When to Give Men the Benefit of the Doubt

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Do you give men the benefit of the doubt? Or do you sometimes dismiss a guy for something that might not be an issue? Watch this video!

Ladies, do you usually give men the benefit of the doubt when you’re dating? Or do you sometimes dismiss a man for something that may not be an issue? In this video, I explain what I mean by ‘benefit of the doubt’, and what it means during the three key stages of dating and relationships.

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How to Get a Man to Ask You Out

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How do you get a man to ask you out when you’re dating online and stuck in message hell? Watch this video to discover the best texts to send him!

You’re swiping right on a dating app, messaging someone, and the conversation doesn’t seem to be going anywhere. Why isn’t he asking for your number or asking you out? It can drive you crazy! In this video, I share a few great texts that will show you how to get a man to ask you out!

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How to Be Funnier on Dates (Even if You’re Not Funny)

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In dating, it helps to have a good sense of humor. Siyan Li shares what makes people funnier on dates in this episode of Last First Date Radio.

My podcast guest, Siyan Li, is a passionate humor investigator. She has analyzed 600+ talk show videos (yes, she admits to having mild OCD tendencies) to uncover exact lines, formulas and actionable strategies for anyone to be funny and witty, fast. Her work has been featured on Science of People, Humor That Works and Medium publications, gathering more than 100K views.

Check out the show notes and listen to/download EP 368: How to Be Funnier on Dates (Even if You’re Not Funny) below.

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When and How to Set Boundaries in Dating

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Do you know how and when to set boundaries in dating? In this video, you’ll learn why boundaries are so important…even before the first date!

A woman in my Facebook group posted to the group about having a picnic date for a first meet/date with someone she met online. She was concerned about the food being ‘spiked’ with a date rape drug. Here’s what she said:

1st date Picnic Question:

I feel a bit uncomfortable having a 1st date/meeting picnic after learning of a good friend’s drink (she is 53) was spiked at a busy club (in New Orleans) and her subsequent abduction and rape.

I went on a picnic date a month ago and only ate/drank what was sealed and opened in front of me. The guy seemed miffed that I skipped all the other things he brought. We did not go on a 2nd date for other reasons.

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How to Have Difficult Conversations With Your Partner

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If you’re like most people, you shy away from having difficult conversations with your partner. In this video, learn my 4-step method for speaking up!

Do you shy away from having difficult conversations in dating and relationships? If having a root canal sounds like a more pleasant alternative than speaking up about sex, money, or any other challenging topic, today’s video is for you!

Here’s the thing…most people have never been taught HOW to have a difficult conversation. That’s why it’s so scary.

Well, that changes today!

Because if you’re going to have a difficult conversation, you need to prepare. Preparation helps you feel confident and empowered. And, if you’ve prepared well, the conversation will be less stressful, and you’ll be far less afraid to speak up the next time.

I share a few tips on how to prepare for the conversation, and then you’ll hear my highly effective 4-step method for having difficult conversations when you’re dating or in a relationship.

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