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Do you find it difficult to meet men who inspire you? 

Maybe you've tried online dating and you're just not meeting the type of men you like. Or perhaps you've met a few interesting guys with potential, and you can't figure out why they didn't call you back.

Or you're not dating at all, afraid or confused about how to navigate the landscape of dating at this age. 

If you have had negative experiences with men in the past, you're not alone. You're yearning for a true connection and lasting love. You don't want to be alone. But you don't know how to find the beautiful connection you've always dreamed of.

Want to know the secret to deep lasting love? It begins with valuing yourself more by being a WOMAN OF VALUE.

What is a Woman of Value?

    • She knows and TRUSTS herself.
    • She is clear about her VALUES and STANDARDS.
    • She can express her FEELINGS and NEEDS with clarity and kindness.
    • She is PASSIONATE about life and says YES to opportunities that help her grow. 
    • She says NO to anything that doesn't ALIGN with who she is. 
    • She doesn't TWIST herself into a pretzel to PLEASE others.
    • She doesn't SECOND-GUESS herself about whether to continue dating a guy or walking away. 
    • She has let go of anger towards her exes. She knows that FORGIVENESS helps her move on to find the right partner. 
    • She has clear BOUNDARIES and is able to express them with grace and kindness. 

These are all skills you can learn, no matter what your relationship history has been. You can become the woman of value who attracts a quality man. And I will show you how at the Woman of Value Live Retreat.

This retreat will fast-track your journey to UNVEIL the woman of value that's already inside you, the woman who can effortlessly magnetize a good man.

Are you ready to learn how to attract quality men who appreciate and see you as the treasure you are?

Learn my unique step-by-step approach to reprogramming your beliefs, habits, and attitudes around love and intimacy at the Woman of Value Live Retreat!

Join me November 3-5 at the gorgeous Stamford Sheraton, only 45-minutes from New York City, easily accessible from 3 major airports.​

Spend 2 1/2 days with me, and you'll step into your true value. Because a woman of value effortlessly attracts the deep love she desires.
Where? At the beautiful Sheraton Hotel in downtown Stamford, Connecticut. Only 45-minutes from Manhattan, conveniently located near three major airports and public transportation from nearby cities. ​
When? 9 AM Friday, November 3rd until 1 PM Sunday, November 5th, 2017
Who? An intimate group of women between the ages of 40-70 who are ready to love themselves more and truly own their worth.

What People Are Saying About the Retreat...



"I’m in an awesome relationship with a man!"


"My most significant results from attending last year's retreat:

1. My sense of self and awareness of my value have definitely strengthened. I’m way more confident in interactions with men, and I’m not afraid to show my vulnerable side in an empowered feminine way (as we learned at the retreat).

2. I recognized red flags early on during the dating process. I was able to say farewell lovingly to 3 prospects without any deeper involvement.

3. Discovered and transformed my disempowering and sabotaging beliefs about men and relationships. I’ve learned to show acceptance and give appreciation to men in any situation. Hence my formerly tense relationship with my father has simply bloomed. 

And the most valuable result (drumroll here): 

4. I’m in an awesome relationship with a man since August. He has all the qualities I’ve described I desired on the Retreat a year ago. He is consistent, caring, romantic, a provider and is present in my life. He was fully supportive of me during my recent knee surgery, and takes loving care of me, encouraging and complimenting me on a daily basis. He is younger than me, but I don’t care, since thanks to him I’m having the blessing to experience everything I always dreamed of but never received from a man. He really treats me as a woman of value.

So if you are on the fence about joining the Woman of Value Retreat, I’m asking you lovingly to give yourself permission to invest in your happiness. You are truly worth it. Sandy teaches you the way to manifest it."

Vidya, New York

“The mock dates we did with flirting and the feeling and needs inventory…I loved it!

I’m actually seeing men drool…you know, in a good way! It’s given me a glimpse into the kind of epic love that’s possible. I didn’t have that in the past before. I’m so looking forward to it now, because it feels like it’s within my reach!”

Tünde, Hungary 

“This was the best decision of my life, coming over (from Hungary). I think that this program is mandatory for anyone who wants to have a happy relationship with a quality man.”

Amy, Connecticut 

“This was the best gift I could give myself, to be a woman of value. Sandy tried to understand each of our needs and has the content to meet each one of our needs. As women, we constantly want to improve ourselves, but how can we do it if we’re not aware of what to do? I like that Sandy gave us specific methods for how we can improve! I am sure this would be the best gift any woman could give to herself.”

At the retreat, you will...​

Gain more confidence in yourself

You'll be able to unleash your inner beauty, focusing on what makes you unique and wonderful. You'll become more confident in expressing your true self in all aspects of your life, especially with men. 

Understand how to connect to men over 40

I'll show you the differences between men and women so you can communicate better with men. You'll learn the most surprising mistakes women make in dating so you can immediately stop making them. Once you understand how to truly connect with men, your dating success will improve by leaps and bounds!

Break through barriers that are unconsciously keep you from finding true love

We'll take a deep look at your love blocks and the unconscious ways you're not letting love in. You'll experience a release like you've never felt before, where your guards melt and your heart reopens to letting love in.

Create a clear vision for your 'perfect' partner

You'll create your unique vision for the man of your dreams. You'll gain clarity about who he is, how you'll feel when you meet him, and so much more. Without clarity, you may be passing by your ideal partner without even knowing it!

Design a dating/relationship plan that works for you and your lifestyle

You will leave the retreat with a plan to continue the beautiful work you've just completed. It's important to continue this process so you're ready and able to date as a woman of value---with a new outlook on life and love. 

Here's What You'll Experience at the 

The Woman of Value Live Retreat​

2 1/2 days to transform your life and begin a journey of deep intimacy and epic love!

November 3rd

Day 1 [9-5 PM]


Understanding and identifying the gaps in your love life, and cultivating inner trust.

  • Build confidence in yourself and discover your unique gifts.
  • Let go of past pain and release the wounds, patterns and subconscious behaviors that sabotage your relationships.
  • Cultivate inner trust.
  • Learn to zap your saboteurs with a powerful exercise!
  • Create your unique vision for love.
  • Learn a powerful exercise to help you quickly connect to your highest 'Woman of Value' self, especially when you're feeling down.

November 4th

Day 2 [9-5 PM]


Understanding men, and learning how to communicate your standards and FLIRT!

  • Understand men: their basic needs, how they differ from women, and how to better interpret their actions and words.
  • Learn and practice effective communication skills for connecting with men with role play.
  • Learn how to set clear boundaries and flirt authentically.
  • Practice your new skills with the ALL NEW MAN PANEL. These hand-picked awesome men will answer your burning questions and help you understand how men really think and feel. 

November 5th

Day 3 [9-1 PM]


Formulating your unique dating and relationship plan, and learning the keys to sticking to it. 

  • Learn daily practices and tools to keep you centered and optimistic on your journey to love---no matter what happens. 
  • Create your unique dating and relationship plan so you don't get off track once you get home
  • Q & A session
  • It's a wrap!

Is This Retreat Right for You?


  • Women over 40 who are motivated to grow
  • Women who aren't afraid to be open
  • Women who are willing to deepen their learning
  • Women who believe that love is their birthright
  • Women who love sharing in community and having fun!


    • Women under 40      
    • Women who blame men for all their love challenges
    • Women who want a quick fix or dating rules
    • Women who aren't open to learning 
    • Women who think there are no good men

Join Today and Gain Immediate Access 
to These Valuable Bonuses!

A Private Group Forum

Join the Woman of Value Live Retreat Private Facebook Group, where you'll connect with me and fellow attendees before, during, and after the retreat. 


1/2 hour of free coaching (Value = $275)

Special limited bonus for the first 5 who sign up. Let's get on the phone and coach before the retreat begins. You can share a struggle you have in dating or relationships, and jumpstart your journey towards becoming a true woman of value. 


Bonus Video 

Interview with Sherri Nickols on Boundaries

Watch this special interview about boundaries, which is one of the important things I'll be teaching you at the retreat. This is a deep, authentic, interview by relationship coach, Sherri Nickols. 


Woman of Value Book!

Get your beautiful copy of the limited edition Woman of Value e-book, with 30 tips to becoming a woman of value. 


Exclusive Interview about love after 50

How to find love after 50, a wonderful interview with Jim Jenson, host of the Essential Boomer. 


Deeply personal interview with Matt Marr

'Dear Mattie' and I get real in this very personal interview. We also laugh a ton. You're in for a treat! 


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