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Don’t Sleep With Him Yet!

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You meet a great guy. The chemistry is off the charts! Don’t sleep with him yet, says my podcast guest, Dr. Nancy Lee. Listen in to find out why.

My podcast guest, Nancy F. Lee, PhD, is a clinical psychologist in private practice in Beverly Hills, California. She is a leading practitioner of cognitive behavior therapy and specializes in a wide range of behavioral health issues ranging from depression and anxiety to male/female psychosexual desire and functioning. In this podcast episode, we talked about her new book, Don’t sleep with him yet, a badass guide to dating in 10 empowered steps.

Check out the show notes for EP 359: Don’t sleep with him! How to navigate sex and dating.

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Why Do All Men Want to Have Sex on a First Date?

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Do all men really expect sex on a first date? Have standards changed that much since the advent of online dating, and should you just go with the flow? 

Hi Sandy,

I’ve recently put myself out there in the dating scene following the death of my partner. I keep hearing conflicting advice regarding men’s expectations on the first date.

I am a very youthful looking 68 year-old female. I am told I look mid-fifties, but this isn’t the point, just background info.

I grew up in the fifties and sixties with high values. I did not believe in sex on first, or even second, third or fourth dates. I am now told that men expect sex on the first date, and that I shouldn’t be shocked by that, and it no longer holds the same stigma that it once did. What’s happened to our values? Or is it just me?

I’d like to hear your thoughts and what men have to say on this subject. I’d like to know men’s opinions on the ‘respect’ aspect now that we are ‘of age’. Should I throw my ‘holding myself in high regard’ out the window?


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