Q & A Wednesday: What if He Doesn’t Say “I Love You”?

love, dating, i love you, love questions, dating coach, dating after divorceDear Sandy,

I’ve been dating Josh for about three months. He’s a great guy, good-looking, smart, and most importantly, he treats me with respect. I’ve had a tough dating and relationship history. I was engaged to a guy who never followed through with his promises and broke off the engagement. I was married to a man who cheated. Trust has been difficult for me. I’ve been following your great advice, and I now love and respect myself so much more. Because of that, I’ve been able to slowly develop this wonderful relationship. So I don’t want things to go wrong. Here’s the problem: Josh has never said “I love you”. I feel that he really cares, but I’d feel so much better if I heard those words. Am I being silly or insecure? Or should I be concerned if he doesn’t say those three magic words?

Thanks so much,

Ginny

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