I’m in my late fifties, and I find it hard to meet men online that I want to date more than once. I’ve been out on four dates with ‘Johnny’. I like him enough to continue getting to know him, but not enough to be exclusive. After our last date, Johnny told me he wanted to be exclusive with me. When is the ‘right’ time to let him know that I’m not yet ready for that kind of relationship with him? I want to keep my options open. What’s the best way to tell him? I don’t want to hurt his feelings.