What the Heck is Masculine and Feminine Energy?

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Are you unknowingly turning off the men you like by leading with masculine energy? Here’s how to lead with your feminine energy—without dumbing yourself down.

What is feminine and masculine energy? And why do we need to know about this when we’re dating…especially after 40? We all have both feminine and masculine energy. It’s about what we lead with in dating that makes the difference in how we form attraction. Feminine energy helps us know whether a man is going to be interested in us as a woman with a capital W or as a colleague or friend. If you want to get out of the ‘friend zone’, then you’re going to want to lead with your feminine energy (unless you want a man who leads with his feminine energy. Most women do not.)

What the Heck is Masculine and Feminine Energy?

Defining Masculine and Feminine Energy

Feminine energy is:
  • receiving
  • nurturing
  • creating
  • warmth
  • being cherished for your feelings
Masculine energy is:
  • doing
  • achieving
  • building
  • right or wrong thinking
  • providing
  • protecting
  • being respected for your thoughts

It’s about leading with feminine energy

While we all possess both masculine and feminine energy, many of us lead with masculine
energy, because that is how we were able to succeed in at work, and it’s what made us good
parents. We’re so good at doing, doing, doing, taking care of things, and planning.
In dating, when you lead with all that doing, doing, doing, planning, and right or wrong thinking, you actually turn off the men you like. They don’t see you as a potential partner. They see you as more of a colleague.

It’s not about acting fake or giving up your power…

Being in your feminine energy doesn’t mean dumbing yourself down or acting like a helpless damsel in distress. It means leading with your feminine energy traits while still maintaining all the other parts of what makes you so awesome.
Watch the video to learn more. And stay tuned until the end for a special exercise to help you lead with your feminine in dating and relationships (without being fake or losing your power).


Do you lead with your masculine or feminine energy in dating? Please share in the comments below.


1 Comment

  1. Wow, you are right, feminine lead has lots of power. I am not use to that and could definitely use some examples I can later transform into my own moves. I came up with sharing my feelings about the movies, art, dance and architecture, and it works sometimes. Today I found something simpler: share my feelings after finding my lost makeup bag with all the best of my makeup. Sometimes it is getting hard to remember everything. Especially after 40. I got a very good masculine response to this one. Does anyone has more practical tips for feminine topics please?

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