Are You Dating a Narcissist? Here’s a Better Question…

Dating a Narcissist

He’s a narcissist! The word gets thrown around way too much. In this video, I ask,”Are you dating a narcissist? Here’s a better question to ask…”

Are you dating a narcissist? If you’ve ever been in an emotionally abusive relationship, you may be tempted to label every man who exhibits those selfish and toxic traits as a narcissist. In this video, I discuss why it’s important to NOT label men as narcissists, but instead, learn to recognize the signs of someone who is TOXIC to you.

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10 Character Traits of Men Who Are Unsafe to Date

Unsafe to DateHave you ever been with a man who seemed so wonderful at first—until the red flags showed up? Here are 10 character traits of men who are unsafe to date.

There are some crafty men who put on a good act. They seem amazing at the beginning—loving, showering you with gifts, introducing you to their family right away. Eventually, you find him to be unsafe to date. What I mean is he is unkind, untrustworthy, maybe even abusive.

Many of us are not trained to see the signs of someone who’s emotionally unsafe to date, especially early on. If you want to find EPIC love, you need to be able to quickly pick up on those red flags, especially the subtle ones.

This is something I spent a lot of time studying after my divorce. I not only wanted to save myself from future heartbreak, I wanted to help as many women as I could to date with dignity and self-respect, and to attract in a man of integrity, someone they could trust. That is my mission at Last First Date.

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10 Signs You’re Dating an Emotionally Unavailable Man

 

emotionally unavailable

Ever date an emotionally unavailable man? You know how heartbreaking it can be. Watch this video and learn how to stop investing any more energy in emotionally unavailable men!

How many times have you dated a man—for a month, six months, a year, a decade—only to learn he was emotionally unavailable for a relationship?
Watch this video to learn the ten signs that will help you QUICKLY identify whether he is available or not, so you can go on YOUR LAST FIRST DATE!

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Are You Doomed to Repeat Relationship Mistakes of Your Past?

 

Have you wondered if you’re doomed to repeat the relationship mistakes of your past? You’re not alone. Listen to today’s video to learn how to choose healthier relationships.

We want to give you some new ways to think about your past relationship mistakes and their impact on the relationships you have today and in your future. My colleague, Theresa Byrne, and I love to teach about boundaries, and today’s topic is an example of applying both internal and external boundary setting skills.

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How to Break Free From Codependent Family Patterns

If you grew up in a codependent home, this episode will help you break free from the patterns of enabling and giving up your needs for others.

How many times have you lost yourself in some chronic family crisis, giving and giving until there is no more left to give—and yet you give more. Out of love, out of duty, out of knowing that everyone looks to you?

My radio guest, Jodee Prouse, knows about codependent family patterns from personal experience. Her memoir, The Sun Is Gone, is about trying to halt the alcoholic decline of her beloved brother amidst a lifetime of codependent family crisis and dysfunction. It is both a cautionary tale and a beacon of hope for women to find the strength to make difficult yet healthy choices.

Her motto is: LEARN. ACCEPT. FORGIVE. AND HEAL. Check out highlights below of episode #281: The Power to Stop Enabling in Relationships.

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