how emotional triggers from the past influence our reactions and behaviors as adults, often sabotaging self-confidence and happiness in all life areas. She believes that we all come from an element of childhood trauma, and how we handle that is vital to our relationships.

Highlights below for episode #285: How Childhood Trauma & Emotional Triggers Impact Adults in Life & Love.

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Important Ways to Increase Your Core Confidence as a Woman of Value

Are you seeking amazing, passionate, blissfully happy, lasting love? It all begins with core confidence and knowing your true worth. Here’s how!

My radio guest, international bestselling author Ava Miles calls herself a divine rockstar—something she believes everyone is deep down. She’s on a mission to help women increase their core confidence. Ava spent many years traveling the world and sharing her gifts with women and men in war-torn countries, helping them rebuild and reintegrate their communities amidst intense struggle. She has managed multi-million-dollar projects and multi-national teams of people in the private sector, in non-profits and in domestic and international agencies as well as multilateral organizations such as the United Nations.

Now, she brings that experience together with her passion for sparking joy and personal success in people’s lives, launching an all-new series of life-fulfillment books called “The Goddess Guides to Being A Woman.” With seven books in total, “The Goddess Guides” invite us all to reimagine what it means to be a modern woman with core confidence—on our own terms. Join Ava in letting the brilliance of your true goddess nature—and that of all the girls and women in your life—shine through. 

Below, you can find highlights of episode #284: The Goddess Guide to Being a Woman with Author Ava Miles.


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Relationship Secrets to Attract the Love You Want


This podcast reveals relationship secrets that will help you transform your life and help you attract a healthy loving relationship!

My radio guest, Orion Talmay, is a love coach and an international speaker. She works with successful high achievers and helps them unleash their feminine power and become a magnet for conscious relationships and love. She is the founder of Orion’s Method and the host of the popular podcast Stellar Life. Orion helps women truly love themselves, elevate confidence, ignite their passion, and create a sense of freedom ease and flow. She combines the physical, mental, sensual and spiritual to create an integrated transformation. Orion is a world traveler who has learned from leading luminaries in personal development, health/wellness, spirituality, relationships and sexuality arenas.

Highlights below for episode #283: Relationship Secrets Your Mama Didn’t Tell You!

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How to Break Free From Codependent Family Patterns

If you grew up in a codependent home, this episode will help you break free from the patterns of enabling and giving up your needs for others.

How many times have you lost yourself in some chronic family crisis, giving and giving until there is no more left to give—and yet you give more. Out of love, out of duty, out of knowing that everyone looks to you?

My radio guest, Jodee Prouse, knows about codependent family patterns from personal experience. Her memoir, The Sun Is Gone, is about trying to halt the alcoholic decline of her beloved brother amidst a lifetime of codependent family crisis and dysfunction. It is both a cautionary tale and a beacon of hope for women to find the strength to make difficult yet healthy choices.

Her motto is: LEARN. ACCEPT. FORGIVE. AND HEAL. Check out highlights below of episode #281: The Power to Stop Enabling in Relationships.

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Warning: You May Be Dismissing Quality Men

Searching for quality men? Here are three ways to discover if he is a player, a boring nice guy or a hidden gem; aka a quality man.

Today’s post is written by JamesD’Souza, a happily married nice guy who finally figured out how to be noticed and loved for the quality man he always was.


Women spend a lot of time complaining about men. Even the tone and title of blog posts seem to reflect a general frustration women have with men:

“Five Devastating Reasons Quality Men Disappear”

“Why Are Guys Head Over Heels for Me at First But Lose Interest After a Few Weeks?”

“How Do I Stop Wasting Time With Men Who Aren’t Good for Me?”

“What to Do When You’re Dating a Guy Who’s Afraid of Commitment?”


Is every woman who’s looking to meet a great guy only meeting men who behave like this? I know we’re not all bad because my friends and I are not.

From what I’ve seen on many dating sites for women, men are commitment-phobic players. I know those headlines are written to entice readers, and they wouldn’t be attractive if there wasn’t an element of truth. But, what if there’s another view? Could it be that the more extreme behaviour of some men ruins it for the quality men?

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