"Learn how to quickly and easily improve your COMMUNICATION with men!"

Wouldn't You Love to Know Exactly What to Say to Men... 

...to have the deepest, most authentic relationships?

What if you could...

  •  UNDERSTAND MEN and know what they REALLY WANT in a relationship. (It's not what you think.)
  •  Know WHAT TO SAY to inspire a man put his arms around you and want to DO ANYTHING TO PLEASE YOU. (When you know these things, you will be irresistible to him!)
  • Always know the exact words that will CONNECT TO A MAN'S HEART-ESPECIALLY WHEN YOUR FEELINGS ARE HURT. (You will no longer be at a loss for words when you're feeling the most vulnerable. You'll know what to say and how to say it, and he'll actually listen and respond!)

  • Are you tired of feeling confused, ignored, misunderstood, and sometimes even invisible to men? 
  • Would you like to know how to ask a man for what you want and need---clearly, concisely, and powerfully?
  • Do you wish you had the exact words to express hurt feelings---and get even closer to him?

Sometimes men say one thing ("I'll call you") and do another (you never hear from them again). Why do men promise and not follow through?

Have you ever tried to have an important conversation with a man, but know in your heart that he's not really listening? His eyes glaze over as you tell him how hurt you feel, and you can't believe it. Why won't he hear you? Does he simply not care? 

What about when you tell him you're trying to eat healthy, and he brings you a box of chocolates? Why isn't he paying attention? Is he selfish - or is he just being a man?

How do you tell him you're unhappy/angry/sad/frustrated without feeling like a nag or a broken record?

"I'd rather hang out with my girlfriends!"  

I get it. Talking to your girlfriends is so much easier than talking to most men. ​But you want a relationship with a MAN!

You want intimacy. You want to talk and have men really hear you.

Are Men Really From Mars?

  • Men and women often see the world through different lenses
  • We're biologically different
  • Our brains are different, mostly because we are raised so differently
  • We process emotions differently
  • We communicate differently

The first step in communicating effectively is learning how to understand men.

When you truly know how to get through to men, your relationships will become easier, deeper, and much more intimate.

I'll teach you how to talk to men about ANYTHING! 

In this Comprehensive DIY Course, You'll Get:

    •  Four 90-Minute Master Training Videos (value: $600)
    •  Four Handouts and Weekly Exercises (value $250)
    • A Man Panel to learn from real MEN (value: $250)
    •  Four 90-Minute Audio Recordings of every LIVE Training/coaching call (value $400)
    •  Three BONUS RECORDINGS (value: $300)

VALUE: $1,800


Learn the secret words that make men want to open up and get closer to you!

Discover how to get men to listen to you and value what you have to say--- especially when your feelings are hurt!

Connect deeply with the men you like and have the intimate healthy relationship of your dreams!

Do you want to communicate how you REALLY FEEL to a man - without pushing him away? 

You'll Learn How in this Powerful Course

 How to Talk So Men Will Listen, and Listen So Men Will Talk

A Proven System to Help You Communicate More Deeply and Effectively With Men

You will never have to second guess what to say to the men in your life...no matter what!

  1. Never Be at a Loss for the Right Words: With our scripts, you will have the templates you need to speak up, be heard, and be respected for your feelings and needs.
  2. Connect Deeply to the Heart of Your Man: When you understand men and know how to talk to them, you will be able to communicate effectively no matter how hurt or distant you feel.
  3. Learn Proven Communication Tools: I've curated all my best communication tools, and put it all together in easy-to-use templates. This information will change the quality of your relationships forever!

Here's what our happy clients have to say:

"I gained the confidence and communication skills to attract my husband!"

With Sandy's expert coaching, I gained the confidence and communication skills to attract my husband! Thank you Sandy, for being so pivotal to the quality of my life"
KaRen Wisconsin
"I learned to honor my needs by speaking up when feelings are hurt...""Sandy taught me to set clear boundaries in order to have healthy relationships with everyone in my life. Sandy is a great coach who is able to read between the lines and focus on what's important to help her clients grow and achieve their goals. I learned to honor my needs by speaking up when feelings are hurt. Thank you Sandy, for helping me reconnect to the self I lost along the way.”
Lynn Ohio

"THANK YOU so much for not only encouraging me to have this talk, but for thinking of such a wise and thoughtful way to begin an intimate connection..."

"I spent the night with my boyfriend last night AND I am very happy to report that prior to hopping into bed we sat on the couch and had our 'sex talk’. We discussed STDs, birth control, exclusivity and allowing time to ‘gel’ as sex partners. He was totally with me, very supportive and expressed many times how much he appreciated such a mature conversation. We both agreed that we wished we did such a thing in the past and wondered why such an obvious conversation is always over looked.

THANK YOU so much for not only encouraging me to have this talk, but for thinking of such a wise and thoughtful way to begin an intimate connection. My boyfriend and I are off to a good start."

single this holiday season
PAULA Kentucky

Who Is This For?

This course is for all women - single or married or in long-term relationships - who want to learn how to talk to men and finally be heard. I've helped thousands of women learn to stand in their power and speak up when they want to ask a favor or express hurt feelings with men. They know how to ask the hard questions and say what they feel without turning a man away.

I got a note from a client who had been feeling rejected when a man didn't call her after a wonderful weekend away. I helped her stop the negative self-talk ("I did something to turn him off", "I'm not good enough for him"). 

She set up a time to talk and learn the truth. It was scary at first. But after speaking with him, her stomach stopped hurting. She was grateful to know how he really felt. She walked away with her head held high. She felt empowered---like a woman of value

What Do You Get?

  • Four 90-minute master training videos taught by Sandy Weiner
  • Four 90-minute Audio files of every module ready to download so you can listen any time!
  • Class #1: Learn to Identify and Express Your Feelings and Needs 
    Class #2: Discover How to Understand Men
    Class #3: "Man-Scripts" for Practicing Any  Tough Conversation 
    Class #4: The Last First Date Man Panel & Wrap Up Party!
  • Handouts, exercises, and 'MANSCRIPTS' to simplify communication with men
    • 3 BONUS RECORDINGS with valuable information to help you date with dignity and have rich healthy relationships
  • The Last First Date MAN PANEL, a handpicked panel of insightful, enlightened, truthful men who answer questions about men & romance---from a guy's point of view. Priceless! Some women consider this to be the best part of the Last First Date courses!  

  • You'll Learn:

    • How to know without a doubt if A MAN IS INTO YOU
    • EXACTLY how men feel about your VERBAL and NON-VERBAL CUES
    • Which things you’re saying or doing that MIGHT BE TURNING MEN OFF
    • What helps a man see you as a WOMAN OF VALUE
    • And much more!

Sandy is no doubt the reason I am in a healthy loving relationship with a wonderful man! I had been single for a very long time and dated so many men who were either emotionally or physically unavailable. Often times I ignored red flags or I was too quick to write them off. I never thought it would be possible to meet someone online, much less spend the rest of my life with them.

Sandy helped me to see my value and communicate my needs without sounding needy or critical. That is what truly made the difference in attracting the right man. I have done a lot of work and knew that Sandy was special. Her wisdom and life experience is what saved my relationship that I thought would never work. Sandy has the ability to coach and guide you on how to get clarity around your needs and to be a treated like a woman of value! If a true loving relationship is what you want, trust me Sandy is worth the investment!



MP3 Recording: Balancing Your Heart & Head in Dating



MP3 Recording: How to Stop Loving the People Who Hurt Us



MP3 Recording: How to Understand Men!


What I learned in this course:

1. My well being is my priority.

2. I need to ask questions up front [in a relationship] and not be afraid of the answers. If the answer is not what I want, then I need to make a decision on how to go forward.

3. I also learned how to use the words: "I felt _______ when you did or said ______" instead of assuming. I'm learning to be more gentle in how I express myself.

I'm happy that I invested in this course, Sandy, and I'm happy that I'm working with you to improve my relationship with my boyfriend.

What Does it Cost?

VALUE: $1,950



Here's our guarantee: Try the How to Talk to Men DIY Course for 7 days. We've packed so much value into this course, we're pretty sure it will change your life. If you're not satisfied, just let us know and we'll send you a refund. 

Wouldn't You Love to Know How to Talk to Men - No Matter What?

With the tools you learn in How to Talk So Men Will Listen, And Listen So Men Will Talk, you will effortlessly connect more deeply with men in every part of your life. 

"To effectively communicate, we must realize that we are all different in the way we perceive the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others.” 

-Tony Robbins

Wishing you love and empowered communication,

Lori King

I said to myself, "I really need to learn how to communicate with men"....and in popped your course email into my inbox.!

Thanks so much for all of the information you shared. I am a sponge for knowledge and have absorbed so much. I am already putting so much into practice.

I really believe the information will help me immensely in my next intimate/romantic relationship - it's already helping in my life in general (work, friendships, etc.). Just wanted to say... thanks!!!! 

P.S.: After learning these skills, you'll never again have to worry about how he really feels about you. You'll never have to stuff your feelings for fear of not being heard. You'll have deeper, more authentic relationships with men. And your man will want to do anything to make you happy. If you don't jump on this opportunity right now you'll be missing out on having the relationship of your dreams.

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* Note: The title for this course was inspired by the work of Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish, authors of my parenting bible, "How to Talk so Kids Will Listen & Listen so Kids Will Talk."