Bonus Mistake #4
You’re trying to control what you can’t
and you're not taking control where you can!
In the comments below, let me know your key take-aways from today's bonus video, and answer the following two question:
1. In dating and relationships, where is it hard for you to speak up and show up and take control where you can?
2. In what ways are you trying to take control where it’s actually sabotaging and working against you?
The reason many of you are not getting second or third dates is not because you’re not pretty or young or smart or thin enough!
It’s because you meet a man you barely know, and if you’re attracted, you try to find out quickly if he’s the One. In essence you’re trying to control men. And men don’t like that! It’s a huge turnoff. What you’re doing is creating your own scarcity in dating, which is the opposite of what you’re setting out to do, to find love.
When you try to rush or force him to do something he’s not ready to do yet, it doesn’t work.
You can influence people and circumstances, but you can't force things to go your way.
It's our masculine energy that wants to know where the relationship is going before he's ready to commit. It's our anxiety that makes up stories in our heads about him seeing other women.
Are you done with your old patterns, ready to become the woman of value who knows how to un-guard her heart, lead in dating and relationships with her beautiful feminine grace, and communicate with men in a way that makes them feel like the luckiest man in the world?
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Leave your comments below:
(If you missed the first three videos, check them out below!)
You're Dating Like a Tootsie Pop!
Mistake Number 2:
You're Not Leading with Your Femininity
Mistake Number 3:
You don’t know how to communicate effectively with men