I was so dead inside from a bad marriage and nasty divorce. I didn’t feel a spark for anyone I dated.

Soon after we stated working together, I went on a first date with CJ. I told Sandy I didn’t feel anything, but she suggested I go on a second date. 

He was not who I would normally date. Blue-collared smoker with a past. I wrote him off. I kept dating him just to prove Sandy wrong. But after a wonderful 4th date and some wine/liquid courage, I fell hard and was all in.

We got married in September, 2024, and Sandy officiated! Thank you, Sandy, for helping me fall in love with a wonderful man! 

- Cara, Florida

I wanted to finally break my pattern of dating emotionally unavailable men, and I was overwhelmed and intimidated by online dating.

That’s why I hired Sandy---to help me date online with increased self-love, dating and communication skills, and confidence. Sandy wrote an excellent profile that captured the real me, selected the best pictures, and most importantly, showed me that online dating could be a positive and fun experience.

I gained the confidence to be my true self when communicating with and meeting men.

I am now in a wonderful relationship with a really good man. I believe he’s in my life, because Sandy helped me step out of my comfort zone, speak up as a woman of value, and attract a man with the qualities I want and need in a relationship. Thank you Sandy!

- Leslie, Oregon

I recommend Sandy for anyone who wants to gain more confidence in themselves and attract better dates. She created a dating profile that captured who I really am and who I’m searching for. Sandy helped me identify my true “Must- Haves” and “Deal Breakers” so I could navigate the dating apps with greater success.

A former pleaser who lost myself in relationships, I changed my dating patterns and now show up more authentically on dates. All in all, with my newfound confidence in myself and in dating, I know I’ll meet the love of my life! Thank you, Sandy!

- Megan, Chicago

Sandy's not afraid to go to hard places with her clients. Her comprehensive and customizable dating program helped me gain valuable insight to what was blocking me from finding the right man for me.

I learned how to better manage and reduce my relationship anxiety and improve my ability to communicate my needs.

While doing the program, I met my boyfriend. It’s still a new relationship, but he’s wonderful and I think he’s here to stay! Thanks Sandy for all that you did for me!

- Jenn, New Jersey

I hired Sandy after getting dumped. I kept getting into the same type of relationships and I wanted something better. Sandy helped me find a new confidence in myself. I now realize I am smart and pretty and brave and capable and just as deserving of good things as anyone else.

Sandy also helped me get clarity on my move to Chicago to be closer to my kids, and she guided me to find a new job making 30% more!

My gratitude journal is always full because I am so very blessed!  The next thing on my vision board is a great and healthy relationship, which I know – just like everything else on that board, is coming soon!

I cannot thank you enough for the way you have changed my life. Everyone around me sees the confidence and overall happiness I now have! Thank you Sandy, for all you do for women to set them free!

- G.C., Chicago

I hired Sandy because I was stuck in a long cycle of unhealthy relationships, unable to figure out why I was repeating these patterns. When we began to work on values, I understood more about the choices I’ve made. I had never learned how to identify my own personal set of values, where they came from, and how to clearly communicate my feelings and needs to others. That was a game-changer!

As a result of the work we did together, I’ve become a much more secure person - balanced, thoughtful, and self-aware. I make better decisions - personally, professionally, and in the wonderful intentional relationship I’m now in. I no longer second-guess myself, because my life is based on my core values, not someone else’s opinions. You helped me develop the best relationship with an incredible man, find a job that works for me by asking the right questions, and improve all of my relationships with honest and authentic conversations. I’m much happier, more at ease, and love the skin I’m in. Thank you!

- Kat, Vermont

Working with Sandy was exactly what I needed! She knew I had issues to deal with before I could ever be a healthy partner in a relationship.

Through coaching, she taught me to recognize some of my remaining anger at my ex-husband; helped me to acknowledge the traumas experienced in my life and understand their impact on my life choices; trained me to FEEL my feelings; and shared that it is perfectly okay for a "nice" person to have negative feelings and to express them.

Most importantly, I learned to be REAL - authentic - and to accept myself and express myself As Is. I feel free to be exactly who I am at all times, with all people.

What a wonderful life change, which has lead to the establishment of a long-term relationship with a fantastic man who loves me for exactly who I am, because he is certain who that is! And so am I!

At 78, I never thought I would use a dating coach, let alone go online to find companionship. But I very much wanted to have relationships with men again after being alone for 8 years after my divorce.

Sandy was very sensitive to my trepidations and listened with genuine empathy. A true professional, she expressed what she feels is absolutely essential to successfully navigating dating: being a woman of value.

I needed to increase my self-love, with the knowledge that a man would be fortunate to have me in his life, not only the other way around. Through specific exercises and visualizations Sandy helped me to internalize this in a way that made a difference.  

I began to attract men in a way I never had before and to relate to them as myself. Sandy is solid not only as a professional, but trustworthy as a human being. If you are lucky enough to work with her, you’ll learn essential life and love skills as your self-worth increases, and you'll relate to men in a whole new way.

- Susan, Manhattan

I came to Sandy devastated and heartbroken after a messy divorce and a failed 18-month relationship with someone I thought I would marry. I had lost myself.

Through Sandy’s coaching, I won back the self-love, dignity and self-respect I had abandoned so long ago. I was able to clearly articulate what was important to seek in my mate and not settle for anything less.

My turning point came when I was able to tell from early on the telltale signs of a dysfunctional relationship. I let that man go with dignity. I was never able to do this for myself before being coached by Sandy! I met the greatest guy and we've been together for two years. Sandy, you changed my life!

- Debbie, Connecticut

I grew up with an unhappy mother who put me down regularly, which resulted in very low self esteem, in spite of my business success.  However, at age 68, after two divorces, I was still determined to find a life partner.

I liked Sandy's approach, and I learned  how to communicate with men and speak up with kindness right away and how to set clear boundaries.

I developed my 5 "must-haves" which helped me walk away quickly if a man didn't have all of them. Sandy's Love Life Makeover Coaching Program helped me fine-tune my dating and relationship skills.

Everything I learned (communicating, boundaries, must-have's and recognizing my gremlins) I use in my everyday life now.  I know I will recognize a quality man and be a woman of value for him.

- Anne, Colorado

Sandy was a positive, gentle and knowledgeable guide through the murky waters of post-divorce dating.

She helped me laugh, and when necessary, lifted my chin back up and not take any of it too seriously.

I highly recommend Sandy for her tenderness and compassion along with her positive modeling of the process of dating after divorce.

- Jane, Manhattan

After my last relationship ended, I wondered why I was in this place again. I invested in coaching with Sandy to learn, grow and evolve into my best self. I gained insight about my must-haves in a partner, what makes me truly happy, and how to succeed in authentically connecting with men. Sandy is a special person with great intellect, skill, and most of all compassion to assist you in peeling away the layers to help you become your very best, which is critical to your future happiness and truly finding LOVE!

I now have such clarity and come from a position of strength, insight and confidence about life, love and all relationships. I'm happy to report that I'm in the best relationship of my life!

- Lisa, Connecticut

Sandy helped me understand how to be more discerning about who I let into my life by setting boundaries early and often in relationships--of all kinds, not just those with new men.

I am more highly attuned to recognizing warning signs and more confident in setting the boundaries I need to be true to myself.

- Violet, California

When I hired Sandy, the challenges I was facing were lack of boundaries in relationships and overcompensating and doing too much for the men in my life. That behavior was drawing the wrong type of men to me. The users could smell it!

I cannot say enough about the benefits of working with Sandy. I am a very confident and happy woman now. I have good boundaries and have learned to speak up for myself in a loving but firm way. I am also very clear on what it is I want and need in a relationship going forward.

I am attracting high quality men who value me. I now know myself and love myself....that is the best feeling in the world! Thank you, Sandy from the bottom of my heart!

- Patti, Texas

As a recently divorced mother of three, the idea of plunging back into the dating scene seemed insurmountable. Sandy helped me choose a dating site, set up my profile, and worked with me on my profile essay and photos. I could not have come this far (or had any dates) without her intervention.

Sandy listened, understood me, and was truly empathetic. It takes time to find the right man, and I had Sandy to help me persevere. I found the love of my life we are married! Thank you, Sandy!

- Shani, New Jersey