Client Success

– Jennifer, Pennsylvania
“I wanted to finally break my pattern of dating emotionally unavailable men, and I was overwhelmed and intimidated by online dating. That’s why I hired Sandy—to help me date online with increased self-love, dating and communication skills, and confidence. Sandy wrote an excellent profile that captured the real me, selected the best pictures, and most importantly, showed me that online dating could be a positive and fun experience.
I gained the confidence to be my true self when communicating with and meeting men. I am now in a wonderful relationship with a really good man. I believe he’s in my life, because Sandy helped me step out of my comfort zone, speak up as a woman of value, and attract a man with the qualities I want and need in a relationship. Thank you Sandy!”
– Leslie B., Portland, OR
“I recommend Sandy for anyone who wants to gain more confidence in themselves and attract better dates. She created a dating profile that captured who I really am and who I’m searching for. Sandy helped me identify my true “Must- Haves” and “Deal Breakers” so I could navigate the dating apps with greater success. A former pleaser who lost myself in relationships, I changed my dating patterns and now show up more authentically on dates. All in all, with my newfound confidence in myself and in dating, I know I’ll meet the love of my life! Thank you, Sandy!” – Megan W, Chicago
“While it wasn’t an easy decision for me financially, I am happy to share that I have no regrets signing up for coaching with Sandy. She’s not afraid to go to hard places with her clients. Her comprehensive and customizable dating program helped me gain valuable insight to what was blocking me from finding the right man for me. I was able to learn to better manage and reduce my relationship anxiety and improve my ability to communicate my needs. While doing the program, I met my boyfriend. It’s still a new relationship, but he’s wonderful and I think he’s here to stay! Thanks Sandy for all that you did for me!”
– Jenn, New Jersey
“I hired Sandy after getting dumped. I kept getting into the same type of relationships and I wanted something better. Sandy helped me find a new confidence in myself. I now realize I am smart and pretty and brave and capable and just as deserving of good things as anyone else.
Thanks to the work we did, I moved to Chicago to be closer to my kids, and I got a new job making 30% more! Sandy helped me through each step and taught me that you cannot always control everything, so deal with one thing you can control, then the next, then the next. My gratitude journal is always full because I am so very blessed! The next thing on my vision board is a great and healthy relationship, which I know – just like everything else on that board, is coming soon! I cannot thank you enough for the way you have changed my life. Everyone around me sees the confidence and overall happiness I now have! Thank you Sandy, for all you do for women to set them free.”
– G.C., Chicago
Sandy helped me really understand my own version of co-dependence- how it was showing up in my life and what to do to heal. The biggest ah-ha was finding out I was functioning from a place of disconnect- I had been making choices and taking actions with no regard for myself- I was entirely other focused instead of self-focused. Of course that does not feel good! So I learned to notice when my boundaries were getting stepped on and how to communicate this to others. This is a tricky process because for me much of it had been unconscious. Having continual guidance along the journey is vital.
Additionally- really exploring and getting clarity around my values and how to look for these while dating is vital.
I no longer date men who are not right for me- I do not force myself to accept dates with men I’m not interested in. I take good care of myself and I am happier deep down. I make healthy choices in my day to day life. I feel comfortable having conversations with people wherever I go and I enjoy flirting.
I know I will be able to share my heart with my partner; I feel capable of giving and receiving love.”
– Lori
“I’m so excited to see what is next for me but don’t have the feeling I need to grab at straws, or men, just to complete my life. I now have the confidence to reach out to others, whether it be male, female, young, old, and share their sorrows and joys.
It’s easy for me to talk with strangers or dates without judging either myself or them. I’m not pining away for someone to rescue me from myself, but sharing myself with others.
A light inside has been turned on and I’m sharing the real me with the world! Thank you, Sandy, for being who you are and giving your gifts to those in need!”
– Maureen B., Washington
You can read more about Maureen’s story here.
“At 78, I never thought I would use a dating coach, let alone go online to find companionship. But I very much wanted to have relationships with men again after being alone for 8 years after my divorce. Sandy was very sensitive to my trepidations and listened with genuine empathy. A true professional, she expressed what she feels is absolutely essential to successfully navigating dating: being a woman of value.
I needed to increase my self-love, with the knowledge that a man would be fortunate to have me in his life, not only the other way around. Through specific exercises and visualizations Sandy helped me to internalize this in a way that made a difference.
I began to attract men in a way I never had before and to relate to them as myself. Sandy is solid not only as a professional, but trustworthy as a human being. If you are lucky enough to work with her, you’ll learn essential life and love skills as your self-worth increases, and you’ll relate to men in a whole new way.”
– Susan, Manhattan, New York
My turning point came when I was able to tell from early on the telltale signs of a dysfunctional relationship. I let that man go with dignity. I was never able to do this for myself before being coached by Sandy! I met the greatest guy and we’ve been together for two years. Sandy, you changed my life!!”
– Debbie D. Rye, NY

– Jane Pollak, Certified coach, author, speaker and lifestyle entrepreneur at Janepollak.com
After my last relationship ended, I wondered why I was in this place again. I invested in coaching with Sandy to learn, grow and evolve into my best self. I gained insight about my must-haves in a partner, what makes me truly happy, and how to succeed in authentically connecting with men. Sandy is a special person with great intellect, skill, and most of all compassion to assist you in peeling away the layers to help you become your very best, which is critical to your future happiness and truly finding LOVE!
I now have such clarity and come from a position of strength, insight and confidence about life, love and all relationships. I’m happy to report that I’m in the best relationship of my life!
– Lisa M., Connecticut
– Violet, California
I cannot say enough about the benefits of working with Sandy. I am a very confident and happy woman now. I have good boundaries and have learned to speak up for myself in a loving but firm way. I am also very clear on what it is I want and need in a relationship going forward. I am attracting high quality men who value me. I now know myself and love myself….that is the best feeling in the world! Thank you, Sandy from the bottom of my heart!!!!!”
– Patti, Texas
– Shani S, Connecticut
She tweaks and tailors to attract who we want in our lives. Clever and compassionate, I find myself quoting Sandy frequently. One of my favorites is, “Avoid {being guarded and} dating backwards. Be soft on the outside and strong on the inside to attract a good man.” The pool of gentlemen responding to me and asking for a first date has increased and improved dramatically. Sandy, I promise to invite you to my wedding!”
– JCJ, California
– Becky P, Princeton, New Jersey
– Stephanie, New York City, NY
– Lynn, Ohio
I had been married for 20 years to a man who was a mamma’s boy, selfish, and demanding. I often felt like I was his mother. After my divorce, I was determined to find a man who would give of himself and treat me like a woman of value. But until I worked with Sandy, I did not know my value. I had never put myself first! I am an accomplished businesswoman, and people tell me I’m a real catch. But I could not see it.
Sandy and I worked together, and I read books she recommended. Sandy was always there for me. When my boyfriend came back, I happily got back together with a new understanding of his needs and how to express mine. After a year, I realized I was no longer in love with him, and I ended the relationship.
I truly feel good about myself. I have stayed friendly with my boyfriend but I am not in love with him any longer. In fact, I do not have a boyfriend now, and for the first time in my life, I feel liberated! I have a full life; my business, my girlfriends, travel, a wonderful family. If I want a relationship, in the future, you will be the first person I call!
Sandy, you changed my life! Thank you for being there for me when I needed reassurance and feeling that someone loved me. Today I know I am a woman of value!
– Louise, Canada
– Jasmine, California
– Peggy, CT