How to Write Effective Online Dating Messages

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If you’ve ever experienced the frustration of online dating messages that go unanswered, I have a step-by-step script for you here.

One of the most frustrating aspects of online dating is writing messages that don’t get responses. Most don’t even get opened. When I first started dating online after my divorce, I would write long heartfelt messages to the men I liked. If I didn’t get a response, I’d take it personally. “Am I not pretty enough, young enough, sexy enough, don’t live close enough, etc. (fill in the blank with your insecurity of choice)?”

As a dating coach, I now know that when a man doesn’t respond, it’s not personal. There are so many reasons why messages don’t get responses. And if a person doesn’t answer you, it’s not rejection. How can you be rejected if you don’t know each other? While it’s not rejection and it’s not personal, you might be making a few online dating message mistakes without even realizing it. That’s why I’m going to show you how to write effective online dating messages that will get more responses.

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